In the midst of a transition, it’s really hard sometimes to see that things are ever going to change — be any different — than they are today.  It’s hard to see past today sometimes.  Well, actually, it’s hard to see past the moment sometimes.  I’ve found this to be true so many times — and, like most things that happen to me, I learn that they are, or have been, happening to others as well.  Trouble is, most of the time, we’re too isolated (or proud) to confess where we are or what we’ve done — especially if it’s…