The CPU barbecue

April 15, 2004  –  I’m using my husband’s computer to post today’s blog.  I’m left-handed challenged here—this is a wave keyboard on a right hand desk—sans a mouse, with a touch pad which is also for a right-handed, or creativity-challenged, person. [WHAT???  are you insulting me on  my own computer??!  –w B- I have a marvelous new fan for my computer downstairs and thanks to my guardian angel at Microsoft, I also have a new CPU—for which I am exceedingly grateful.  However, the latest fiasco didn’t stop with the failure of the fan and the subsequent CPU barbecue—no, it also took out the motherboard—which is one year and two weeks old. In less than a week’s time, the case downstairs has been converted into a foot rest, the desk top is a waste management collection site, there are various cords under the desk that appear to be reaching out trying to hook up to something and the silent black monitor looks as out of place on the desk as an open and empty upright freezer plugged into a Tonka truck would look in the middle of our living room.  It’s as if the non-functioning computer has rendered the once lively portion of the kitchen into a room that’s become useless except specifically at mealtime.  The kitchen in our home is generally an 18+ hour activity center each day!  [Not so, now.—w]

I’ve had a couple of these wave keyboards—well maybe a few of them, actually.  But I’ve found over the years that keyboards are essentially not Dr. Pepper friendly.  Every time a Dr. Pepper topples onto the keyboard, the whole day changes!  Now, I’ve gotten so fast at instantly inverting the keyboard,  allowing the DP to run all over the desk, the pull-out keyboard surface and any paperwork or books on the desk—but the keyboard (almost always) escapes damage.  Now… you might wonder how this lesson has been repeated and met with failure time and again.  I assure you, great care has always been exerted to save the DP—It’s a shame to see a full glass wasted, so every attempt is made to swipe up the glass and flip the keyboard over at the same time while juggling the wiggling child on my lap.  It’s an art, I tell ya!  Now I have two pieces of equipment to save in the process of avoiding the liquid contact—but I’ve found it to be far easier to grab the wireless keyboard and mouse and immediately stand up to avoid contact.  Incidentally, the price of the wireless keyboard-mouse has been a terrific incentive to place the mocha or DP elsewhere—Wes appreciates this small concession I’ve made. [yes, i do; and since you’re using my system, i’m also kinda enjoying this literary latitude with which i’m taking laconic liberties!]

I’ll attempt to publish this blog and if successful, I’ll attempt another entry later… I assure you, it will be my sincere effort to post something of value.

—with love, pamela

March 2004

March 31, 2004    Another month… another calendar page to flip over—revealing 9 months left in this year.  Now the year’s full speed ahead and it’ll pass us by before we know it!  Snow pictures tomorrow!

In the current climate of judicial tyranny and anarchy, they’re back in court again—this time to challenge the ban on Partial Birth Abortion.  It’s grievous that babies are being slaughtered by the millions but to be concerned that language or descriptive terms would add emotion to the cases is repulsive to me.  This, from WND: “In the New York trial, plaintiffs’ attorney A. Stephen Hut Jr. warned U.S. District Judge Richard C. Casey that graphic descriptions of partial birth abortion might add “an element of emotion,” reported AP. “It is the nature of this procedure itself that gives discomfort,” countered Assistant U.S. Attorney Sean H. Lane.” Ack!  It’s not reprehensible that millions of babies are being destroyed, it’s the procedure that gives discomfort?!?  The enormous avalanche of sin.  How dark will be that outer darkness!

This atrocity is more poignant to me today as I recall just yesterday seeing an hours old baby in the arms of her mother and the precious opportunity of life.  Abortion is surely no reproductive right!  A reproductive right, I suppose, is to say: yes or no.  Killing babies is no right.  It’ll be old people next, then disabled’s… then unproductive’s… it’s already happened to “undesirable races.”   The enormous-enormous avalanche of sin.  How vast will be that outer darkness!

Over the last week there’s been such a troubling situation in a neighbouring city.  The ordeal started with a cross burning on the lawn of the home of a local pastor who happens to be a black man, whose son was the “target.”  Jason Martin, pastor of the Jesus is Lord Life Tabernacle in Marysville, has remained forbearing and forgiving throughout the whole situation.  I share this because yet another angle of society that is targeted—not because of their choices, but because of who they are—big difference.  Area pastors and congregations rallied around this family in support to demonstrate solidarity.  This pastor’s attitude has been gracious toward the two young people who committed the offense—and he’s planning on seeing them.  They’ve apparently requested to speak to Pastor Martin to apologize in person, an opportunity that may present itself to them in the future, only it’ll likely not be as simple as they’d like.  Pretty good call by the judge in the case who’s not allowing home detention but sent them to Denney Juvenile Justice Center.  Though they said they were just bored and it was just a prank… that the cross burning “was just a spur-of-the-moment” event, according to court documents. “It was just a prank. We didn’t do it because we hated this kid.”  Hate crimes aren’t just spur of the moment deals and they’re not just pranks.  Especially not when that home had been targeted the previous week.  The real hope here is that the young men will repent and turn from their ways and yield to the LORD.  There’s something to be said of their trip to the Police dept. and voluntarily turning themselves in.

March 30, 2004  We praise the LORD for His mercy and grace, His loving protection and direction for our friends who’ve been blessed with their twelfth child born at home early this morning. There was a complication with the mother which necessitated a speedy trip to the hospital and a short stay there.  What a gift each of the children, the midwife and friends were in their ability to work together, to help one another, to each take charge of specific needs that enabled everything to be handled so smoothly.  The LORD surely met them in their time of need and we so pray that He’ll continue to provide and direct them and that in all this, He will be glorified!  It sure was hard to come home and go to bed this morning after spending some time at the hospital… I just continued to pray the LORD’s will be done.   With thoughts of that little newborn in the arms of her daddy, sweetly nestled in a large blanket, I smiled and drifted off to sleep.

New e-postcards from Karla Dornacher… so sweet and such a delight to receive!  It was a nice treasure to wake this morning and find one in the ‘inbox’ waiting for me!  Some artist’s proliferation of merchandise seems so contrived—but (to me) this artist really has a knack for choosing venues that are appealing.  I put her link up yesterday on the e-cards page before the (operator error) glitches.

Well, instead of blogging  last night as is my usual custom, I botched many pages, thus, you see the blank site index page… you can think of it as my blank stare, the sort of vacant look you receive in reply to your question: who made this mess?  So, it’s one of those love/hate times with the computer.  ‘Seems I inadvertently deleted data and then saved the page,  which in turn saved that blunder on every page… and let me just say not a few pages reflect this little error!   So we sure had a wonderful time away this past weekend.  What an incredible thing it was to be stomping around in 7 feet of snow in the mountains on Sunday… sledding and hiking, and then to have the brilliant sunshine and warm weather here on Monday!  We stayed at Hope Lodge—what an amazing story behind the construction and purpose of that lodge!  Some of our children look like they were in a war! It seems nothing could deter them from sledding down the slope and running back up again!  The flood lights allowed for late night sledding and the early morning sun beckoned them at about 5:40 Yep… that’s what I was thinking: Whaaaat?  It’s morning already?!?  They worked up a healthy appetite before breakfast.  I’ll put up some pics—later.

March 29, 2004  It’s a spectacularly bright and warm day—will blog when the sun goes down as it’s just too beautiful to stay inside today!

March 28, 2004  Happy birthday to my dear mother-in-law today!

March 27, 2004  You can read a cool new blog—World magazine’s website has a bloggreat news each day for you!

I believe this has been my favourite birthday—How grateful I am to and for my family—my precious family!  Surely the LORD has blessed me over and over again.  What a privilege it was to join others at the memorial service of cousin Kathryn Lindstöm.   Such a blessing it was to hear of God’s ways in her life, to hear testimonies of her influence on other’s lives and to see pictures and to sing and hear meaningful songs.  One of the passages read was from Ecclesiastes 7—It was especially meaningful to me as the LORD has been speaking to my heart about living in *this* season of life and living *in* and not *beyond* the moment.  We were encouraged to take from Kathryn’s life and live out those qualities which we most admired in her.  She loved the LORD and now beholds His face, she had unshakeable faith—she was, as was shared: a woman of stunning beauty and grace.   So, on my birthday, it was a very sweet privilege to go into the house of mourning, to join others in the celebration of her life and to hear the compelling challenge to live today very well.  This, from Ecclesiastes 7: “1 A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one’s birth. 2 It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. 3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. 4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.” 


A celebration with friends
and my family.


…singing “happy birthday”


I thought it was hysterical that
Andrew blew out my candles!


one of my great gifts
and great joys!


a very special “tea”


lollipops at the tea

March 26, 2004    I thank the LORD for this day, for this season and for His marvelous ways, and I thank Him for His blessing—for my mom and my late dad.  What a joy to continue celebrating my birthday with family and friends.  My sweet Kathryn made pies for my birthday—lemon meringue, chocolate cream and peanut butter-chocolate, pies.  Incredible!  I received a new Starbucks mug—and if you’ve seen them, you know they’re wonderful and large!  Also… a left-handed wooden spoon!  If you’re right-handed, you probably never considered that most every tool that is shaped is designed to be used in the right hand—therefore, the curve of the spoon is wrong for left handers who need things that are are right for lefties.~wink~   Think of all the things that are formed for the right hand—that mouse in your right hand, for example, or how about scissors or the position of the refrigerator’s cold and freezer sections—they’re always backwards.  There are many other things…

This will be a bittersweet day as our family gathers to say farewell for now to our dear cousin, Kathryn MacKerron Lindstöm, at a service of celebration of her life.  We’ll miss her sweet ways, her cheerful outlook and sunny disposition and cute hats.  We’ll always be grateful for what she taught us and how she loved life and made everyone feel special.

My Kathryn has made some not-so-secret plans for a party here in the evening after the service, and she’s planned some things with our daughter-in-law and my mom… so I am anxious for that.  All this is what I meant by bittersweet:  saying good-bye, celebrating with my family and rejoicing over a new life in our daughter-in-law.  All God’s ways are good.

March 25, 2004    I sure appreciate all the gracious letters I’ve received and the kind and encouraging words concerning this blog.  I so understand the need for encouragement and companionship in the home and that many women have very little support in their lives—so what a blessing it is to me to be able to share in this way.  I pray for the continued ability to do so and for wisdom to share.

It’s been a beautiful day with my mom today—a delicious lunch and some shopping for my not yet birthday!  Yes, I am really stretching this one out!  We reminisced days gone by, the happenings with the children and grandchildren and she shared with me hopeful things about being older.  She knows I am grieving the passing of a life-season and the entering a new season.  She bought me a beautiful white teapot and a tea-strainer for teacups.  We tasted some different coffees which were yummy!  There’s a joke around here sometimes that I oughtta just have a coffee-IV inserted—but it’s not for that, really,  I just love the taste of hot coffee with lots of cream—(and, uh… chocolate).  One of my favourites is  Millstone’s Chocolate Swiss-almond coffee.  Any mocha or latté is fine with me, too—but I really need to wait on having these!  I also have a favourite mug—it’s the perfect blue.  People who like navy and white stuff know what I mean about finding the perfect “blue”—and the just right cup is important, too! 

I have a wonderful new gift this birthday!  The LORD is blessing again—another grandchild is on the way!  I think our son was a bit dismayed to have to answer our questions… because he wasn’t sure it was time to divulge the news… but we, never ones to remain quiet on a hunch, just *had* to ask if a new baby was on the way—his stammering for an answer was just the perfect answer for us!  So… around election time, we anticipate our third grandchild.

I fondly remember looking over calendars probably hundreds of times to calculate and recalculate birthdates, due dates and weeks till babies would be born.  It was common for me to make dots and circles as I counted weeks… forty weeks from this date or 3 months less plus ten days from this date and so on.  I really should’ve bought a little wheel that my midwife used! Well, here’s a neat interactive tool on Ruth’s site that’ll calculate dates in an instant!

March 24, 2004    I’m smiling as I type this thinking that only my mom would notice that the colours of a double rainbow are opposite.  I know–if you’re like me you were thinking r-o-y-g-b-v… then v-b-g-y-o-r??  (Scroll down) and so… I’m thinking there must be some studied explanation for this… ‘will have to do some reading on this later on.

A friend and her daughters are taking my daughters and me out to a tea lunch today.  This is the first of my birthday celebrations—which I’m so happy to begin this way—even though today is not my birthday!  The months leading up to this birthday have felt heavy as I’ve grieved the passing of youth.  I suppose I’ll one day look back on these days and see that *these* were youthful days.  The things I’ll never be able to do again make me sad—things particular to younger women; and I so wish I’d had a better understanding to savour the moments of the years gone by.   But ‘am seeing that I’m becoming a part of a group in which I couldn’t participate or even understand when I was a younger woman; things particular to grandmothers, mothers-in-law and gray-haired ladies with calloused knees and lined faces, women who’ve both laughed and sorrowed a lot and have learned the hard way to trust and obey.  Anyway, I’ll take more pics as I’m realizing more and more the need to treasure these moments.  One of “life-lessons” I’m struggling to learn lately is to live—really live in the moments and not live over the moments.  Because of loading up the schedule all the time over the years, events, birthdays, responsibilities, etc. have been too often handled in a ‘checklist’ manner—especially if there were several things to do in a few days’ time—such that some occasions have been sort of stepping stones to the next—though each was significant—and I missed them, looking to the next.

No cool links today… and I’m deciding on purpose not to peruse the news or newsletters or congressional “alerts.”  Maybe tomorrow—but maybe not.  Though, a news junkie can’t leave it alone for many days—or hours.  I do have some book reviews and new sites to highlight—so more later on those.

March 23, 2004  Our Kathryn made the cutest cookies yesterday… she used my butter cookie recipe, prepared and shaped into little feet onto which she piped little toes and squiggles with thin white icing.  Some of the feet looked like there were little screws in them or incisions. (You’d have to know about the surgery to get it!—and they didn’t look bad!)  Anyway, we took them, some pictures and cards of thanks to her doctor.  I intend to remember him every Spring as the anniversary of her first surgery and to give thanks for the gift the LORD gave her through him.  I wanted him to have a pic and copy of Glenys’s poem and a pic of her with him last year.

Here are the cookies!
     

A spectacular double rainbow here monday afternoon!


I received this quote this morning from This Day’s Thought:
Righteousness as exemplified by Christ is not merely
the absence of vice or the presence of virtue.
It is a consuming passion for God
which sends you forth in His name to establish His Kingdom.
 —Irving Johnson

As this day began, we were mindful that our cousin, Bjorn, was facing this day alone… had gone to bed and had gotten up alone… and while we know that he’d tried to be prepared for what seemed to be the inevitable: his wife Kathryn’s passing, we know it’s so difficult to walk these next steps.  We do praise the LORD for His Hand in their lives and the testimony of cousin Kathryn’s life—she’d been living with cancer that required much of her over many years and yet, through the course of all these years, Christ was glorified and lifted up and her life was a testimony to the grace of God.  We thank you, LORD, for cousin Kathryn.

We just received the call saying that our precious cousin
~ Kathryn Lindstrom ~
has gone to be with the LORD; following many years of living with Cancer. What a blessing her life has been to countless many.   May the LORD be glorified.

She taught us a lot about really living… and now about dying.
How grateful we are to have just had a dinner gathering of the cousins here on Friday evening and had just had good fellowship together.  I took note at the time that everyone was giving and receiving genuinely loving hugs good-bye…  Cousin Kathryn was such a lovely woman who loved the LORD and now sees Him face to face…. no more pain, no more weakness—only JOY.


March 22, 2004


Ahhh Springtime—Welcome Springtime! What a blessing to look out, to look ahead and to get this year’s gardens underway!  I suppose the gardens have been underway for some time now—with all the clearing, pruning and tilling that’s being done.  I don’t like to start the seedlings too soon as they just shiver in the chilly ground when set too soon!  The rose bushes are coming along and the bulbs are blooming: the daffodils tipping their cups to Spring and the hyacinths making their fragrant debut.
The landscape in most Northwest gardens does not naturally look very beautiful for several months of the year and yet, it seems to me, there’s no comparison anywhere to the beauty of Spring and Summer in the Northwest!  I can never get over the colour of Spring… the brilliance of the greens and the exquisite bushes and flowers and on sunny days: the bluest skies.

The national news is not so beautiful and the international news is even worse!  Hamas vow to retaliate not only on Israel, but on the US as well.  On the homefront: In the news, a headline reads, Gay Marriages present pastors with a dilemma—I would think that WAY before this, the Bible presents them a greater dilemma!

March 20, 2004   You want to have a good time? Spend more time with your family…  Get out your shoeboxes of pictures—(O, does that surprise you?  Pictures in shoeboxes?)  Well, you know, it’s people like me who give inspiration and the creative impetus to scrap-booking companies!  ‘Sides,  if people like me didn’t need shoeboxes for pictures, do you think we’d need to buy as many shoes?  I know… you’re shaking your head—pamela, get off the becuter and get your pics in albums where, because of acidfree paper and ink, they’d be preserved for many generations!  I know what’s really going to happen: in a couple of decades… who are these people!?  (becuter is ami’s word for computer)

It’s so beautiful outside this morning—the kind of day that inspires the writing of worship songs and all to praise the LORD for the magnificent beauty of the earth.  Ahhhh Springtime!  The leaves that have been hidden in the  branches of the giant weeping willow beside our home are, it seems, exploding—and what’s been a giant upside-down tan string-mop for several months is now the most brilliant green fountain of Spring!  It’s ringed by daffodils and jonquils—some we’ve added, some’ve been there many many years.   I think one of my greatest joys this spring is to see the life and growth in a couple of old rose bushes I dug up from Dad & Mom’s ranch the day before the heavy equipment demolished the old barn and leveled the orchard and rest of the land.  There beside the old barn were a couple of old rose bushes that seemed neither alive nor dead.  The leaves were present but dry and yet, there seemed (to me) to be hope for the salvaging of those bushes, so, I dug them up!  Now that I look back, I recall that’s what I was doing when I fell backward off the branch and onto my ‘backside.’  That little fall gave me reason to stand up most all the time for months!  I still cannot sit comfortably in my dear rocking chair—the cushioned seat just presses wrong… and many of you know what I mean as you’ve shared your coccyx injury stories!  So, today as I see those sweet old rose bushes, I look back on the many years and happy memories of the ranch.  Bittersweet memories now.
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More reasons to HOMESCHOOL children and to be totally guarded about their reading of “children’s books!”  It’s bad enough that history or geography books seem to all begin: “millions of years ago…” or “billions of years ago…” but now we have other subtle indoctrinations surfacing: the homosexual agenda—the fierce and mighty machine of the enemy continues the barrage against the Creator and LORD of the Universe.  You can read about the story book for children, King and King.  The enemy flaunts himself against God throughout history—reading in Exodus yesterday, I saw again the subtlety of the enemy in Moses’ reluctance to obey God and then in Matthew, the temptations he presented Christ—and all through history the attempts to thwart or undermine God’s creation.  We see it everywhere from the current issue: homosexuality: a total mangling of God’s design, to others: feminism, abortion, birth-control (yes! I do hold to this strong conviction that birth-control is not right—I know, I know there are a million reasons why people use birth-control or break, working things—), revisionist history, evolution (except, this: a messy home *will* evolve into a messier home!), the proliferation of cults and the occult, religions that do not have the Word of God as its guide and headed by Jesus Christ as LORD, Saviour, Creator and King; and a host of other not so surprising things—we see in the Bible that all these things that are happening were foretold by God in His Word.   If we believe the Bible, then even what culture *demands* be accepted, cannot be condoned—if we believe the Bible—and we do.

Voices matter… you can make a difference!  The Broadcast Decency Act of 2004 – S.2056  This is what’s happening…  the FCC is taking action—the FCC on Thursday reversed their decision allowing stations to use the “f” word.  Now, to many, the use of this or other profane words is freedom of speech!  Vulgar speech is unbecoming to any people. I smile as I recall my mama saying that people use vulgar speech because they’re ignorant and do not have a command of the English language (I think she was teaching me to be careful in speech—but as always, ended up teaching me a whole lot more!)  ~wink~   So… all these years, when I hear someone spouting off crude words, I have this notion (along with a picture of worms coming out of their mouth) that whatever they’re saying is not credible because if they first do not have a command of the language, how can whatever they’re trying to convey have any merit!?!


March 19, 2004 
Today marks the one year anniversary of Kathryn’s first foot surgery.  Sure was a long road and one that she traveled with such grace.  We’re continually grateful to the LORD for His provision, His care, and mercy in her life—this is just one of many ways His hand is evidenced.  Many years she walked with pain and other trials associated with the condition of her feet and then, with God in His love for her, a provision was made for her to have the four surgeries to correct her feet.  It was a major undertaking as people who’ve experienced this can attest.  Many have encouraged her along the way—and Kathryn has blessed us in countless ways.  One of the gifts I’ve shared in the past was a poem written by a woman on the other side of the world from us—what a blessing to have Glenys share in this way—Beautiful Feet.    The picture behind the poem is part of an x-ray taken one year ago and then 2 months later when her cast was removed.  Since then, the pins and screws have been removed and the bones reshaped.  It has really been an incredible thing to see the transformation and her delight in what God’s done! 


Samuel’s getting pretty good at helping Wes by cutting brick coping!


good job!

Here’s a neat deal—a local Google search! I hadn’t seen this before! local.google.com/lochp We use the net for lots of things… Google is really a helpful tool and is a safe way to search and especially if you have a site name you’re wanting to look up but can’t remember if it’s .net or .org or .com or whatever; it’s sure better to look it up on Google [or your favourite search engine] than to risk (foolish!) guessing and seeing what you should never have seen!

March 18, 2004   As I type, my eyes are filled with tears and swirling in my thoughts are the words of a precious letter I just received from a missionary in Poland which gave me a glimpse of *why* the LORD led me to begin and continue daily writing a weblog—why I’m vulnerable and risk sharing.   You see, I don’t write because of any unique talent or ability, and surely not with the skill of an accomplished author or writer or because my life is so overflowing with abundance and riches or because of the profundity of my thoughts… no:  It’s all the LORD.  I blog because as I walk with the LORD, He shows different things in His Word, in prayer and through other believers: His ways—and I share them.  I blog because this is the opportunity He has provided me to give help and hope and friendship to believers around the world, some who have little or no fellowship with other believers, little or no encouragement for motherhood and obedience to God’s Word, little or no hope to be in submission to their husbands or for being a keeper at home.  I share with homemakers things that have helped me in our home, in mothering and homeschooling.  I share slices of life around our home and in our family to, hopefully, offer encouragement—not because there’s anything in particular worthy of boasting—save, only Jesus and His work—but because we’re just an ordinary family who loves the LORD and we serve Him with the desire to be a sweet offering to Him and a blessing to others.   We’re not wealthy by American standards, but we are so humbled by the understanding that the LORD has literally drenched us with blessings; it takes my breath away—His mercy.  We don’t take the gift of children lightly, or of health lightly, nor of hearing, nor walking, nor any other ability at all—for we know it’s all God’s and it’s all God.

Passionate writing, no strong opinions here—mistakes and all, rants & raves, typo’s and grammatical errors—it’s just me with the Welcome Home blog for you.
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It’s mind boggling that the LORD would have *us* to live in such perilous days!  To think that we and our children would, of all possible days in His-story, live in these days!   These days of immoral relationships, and all the chaos in the news—incredible, to think that we are living in these days! Of one thing we can be certain, these days are not surprising to God.  I’m adding the text from Romans today to show the ways of man before the Living God.
Romans 1
18   For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
19   Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
20   For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
21   Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22   Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
23   And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24   Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25   Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26   For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27   And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28   And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29   Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30   Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31   Without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32   Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
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Here’s a great site in the making: http://www.futurechristianhomemakers.com/  Laurie: the founder of Future Christian Homemakers has written: “For the past 7 years I have been teaching girls in my home how to cook, sew, keep house and become Godly homemakers…My fervent prayer is that no girl will grow up without the skills she needs to be a successful homemaker!”  That’s a worthy endeavor!

You may have read and remember “Through Gates of Splendor,” the story of the 5 men who were speared to death in 1956 by the “Aucas”? This is the most famous mission’s story of the past 50 years and Jim Elliot is, of the five, probably the most well known.  Two new movies are being prepared about this story. This includes how God has changed those in this tribe. They’re called “Aucas” by the outside world, but they are the “Waorani” people. “BEYOND THE GATES” is the name of the Documentary film. “WALK HIS TRAIL” is a drama telling the story of one of the killers who becomes “grandfather” to the grandchildren of one of the the men he killed 48 years ago!  Steve Saint, son of missionary martyr, Nate Saint,  has become “family” to the tribe who killed his father. There’s a web page about the Waorani movies: http://www.bearingfruit.org  and the web page about the work and ministry of Steve Saint: http://www.i-tecusa.org

March 17, 2004

  Top ‘o the Mornin’ to ya and Happy Saint Patrick’s Day!
Are you wearin’ the green today?  Are you having corned beef and cabbage for dinner?  How about lamb stew and Irish soda bread?  These are traditional foods served in Ireland.  Funny, Saint Patrick wasn’t even Irish and he surely was never Catholic as some might think, but truly a born again believer, a Christian who preached salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.   He preached against idolatry and superstition—things for which the Irish are famous.  There is no such thing as luck—good or bad, but the enemy sure attempts to persuade otherwise.

More in the News:  Save Marriage, preserve society; preserve marriage, save society.  A strong marriages is the backbone of the family and therefore, society in general.  Some interesting articles at the Family Research Council  site.  There are incredible advances or at least a there’s a whole bunch of noise coming from a relatively small percentage of society.  Problem is, they’re a very boisterous, organized, and well financed group.  All of these factors make it seem an impossible force to overcome. 

Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council, has written a great article: Preserving Marriage, Saving Society.    Oh, how I pray folks will heed the wake-up call — get up and out of the bed of complacency regarding marriage, the home, and the family!  The broad scope of the activists agenda has far reaching effects and deadly consequences.  I often wonder how much devastation it will take to startle liberal minds to acknowledge the lies.  Even so, Come Lord Jesus.

March 16, 2004  The sting of the words: “Convicted felon Martha Stewart…”  gripped me as I read of her resignation and new title: “founding editorial director”  of the “empire” she built over the last couple of decades.  Not missing a beat to keep a good thing (no pun intended) going, the company continues to reface the corporation.  It’s likely that coffee tables may soon reflect the change with Everyday Living magazines as fans stash the Martha Stewart Living mags for rainy day reading and nostalgia.  Everyday Living is an easy transition as MSO already puts out Everyday Food.  The Everyday Living mag would have that appeal even sans Martha Stewart because of the phenomenal infrastructure of the company, the proven format and style—the appeal she’s had transcends the spectrum.  The beleaguered Kmart’s got its work cut out for them on this one!

It’s always a blessing to share home industries and a couple that I’m so pleased to see doing so well are Hopechest Legacy  and Simply Graceful.  The Hopechest Legacy really opened my eyes to the complexity of what a Hopechest really is and what an heirloom it really can become for a woman.  It’s so much more than just a box to put stuff in—it really is a legacy, and the more I’ve been considering these for our daughters, the more I see them as a hope for the future with treasures from the past.  I so recommend Rebekah’s book (for mothers of daughters *and* sons!) and others she recommends on her site.  Then, the Simply Graceful site continues to expand and bless others with expanded product lines.  More on these another time.

March 15, 2004   Received this link today… Hollywood Rethinking Faith Films After ’Passion’.  I think “Hollywood” is trying to understand what’s going on here… and what’s going on here isn’t the power of Hollywood; it’s not the power of “big name” actors—it’s not any of that at all and I don’t think it’s even the power of film, either.   It *is* the power of The Name… the Name above all Names.  It’s that, and hundreds of thousands have flocked to see on film what they’ve put their hope in!  Out of curiosity, they’ve allowed themselves to “violate” convictions that normally preclude the viewing of r rated films and for many, that’s in addition to setting aside their “non-ecumenical” convictions to see the film.  Add all that to the sensational advertising, sheer curiosity and peer-pressure to see the film and then, blend all that with the understanding that it’s the Greatest Story ever told, and you’ve got a runaway success.  Problem is, Hollywood thinks Hollywood determines the scope and direction of society and no matter how things seem… it doesn’t.  Hollywood’s a facade on which plastic empires have been built and when a movie like this comes along, Hollywood has to look in the mirror and it sees no reflection.

Activists are mowing down some long held arguments and platitudes—it’s past critical time for Christians to so live that the Word of God be not blasphemed.  Here’s an interesting commentary on marriage:  Marriage Fight A Battle For Our Kids.

Another incredible story… what a convoluted legal system—ours!  A woman charged with murder for allegedly refusing to have a c-section—and yet(!) had that same woman opted to exercise her “reproductive health” option and had an abortion, *that* would perhaps have been defended as her “right!”  It’s said that “Rowland acted with depraved indifference to human life.”  But abortion—now, isn’t that depraved disregard for human life?!?!    Well, so, I’m incredulous over this—considering the large segment of society’s thinking on life and so-called “reproductive health.”  So, on this deal, I’m not taking into account the other angles of the charge against this woman—I’m only referencing this recent charge.  Sure, the prior incident and conviction of child-endangerment, her mental state and apparent drug use factors into this, but my concern is with a grossly flawed and  legal system.   I’m so sorry for the little baby who died as a result of this mother’s neglect and her ignorance; sorry, too, for a society that disregards human life and the LORD, our Creator.  Support the Unborn Victims of Violence Act.  Some members of Congress oppose this legislation, as they claim that abortion rights will dissolve by establishing legal rights for the preborn.  If babies in the womb are recognized as ‘living human beings’  Some lawmakers are purportedly writing an amendment to the Act that would recognize only one victim: the mother.  But then, what about the unborn victim? If you’ve got an Unborn Victims… Act and you remove the victim…     yes… I’m shaking my head.

What a blessed day we had yesterday — a day of worship, fellowship around the Word, and celebrating Timothy’s birthday!   We’re again mindful of the great gift and blessing of the LORD in Timothy.  How grateful we are and have been for this dear son.

So… not much time for blogging today—It’s a clean-up day and we’ve gotta run to the library, dontchaknow!



Fun with
family
and friends


Too tired… a long, fun day!


Wes, up late…
talking over the Word.

March 13-14 2004


~ Happy 16th Birthday, Timothy! ~


my buddy &  exercise partner!

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“How often do we attempt work for God to the limit of our incompetency rather than to the limit of God’s omnipotency.”
~ J. Hudson Taylor

“I like my tea as I like my religion – Hot, very Hot!”
~William Booth, Founder of the Salvation Army

“All roads lead to the judgment seat of Christ.”
~ Keith Green

“You find no difficulty in trusting the Lord with the management of the universe and all the outward creation, and can your case be any more difficult than these, that you need to be anxious about His management of it?”
~ Hannah Whitall Smith

March 12, 2004 Well, it must be springtime!   With just less than a month before the Mariner’s home-opener, we listened a little bit to our first baseball pre-season game on the radio yesterday afternoon.  Now, I’m not a Mariner fan, but I *am* a fan of boys who love to listen to baseball!  The games plays out in that loud and wild and exciting stadium of their minds as they listen to Dave Niehaus screaming “My Oh MY!”


Yes, This is Timothy in the bathtub he put in the garden and intends to fill with lilies and fish.


There, in the next pic, is Ami and Andrew standing in the tub. Never a dull moment around here. 

We celebrate Timothy’s 16th birthday this weekend.  What an amazing blessing he is and has been to and for our family.  I marvel at the person he is and the man he’s becoming.  There is no job he will not tackle, no load he will not carry and no task he refuses.  His heart is set to obey–I do not say this arrogantly, or naively, but actually, with a very humbled heart, I say this candidly.  You see, I’ve seen other roads with different children I’ve known and I do praise the LORD for this one, in particular.  Wes and I are very grateful to God for the gift of Timothy.  As he was born, his cord, with a complete knot, was around his neck a couple of times, and the doctor exclaimed with amazement: “You are sooooo lucky!” to which I replied, “No, I am so blessed!”  I knew there was a little problem and had that knot been tighter, Timothy would not have lived—I knew it was of the LORD.  This boy was and is a gift: I knew it then and I know it better, now.  I know that it was God who brought that child early and quickly.  I know it was God who protected that knot from tightening as it had to have been that way for months.   I know it was God who gave him this tender heart and fervor for the Word and things of the LORD.  I know it is God who inspires him and blesses us.  So… as I see the daffodils saluting Spring, I see the golden haired baby with the sweetest face.  It was just yesterday… I’m pretty sure.

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Pray the LORD will work in this situation. alliancedefensefundThe Same-Sex “Marriage” Juggernaut in San Francisco (and Oregon) is Ordered to Halt!”

March 11, 2004 Yesterday afternoon Kathryn made some *delicious* cookies for our neighbours—but wasn’t home to deliver them herself, so imagine her delight in discovering later last night that when her sister and brother took the cookies over, they saw that it was his birthday and his girlfriend, Elaine, said the cookies would add to the surprise of his party!  Now… this situation, as many others in our lives, is an opportunity to share the love of God and to be a blessing to others because of Him.  My husband has encouraged us many times to seek ways to do this sort of thing and so we look for opportunities and listen for ways we can bless others.  The LORD is so good and so faithful—how can we do anything but seek ways to demonstrate our gratefulness to and for Him?

How gracious is the LORD to provided the books I’ve just received!  How just a little reading in them so far has rekindled my fervor to guide my children in our home.  Now, she didn’t know how much I needed this spark in home-keeping and training the children, but Barbara Curtis sent me some of her books this week and I want to share with you over the weeks ahead some highlights from her books.  Practical, practical, practical—that’s what I love!  The one that really has my attention at the moment is Ready, Set, Read!  I’m afraid that the book: Lord, Please Meet Me In The Laundry Room, will hit too close to home… but I’ll get to it—after I get another load or two done.  By the way—I do think there’s a real blessing having the laundry *in* the kitchen—there’s no way to “let it go” —it must stay done every day!  So, back to the “Reading” book; I have lately  neglected the careful early reading skills—too often in the last five years, I’ve done the most expedient thing (which really  isn’t expedient at all) at the moment instead of careful, measured teaching on purpose day by day—at the younger ages!  I’ve been reading to the children but I’ve not bee requiring from them the same things I required of the olders and so… they don’t read as well or at the very young age that the older children did.  However, the older children didn’t get my ‘play-time’ attention that the youngers are getting because of my 20/20 hindsight that knows how much is lost or how quickly time goes by.  In the end… I pray the LORD will order up every attempt at serving Him through child training and well loved children—to His glory.  They’re all sweet to me—tallest to smallest.

Ah… society!  How grievous to watch the decline… and yet to consider that God, who is rich in mercy, allows things that are evil, allows the consequences of sin, and yet works through all the devastation for His glory.   People mock God everywhere, everyday.  But the ekklesia, the called out ones, the church, is to obey Him, to seek His face and to worship Him—but is the ‘church’ sleeping? Is it too busy finding ways to entertain itself and the would-be attendees of local institutional churches?    Opportunities are given everyday for people to hear the good news of the gospel and to respond and repent of sin—for sin separates man from God eternally and faith in the Lord Jesus brings to that repentant believer: life everlasting.  We pray now, more than ever that people who refuse God, people who fear giving up their independence, would turn to God—and would accept the call—for we know, as Jim Elliot so aptly said, that “He is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”   Fools rage against God—but Jesus has paid the price for fools—for us even when we were dead in trespasses and sins—the Word says, “But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus: That in the ages to come he might show the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus. For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.”  Ephesians 2.4-9

O, how I pray for Christians to heed the wake up call — for the day is far spent!  We are careening down the steep slope to destruction as a nation.  When sin, injustice and immorality reign, and when man perverts the Word of God and evil abounds, then the nation is corrupt and condemned and cannot survive.  The Word says that “Righteousness exalteth a nation; but sin is a reproach to any people.” (Proverbs 14.34) 

Isaiah 5:20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!

When a United Methodist “pastor” would become a “chaplain” for Planned Parenthood, and men and women would pervert God’s design with their unbounded lust and pride, when fathers would leave their families for the pleasure of sin for a season, when pornography and gambling are eating up the resources of homes, when mothers kill their own children—innocent babies who then have no protector, when girls will sell their bodies, and women dress as harlots, and when evil is exalted everywhere, the stench is deathly sickening—there is no hope but hope in the LORD, for only the Creator of the universe—-the Creator of everything in it has power to undo the hideousness of what sin has wrought.   O, I pray the LORD will be merciful and save this nation—not for the nation’s sake—but for the lost souls in it.  I saw a bumper sticker:  Can God Bless America?

So, this chaplain of Planned Parenthood [what a sick oxymoron of a name—when you know abortion is anything but planned parenthood.  Heaven hears those cries.  Do we?]  is supposedly there to provide “spiritual insight and guidance to the reproductive health movement.”  Now, if abortion is anything but planned parenthood, then surely murdering children is not reproductive health!
So, as for the United Methodist Church—it’s gotta make you wonder who is their god.  

I can see why the LORD would say that judgment must first begin at the household of faith.  1Peter 4.17 For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God?

 I received a nice letter from the folks at EraceBoards.com—I’d mentioned them the other day.  their prices are very low and I think you’ll like the variety of boards.  They’ve got a great “classroom” package deal… now, we don’t have *that* many students—we never made it to 30 children.  And, remember…. about women not having children after 35—35 children is enough for any woman!     After taking more time looking through the EraceBoards.com site, I noticed a link for magnetic boards and supplies, which are also extremely helpful—not just in homekeeping, or homeschooling, but for business as well. So here you go… another product to help you at home or in business. It’s Magnatag.com ; They offer custom printed dry-erase boards at modest prices–now, modest prices is usually code for: you’ll get over the sticker shock when you see how nice the product is!  But in this case, I think the pricing the quote really is fair.

March 10, 2004   A beautiful day in the Pacific Northwest—both sunny and foggy, beautiful and chilly!    (Got a pic I’ll put up later on!  It’s great!)

I read of David’s absolute anguish over those that would turn their backs on God, those that would flaunt their vile deceptions and yet with all his sorrowing over sin, he fully recognizes that it is God who carries him and it is to Him that vengeance belongs.  So then, here with all this beauty and the admonition I’m mulling over these days: to lead a quiet life, etc., etc., and considering the fact that I know and trust that everything is in the Hand of the LORD—all the weights of the bag are His and He holds the world and all life in the balance… even knowing and being fully persuaded by these things… Why stand up against any ‘alternative’ to marriage and why engage in battle against so-called “gay-marriage” and other atrocities?  Why? Because of all this.  Because of the grim consequences of such unions and for the sake and future of our nation.  Pete Winn interviewed Dr. Alan Keyes on this matter and his answers were wise and thought provoking.  My continued course will be to encourage and admonish believers to stand strong and finish well, to guard their marriage and guide their homes well, to stand against evil and promote good. These days are incredible days—as our society is deteriorating, it will not survive on its current course.  Our society has already eroded to the point of *seeming* no return and no remedy—save a miraculous Spiritual reformation—save a miraculous work of the LORD.  In countries where homosuality is widely accepted, marriage is virtually unheard of—thus the family, as we know it, does not exist.  If that doesn’t grip you!  One of the consequences of immorality is death—though people would argue that point—God will not be mocked.  Our society is in dire straits. Interestingly, our government leaders who’ve made careers of “representing” (?) the people *seem* to have little knowledge of or regard for their predecessors or for the role of the Word in our nation’s founding and existence.  How arrogant and foolishly they behave who do not learn or gain wisdom from the teachers of the past.  O, pray for our leaders, pray for our nation—now more than ever, we need His touch.

Even in the midst of this struggle for righteousness and godliness to be revived and once again be the foundation on which our nation stands, there is a fierce battle raging all over the world—the enemy of Christ taking many forms—persecution, destruction and death of Christians.   Voice of the Martyrs tells many stories.  O, in our own small worlds it may be hard to fathom the persecution of Christians all over the globe—it’s just staggering, but its a grim reality!  And here, as our country continues its moral decline and with the arrogance of those that call evil good and good evil, it’s not difficult at all to imagine persecution of this magnitude in America—shocking as that would be, it’s not difficult at all to imagine. 

Well, we’ve nearly concluded our journey through Acts in our family morning devotions.  Yes… it has taken us a rather long time to wind our way through this incredible book.  But, it’s been a blessing as we’ve watched the story of the church—the ekklesia—unfold.  Interestingly, the reading/study of this book of the Bible has given rich food for thought and understanding of what “church” is and what it means to be a church!   Then as we have sought to better understand just what the “church” looks like, we’ve come to appreciate many aspects of home fellowships or house churches.  This desire and our actions are often met with negative feedback—but we’re not seeking the approval of man, but the blessing of the LORD.  So, in our searching, we’re continually striving for a bond of love with our brothers and sisters in Christ, believers—though they may not understand or may even disagree with some of our ideas, we pray they see our desire for peace—with and for them—but more, that they, too, seek Him and His will.

March 9, 2004   How these days stymie us… how the events of our times grieve our hearts.  I ask the LORD continually to reveal Himself to the hearts of men.  “Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men!” (ps 107)   I ask Him for His ways and I marvel over the Scriptures which promise His purposes will be fulfilled and His working all things together for good to them that love Him and are the called according to His purpose.  It’s difficult to see good in the evil of the day.  Sodom was wicked—very wicked and the Lord would have saved that city were there even but few righteous but there were none righteous!  What will be the end of America?  What of other nations?  I know that His Hand is moving all over the world… when Glenys wrote, I knew that His power was there, “down under” and when Sconces write, we know His Hand is there.  Wherever missionaries all over the world are persecuted for the faith, the LORD is there.  How this country has become so arrogant and ignorant of the ways of the Lord—what a stiff necked people we have become—every man doing what is right in his own eyes.  But God.  But God who is rich in mercy. Consider the beauty everywhere today—how merciful the Lord God is.

Well, I sure have been mulling over this case against Martha.  Interesting to read the different articles.  I’ve considered the enormous impact she’s had on our society.  She shaped a huge segment of our culture, gave women who never thought they could decorate a home or a cake or a letter: power to do them and do them well.  She brought a sense of creativity that was screaming to be developed—especially in a society that seems preoccupied with darkness and evil and depression.  She made the art of homemaking a reality with products that could be purchased in stores that “Mrs. Anybody America” could afford shop in.  It was her creativity and decorative flair that attracted all ages and walks of life.  But sadly, now this is one of those cases where everybody loses.  Nobody wins in this deal—not really.  So, it’s sort of a bizarre twist, somehow because she’s a woman, perhaps some would want to be more lenient and then others seem to want to destroy her.  Such a turn of events, sort of an enigma, she sure had a lot going for her and because so many have followed this “domestic diva” and regardless of ones feelings about her… she’s been a household name—an American icon.  I wonder about all the women who’ve faithfully followed her—because right or wrong, guilty or no, she’s brought great shame on her name—and then there’s the present reality of all the good things. The things that were a good thing, are still a good thing. 

Well, the “not in my backyard” has happened…Seattle will recognize same secs marriage. This, from The Herald:  Mayor Greg Nickels “doesn’t have the authority to begin issuing gay marriage licenses, as the mayors of San Francisco and New Paltz, N.Y., have done, because marriage licenses are handled by counties in Washington.” Further, Nickels “signed an executive order that requires city departments to begin recognizing the marriages of gay employees who get married elsewhere.”  [clearly anarchy!] Six couples were denied licenses so they filed a suit in King County Superior Court, seeking to overturn the state’s 1998 Defense of Marriage Act.  Two of the people represented in the lawsuit are women who came with their two children.   Where did these children come from!!!  They want to be able to look [their?] “kids in the eye and have them see us as a family, like all the other families in their lives…  we are parents and we want to protect their futures.”  Protect their futures?  What? I know, I know… I’m mulling over that leading a quiet life… deal.   This from the Seattle PI,  “As it is, state law prevents County Executive Ron Sims from issuing marriage licenses to same-se.. couples. [In the Defense of Marriage Act 1998 law says] “Marriage is a civil contract between a male and a female,” and denies recognition of same-se.. unions in other states.   Neither the city of Seattle nor King County can define the terms of marriage,” Sims said in an interview yesterday. “There is nothing I can do. Governments cannot pick and choose which laws they’re going to enforce.” What?  they can’t pick and choose what laws they’re going to enforce –or not!– enforce?  They *are* picking and choosing!  In clear violation of State law (scroll down on that link page),  Because of “Executive Order”, The city will recognize same-se.. marriages in other states for the purpose of employee benefits.  “Gay and lesbian city employees now fill out forms to obtain benefits for “domestic partners.” If they get married, they can just check the “married” box and skip the paperwork.”   Easy as that… just check the box.  No consequences…

I’m wondering a couple of things… where and when do Christians stand up and make a case against ungodliness?  And, I’m wondering what our friends over at Judicial Forum are saying about all this.  They’re in Idaho… maybe they’re getting out the big guns… (uh, that was a figure of speech–) and saying, not in my backyard!! 

March 8, 2004  The LORD is gracious!  Omy, This day surely hasn’t gone the way I imagined it would go or rather, even how it was already going prior to noontime.  When my husband returned home, having been gone two minutes, asked me to get ready to go—and once I was walking out the door he let me know that he’d be picking up our friend’s truck and so I’d need to go help with that.  I didn’t ask any questions—just followed!  He then let me know that our friend was in the hospital and that’s all he knew.  As I type this, I’m mindful that we’d had a good time of study in the Word here this morning and prayed for each of our friends and many acquaintances by name.  Wes had also talked about the uncertainties of life and the One certainty we *do* have—when we have faith in Jesus Christ.  Our children are often made profoundly aware of the ways of the LORD when events, such as today’s, happen. Wes and I have had many opportunities to meet friends in hospitals and the joy of talking with the LORD on behalf of our friends.  As it happens, this friend, who is more than a brother to Wes, was suffering head pain from a concussion—post concussive syndrome, they called it.  He’s home now, and needs rest.  O, my heart was racing for a moment, because it was this friend who, one morning 7 years ago, called me and asked me to come to that same hospital because he needed some information as they’d had a “little incident”  on the job.  It wasn’t till after I got there that I saw this was quite a bloody “little incident” that required some reconstructive hand surgery.  Mike neglected (on purpose) to tell me it was a “little skil-saw incident.”   So they’ve been through many “little incidents” together!  Today was a blessing as our friend, Joyce, shared of her daughter’s initiative and responsibility in taking care of some needs at home.  Such an encouragement that the work invested in child training is very effective and this trial was a sort of proving ground and she did exceedingly well!  So thankful for cell phones!  Mike called her… Joyce could call Wes—I could talk with him on the way to the hospital, I could talk with Kathryn on the way, I could let them know what was happening and then later, let them know I was on my way home.  So thankful for the provisions that make our time here so much easier.  I don’t take these things lightly or for granted.  I know that I know that I know—it’s of the mercy of the LORD that we have any of these things, that our life it what it is, that we are not consumed day by day.

* How do you know that it’s Monday in Seattle?   The *sun* is shining!
* Where can you park for *free* in Seattle?   On I-5!

It’s a blessing to me to receive email from many different people with various concerns, or requests or ideas to share.  I can’t always reply to the encouraging emails but am so thankful for the gracious letters.  I receive letters from “start-up” businesses and from ladies who’re starting or running home businesses.  When I believe the particular biz would benefit other ladies, I heartily recommend the site.  Well, I’ve got a few today— a new one to me comes from a man who wrote to share about dry-erase boards after seeing my link to another company in our homeschool page.  Apparently, this man & his father-in-law have a company that offers the boards at a better price—now I haven’t seen the boards, but they look to be of good quality—plus, they are believers and so that’s the reason I’m suggesting the site.  We like dry-erase boards for school work!  A couple of ours have bright clock-faces on them for teaching ‘telling time’ and can be used very well for teaching fractions.  We also have some story-boards (half lined, half blank) and some math-boards (columns in light gray).   O, and we use (I buy a case of three or four colours) the low odor markers now so there’re less noxious fumes. I used to wonder why the children were passing out at math time 😉

So… yesterday was a blessing.  I’m mulling over the messages we heard in our fellowship and seeking application for each.  A few, in particular, stood out to me… living a quiet life… what does it mean to live a quiet life, and what does it mean to steal… what do we steal?  Interesting examples followed.  Do we steal time?  Do we steal envelopes, paper, etc. from work (if we’re in the work-place)?  I’m thinking today of what I might be stealing… time that ought to be for my family or husband… thoughts… lots of thoughts.  SO… I am especially watching my  time on the computer! Another message came from Philippians… and another from the life of Jacob—he reaped what he’d sown.  His sons manipulated as he had manipulated or deceived.  He was wrestling with God—he began to understand and have a heart after God… but what of the training of his sons?  My husband was sharing about fathers leading their children.  And in doing so, they’ll do one of three things: they’ll lead well, they’ll lead poorly, or they’ll not lead at all.  They’ll all do *one* and perhaps most commonly, a combination of the three, and sadly many do the third: not lead at all.  There was further talk of the consequences of not leading at all.  Food for thought!

March 6, 2004   I think my life must be screaming for some comic relief or I’ve just really gone totally over the top.  Anyway… I don’t know if it was the recent enjoyment of watching some home decorating shows at my mom’s house or if it’s our constant quest to find better ways of doing things or making over and decorating our home with things we have, or what.  But seeing the cell-makeover’s was totally funny to us—NOT mocking cells, not mocking anyone—just the funny thought of decorating a place that *never* would be decorated like these pictures.  Okay—enough disclaimers!   I think Hannah got some decorating ideas for all the sets of bunkbeds & small spaces we have in our home! However, in linking to these pictures, I’ve totally separated the person of Martha Stewart from the hysterical pictures of cell transformations.  I laughed as much over the Martha/Irma Bombeck Christmas letter.  So, all this laughing is not at the person but more the lack time or ability or creativity some of us may have, or the season of our life that prevents tea-room décor or our more shabby than chíc furnishings.  Levity… just a little levity.

Speaking of décor… I cannot remember a Saturday without some great concern over getting some work done for Sunday.  I wrote of the “lifted weight” of responsibility.  But now, I’m experiencing a phenomenal sense of wondering just what to do *now!*  Well, that feeling gives way to reality and reality says: clean the house!  So, that’s what I am doing today—cleaning!  There are so many things that need to be taken care of that I not just sure where I ought to begin.  Trouble with abstract random’s is that it would not be unheard of for me to have gone into a room to make a bed, clean & vacuum the floor or to change the linen and bedding and then, instead(!), to paint the room and rearrange the furniture.  I’ve been known to do this in the middle of the night, too.  Poor little children who went to sleep in bed only to wake the next morning to find the bed against an opposite wall and dressers and bookshelves moved either *out* of the room or to a different location in the room.   You can imagine why the Kitchen is such a conundrum to me—that refrigerator!  O, and toilets & tubs… I can always think of a way it would’ve worked better for me!

March 5, 2004 I’m late blogging today.   I’ve so appreciated the letters I have received regarding the movie, my suggestion that you visit  Barbara Curtis’ website to glean from her writings and that you’re keeping up with news in our government from Judicial Forum.  I’ve been trying to do as much replying as I can, but am sure behind!  As we’re able, we reply asap!   Duty calls and I answer here, first! 😉

As if a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, after five years of doing secretarial work for our local church, I’ve completed my last regular weekly responsibilities.  It’s bittersweet because I like doing the work and it’s a blessing to serve, but strangely, at the same time, it’s totally a relief to eliminate the duty.  I think often in my Christian walk that I have equated busy-ness with faithfulness and work = sanctification.  Now, you and I know that’s totally untrue but it’s sort of a programmed deal in the church— as if the ones whose work is most visible means they’re the more “faithful” members.  You know… you’ve heard it…  a woman is eulogized for all her work, the quilting bee’s she hosted, the women’s Bible studies she taught, the car-pooling, the cleaning and organizing of the church kitchen, the showers she arranged, the pies she baked… all her work.  (There’s a ton that could be written for the accomplishments of men, too!)  What a blessing all these things are(!) —but— I think sometimes there’s this guilt trip women take when they *don’t* or *can’t* do all those things!  Then, to make matters worse, they begin to *believe* the *lie* that busy-ness equals godliness.  So, where was I going with all that… ah, freedom—freedom in Christ to do just what *He* calls us to do, not of “fear of man” but of love and obedience for and to *Him!*

Ah, so you *had* to know it was coming!  Martha, Martha... careful and troubled about many things. I was just saying to my older children—just watch, the media is going to have a field day with this one (pretty cells and colour coordinated jumpsuits, and on and on…)—and, sure enough, here’s just a glimpse of what’s to come.  (I’m *not* endorsing the mocking!) You know, it’s incredible to me what’s a big deal and what’s not.  What sends the media into a frenzy and what it overlooks or dismisses out of hand.  Incredible—that totally lewd immorality is lauded and other things incite rage ( like this unbelievable amount of attention or focus on MStewart and yet scandalous transactions are overlooked probably every working day of the year—it’s so bizarre to me that the same people who defend whales are completely comfortable with the choice to have a baby murdered; who’d protest prayer or the study of theology in schools but promote witchcraft or education/promotion of homose-uality in the same.  O, don’t you think it’s such a convoluted system we have—and now think of this: though this generation’s been steeped in vulgarity from music lyrics to MTV to lewd movies there are many who’re concerned over people viewing The Passion of the Christ and are suddenly concerned about young people viewing an R rated movie!  With all the truly vulgar things broadcast everywhere, everyday—it’s outrageous: the anti-Christian attack—and it’s simply that: anti-Christian.

It seems that the barrier between justice and absolute anarchy in this country is all but eroded and soon the dike will give way entirely.  The atrocities of judicial tyranny, the moral decline or the steep immoral incline, and the destruction of the family: the daddy-mommy-children-in-the home-family.  Soon all the clamoured-for or demanded freedom will become the cinched noose or springboard to the black abyss.  And we go on… licking ice cream cones.  Do we hear the cries?  Does it matter that the world is going to hell?  (powerful reflections by Amy Carmichael).

March 4, 2004  It feels like we’re being washed under the tide… now the same sx “marriage” has moved a tad bit closer to home.  Now marriage licenses have been issued in Oregon.  But, no matter what people say or do, whether they “get married” or whatever: it’s just paper because God already outlined and defined marriage—and no, it’s not just a matter of semantics, it’s not a matter of ‘rights’ —it’s a matter of violations of moral absolutes.  God cannot—will not be mocked.  He’s already proven that and we have His Word on it.  I’m wondering if the “marriage licenses” that have been granted around the country will be revoked, shouldn’t the judges power or positions also be revoked as well?  This, from Fox: “The Senate Judiciary Constitution subcommittee is probing whether the Massachusetts judges overstepped their bounds.” Judges may have overstepped their bounds… —–uh, ya think?
Why be concerned about this, why be disturbed?  We’re seeing rapid fire assault on marriage, on the family: on our future.  It’s grievous, really very dreadful.  O, God save our nation.

What a blessing it has been to receive email from people I don’t know and will likely never meet this side of heaven.  What a marvelous thing it is to share ideas and give & receive  encouragement.  Such has been the case with the author I shared about a couple of days ago.  Now after reading some of her articles and ordering her book, I’m all the  more inspired to share about her work with you.  Barbara Curtis is a most gracious woman and being that I’m a mom with many children, I can so relate to some things that are unique to large families.  I appreciated reading and agree with her article on how to get kids to help at home —and something that’s not unique to large families, is the need to have children be and be able to be helpful in (age appropriate) situations.  She points out the need to start out as I say, before the need arises.  Illustrating how a child can be discouraged from doing a job before he ever gets the chance to try it out, she suggests starting early!  I so agree.  I believe we moms can get so wrapped up in perfection and performance that we miss those wonderful teachable moments and then wonder why or how in the world we ended up with children who don’t or won’t help out or who have a poor attitude about work.  Speaking of poor attitudes, this reminds me of a very good website—that’ll really encourage you—and you might do well to read some of her articles especially if you’ve got some (young) troubles on your hands.  Elizabeth shares loving parenting with only occasional trips to the woodshed.

That treadmill was getting dusty so I thought it was time to “un-fold” it and use it!  This time, thirty minutes was a very comfortable walk.  It was easier while watching a movie, so I’ll need to go to the library and pick up some ‘educational’ movies for my walks.  Now, for those of you who walk regularly, this must sound rather silly; but for those of you who don’t walk regularly, taking the time to walk (nowhere!!) seems like a waste of time.  On the other hand, if being strong and staying well requires that I do this, then this seems less and less like a waste of time!  The treadmill is actually pretty efficient—space-wise and time-wise!

So glad for that ready mop!  This floor gets to be a mess around here by noon and dinner each day!  I’m thankful for that mop hanging on a nail in the closet “at the ready!”  We’ve tried *many* mops —many— mops!  This one’s by far my favorite.  Sometimes I use a thin wash-cloth in place of the ‘ready-mop’ pads on the mop and I’ve used other cleaners in the solution bottle.  What I thought was going to continue to be a pricey mop has turned out not to be! 

March 3, 2004    Get Bibles — people need to hear the Word!
This morning I had a real good talk with a dear friend here  whose opinions I value and who’s been a true friend through many years so I understand her words and feelings on things.  That said, after hearing—really listening—to her thoughts on “The Movie” and from several emails I have received, I must share that I so appreciate the testimony of how the LORD’s used the experience in each life—and btw, I sure don’t look down on or condemn anyone for seeing the film.  My cautions are just that… cautions—not condemnations!  All those who’ve seen the film echo the sentiment that they’ll never be the same, never again take Communion lightly and will never consider lightly the stripes and pain He bore for our transgressions, the sin —our sin— that nailed Him to the Cross and that after all that horrific scourging, He forgave still and He rose again, and lives today.  And the impossibility —apart from grace— of our being crucified with Christ is a reality now, more than ever. 

So, Here’s the latest deal on the movie—then I’ll give it a rest—I’ve dug myself in pretty deep on this one and there’re lots more thoughts and lots more passion, too—but then, I’m thinking: Is this profitable and is it going to be edifying?  So what I’m going to do is leave a site link on here and you can take a look at which ever of the many angles you want to read about.  I’m telling you—this one’s not cut and dried—there’re too many angles, too much symbolism and too much passion on both sides—the deal is this: Christ died to save sinners; the price has been paid and to be saved, one must believe in faith on the LORD Jesus Christ.  We must give the world an answer for the hope that’s within us.  The world sees Christians and all the sensational programs and promises.  The banners and billboards—the mass marketing of studies and plans and all the trappings that go along with them.  Let us not get caught up in vain debates or in the pretty trinkets.  Let us love and let us so live as the LORD commands.

1 John 5.20-21 And we know that the Son of God is come, and hath given us an understanding that we may know him that is true and we are in him that is true, even in his Son Jesus Christ.  This is the true God, and eternal life.  Little children keep yourselves from idols.
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I just talked with my daughter-in-law about some cake decorating supplies and gave her a small list of supplies to add to her order.  We’ve made a cake called The Triple Chocolate Celebration Cake—a Bon Appetít, Epicurious cooking school cake—chocolate, ganache, chocolate mousse triple layer cake! The delicious cake is quite spectacular and makes a stunning presentation.  One aspect of the cake is that chocolate transfers are used to make beautiful designs on the frosting of the cake.   Beryl’s offers many many cake & pastry decorating supplies and ideas.  I wish we’d thought of this site when we we looking for special cookie cutters—they have lots of them!  I know, I know… what in the world am *I* doing talking about butter-sugar-flour foods, anyway!?!?

March 2, 2004 (late night) Well, it’s sometimes a risky thing to blog frankly and openly on heated topics.  I don’t recall a more emotionally charged issue than the release, and ensuing debate over, The Passion of The Christ.  Now… I don’t want to be offensive, nor do I “like” being critical—in fact, because of all the controversial stuff and all the “ah-ha” moments we’ve been having lately, I’ve been more critical than I’ve ever been—sort of how it gets when you spend time with negative people… you know?  You start behaving just like them!  I look in the mirror and say:  ohmygoodness, I don’t think I’ve ever been so pessimistic about so many things!  I’ve had acquaintances who were negative and what a drain it was to spend time talking.  I guess that’s what inspires me to look on the brighter side—the bearing all things, hoping all things, enduring all things, way of thinking.  The current controversies have really weighed heavily on my heart and my cautions and negative views have not been meant as a personal vendetta.  I do have the caution lights blinking—and I’ll continue to have them blinking—without seeing the film, I’m sure it seems to be ignorant criticism—but I’d rather just collect information, pray and seek ways to help or to encourage people now that the movie’s a fact—it’s out, it’s being seen, and it’s being talked about everywhere we’ve been.  Especially, I thank those who’ve written—I value each of the opinions and thoughts shared regarding the film.

That said, I do want to clarify my reference to and opposition to the proliferation of movie and book stuff (trinkets and trash).  When my dad was working in advertising, he’d bring us things that had come out to promote products or companies or campaigns and he always called the stuff (that’s a biblical term, you know) “trinkets and trash” and so, that’s why I refer to the “stuff” that way.  And I know that the movie and the other books (Jabez, et al) are not the same—but the merchandizing is!  I’m not ashamed to say it’s a shameful shame!

A new (to me) site for searching for more stuff—dishes, etc. to add to your search list is Ruby Lane.   I check eBay for dishes quite often—now, I’ll check Ruby Lane for dishes too. Occasionally we see our patterns and have ordered a couple of pieces.  We’ve been so pleased with every single one of our eBay purchases and have never had any difficulties or misrepresentations of products.  It’s amazing *what’s* on there for sale—anything and everything!

March 2, 2004  Taking in over 125 million dollars (gulp) in its first five days, you had to know it was coming… the trinkets and trash.  It’ll be interesting to see just what comes of the movie, The Passion of the Christ, and the proliferation of books (!), stuff, of things… uh, witnessing tools.  How about a Bible! The tools… the reasons, the discussion guides… how ’bout a BIBLE!  It goes without saying that this generation seeks an answer.  This generation seeks a sign.  Look at the proliferation of the material(!) after the  Prayer of Jabez and the trend following that book.  It’ll be no surprise to see a resurgence or broadening of ecumenical teaching, principles or  philosophies and the impact of such on the “church” in America (not to mention the nonsense we export to other nations).  What is the LORD saying to us in/through all this?!?  Dontcha find it incredible that the majority of the movie-goers were Christians/Catholics/etc. and I’m thinking the very ones who don’t often go to “R” rated movies and now they’ve made this one one of the top 5 day grosser’s of all time? Pretty incredible, huh?  Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.   How ’bout a Bible!

I just received an email from a mama of 12 children—extraordinary!  While I looked over her letter and then “visited” her website, what caught my eye a couple of times was a quote she has on a couple of pages, “God’s gifts put man’s best dreams to shame.” Isn’t that a remarkable statement?!  She seems to be an amazing woman.   It’s not just because she’s written many many books—on homeschooling and other topics, articles, columns, etc.  It’s not because she’s traveled extensively, or that she’s got an artistic flair or an ability to communicate so well on so many different topics.  What I found to be the most noteworthy is her obvious love for the LORD and her desire to be obedient or yielded to Him.  Peace that passes understanding is the peace she demonstrates in the joyful acceptance of all of her children—with, or without Down’s Syndrome.  Barbara Curtis’s site and books will likely make a significant impact on your life!

March 1, 2004  Ah–the first day of another month!  I resisted the temptation to do this in green and shamrocks–part of my family is Irish, but I’ve never been too involved with Irish traditions or whatever.  I guess over the years as we’ve steered clear of superstitions and traditions of men, we’ve not practiced ‘cultural’ expressions of the Irish.

In the news “‘Gay Marriage’ is not about ‘Rights‘” This, by David Limbaugh – Friday.

Talk, talk, talk about the Passion.  If you didn’t read the article, by  Andrew J. Webb, you can read some valid points for your consideration.   Many continue to ask us if we’ll see the film—our answer remains: we don’t know, but we tend to think not.  My continued thought is that I can never “un-see” what I’ve seen and my strong opposition to the movie in the first place is that the focus of Christ’s death was not his beating but that the agony and the passion was the bearing of the weight of the sins of the world and the atonement for sin—His resurrection is evidence of the penalty being paid and is the finished work of the Cross.  The focus is misplaced in the film.  Another strong opposition is that Roman Catholic tradition or accounts plays in and artistic liberty adds things that are not recorded in the Word —Mary proposing to help Him carry the cross with a flash-back to her helping Him up as a child after a fall.  These, along with the portrayal of satan—which I am totally opposed to.  I never take part in things dealing with satan.  (I know—narrow— and I don’t read books by Tolkien or Lewis or watch movies based on their works.)

Many tell us that Mel Gibson is a believer— his views have surely changed over the months—my hope is that this is the genuine work of the LORD in his heart.  Months ago he asserted that none outside the church (RC) will be saved.  Now, all are children of God—a blasphemous statement if he means that.  Eternity will sort all this stuff out.

It totally matters if/when Biblical accounts are compromised.  It’s here.  It’s done.  Like the purpose-driven anything, it’s a force to be dealt with.  So—that said, what we tell people now has got to be unshrouded truth—the truth of the gospel and the saving grace of the Lord Jesus Christ.

February 2004

God is the LORD, there is no other.
~February~

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February 29, 2004 Leap day!

Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great
in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets.
Luke 6.23

February 28, 2004  What a week it’s been—whew!  An amazing week!  Tuesday, the memorial of Justin’s life and amidst the grief of loss, there was celebration on his home-going—the full blessed assurance of the reality of faith in Jesus Christ and redemption through His blood—the earnest of our inheritance.  Then to Wednesday and the release of the movie: The Passion of the Christ and all the commentaries and reviews that it’s stirred up.  Then yesterday to receive the joyful news of answered prayer and the birth of the Sconce’s baby.  Missionaries in PNG with Co-Mission Int., they’ve sacrificed a great deal to live in obedience to the LORD and to serve Him there.  Do they think it’s a sacrifice?  No—they believe it is their reasonable service—this is the incredible peace that passes understanding in hearts yielded to God. Death, Atonement for death, birth.  The essences of this week—-of life.

All this in the midst of continued anarchy—incredible, isn’t it?!?!  Jesus died to save sinners—an attempt was made to depict that sacrifice on the screen and we see evidence before our eyes of man turning his back on God everywhere.  Homose-ual “marriage” is but one angle of the depravity of man.  “What we’re witnessing in America today is the flowering of the largest civil rights movement the country’s had in a generation,” said New Paltz’ Green Party mayor, Jason West.  O, God save our nation!  The anarchy we’re seeing is just another symptom of the depravity of man—the pride of life in opposition and ignorance of the Holiness of God.  But in the midst of all of this… we see the Hand of God—and will see the Justice of God who has power to set up kings and destroy nations; and everywhere, we see the consequences of violating the laws of a Holy God.  Whenever I hear the startling stats of teen “immorality” I grieve—I grieve for the young men and women, I grieve for the families, I grieve for the future generations and loss of innocence and occurrence of disease—but these are but a few of the consequences of violating the laws of a Holy God.

“Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts” 2 Peter 3.3

In the last days…

February 26, 2004   A beautiful day in the neighborhood!

Our neighbors have just installed an invisible fence for their dogs.  Incredible!  Incredible, because of the *size* of the “yard” they’re fencing!  Our property is surrounded by theirs and I don’t know how many of the 65+ acres will be included, but from the looks of the flags around the perimeter, I think it’s *most* of the acreage!  My Joey loves the dogs and they love him—but mama does *not* like dogs, or cats(!) and so mama is happy!  The huge yard will still allow for lots of stick throwing and retrieving—so, Joey’s happy!  Mama’s happy because all this fun will happen out of our yard!   The dogs have gone back home… and the boys have come back in… like always, they’ve come in smelling like wet-puppies—and I smile.  Pretty soon these days will pass and new little boys will throw sticks to the dogs and then it’ll be their turn to come in… smelling like wet-puppies and I’ll probably still be smiling… with tears in my eyes.

More help and encouragement in  congress for legislation protecting life!  The Unborn Victims of Violence Act is expected to pass the House Today.   There’s soooo much going on in these days of Judicial tyranny and *anarchy*!  Take a look at Judicial Forum’s blog for today—and previous days!

February 25, 2004 
Today’s my sister-in-law’s 50th birthday… and what a terrific sister she is!  We’re extremely thankful for and proud of her!  Happy, Happy Birthday, Connie!

Well… the long awaited day finally arrived and the highly acclaimed film debuted.  It’s a drop-dead amazing movie, I understand—literally!  I can’t imagine watching the film, I cannot imagine the intensity of the scenes attempting to bring to life what it must’ve been like at the crucifixion of our LORD and Saviour, Jesus.  We’ve been asked numerous times whether or not we’ll go to see the movie, The Passion of The Christ—and our answer remains, we don’t know.  I’m tending to think not, because, though, having never seen, I have faith; having never heard His voice audibly, I hear Him every day; I believe because The Word of God is living and so to go see a film depicting my LORD would put a face to my LORD and I couldn’t forget the imagery were I to view such agony and I fear I’d pray to the face whose eyes I’d seen.

I also have this underlying thought in many decisions I make, and it is this: caution.  When my oldest sons still lived at home, they had a phrase: “Aw, Ma, c’mon *every*body’s doing it!”  and I’d say to them, “Well, if everybody’s doing it, then there must be something wrong with it.”  Well, you know that just because everyone’s doing it doesn’t make it wrong—but it really ought to get us thinking—AND—questioning!  SO… amidst all the positive accolades and  (O, except for that death) glowing reports there are many who have a different view… one, in particular,  Andrew J. Webb offers some valid points for your consideration.  

A hesitant Yay for Matt Daniels and Robert Bork and the proposed constitutional amendment that, if passed, would block recognition of same-sex marriage. The proposed amendment would read:  “Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union between a man and a woman. Neither this Constitution or the constitution of any state, nor state or federal law, shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.”  Now you can readily see all the gaps for loopholes and plenty of room for misinterpretation.  For example, I once talked with a man who told me that he was a woman born in a man’s body.  And sick as that was, many people believe to this day that this man is, in fact, a woman.  So… yay for the attempt to salvage marriage in this nation, and that, from an Ivy league grad—but it’s still a flimsy attempt.   I know, I know…  what do I know.  That word “require” eludes me and seems an inappropriate choice—how ’bout “allow” or “permit” in it’s place—no expert in legal-ese.

I finally got the pics downloaded from last Sunday afternoon; we had a great time visiting with old and new friends!  What a blessing it is to be a part of the family of God, brothers and sisters all over the world!   Here are a few pics of the ‘reception’ for the Bruzas’

 
that’s me and Hildi                   some of the girls                       The boys loved the cool chairs!


… long time friends and some new ones, too!
Some little ones were too tired! And these are the grandbabies! [our Daniel & Tara, too ;-)]

February 24, 2004  I can’t remember why I started blogging in the first place, but over the months it’s become a regular habit of recording slices of the day and highlighting things we discovered or places we’ve visited on the net.  Danger is, that I, being a person who’s passionate about whatever I’m doing and fervent in my beliefs, tend to go overboard with the transparency deal and frequently get myself in a heap of trouble with those who can’t take sincerity at face value—as if there’s some hidden meaning or ulterior motive to candid speech.  I think I ought to ask my mom if I was always like this but deception is abhorrent to me and double-speak just drives me bats.  Language is a powerful tool—it can manipulate or hide a shocking truth, it can deceive people or families or nations.  Language in writing, though, at best, conveys truths of the heart in a way perhaps unlike any other method of communication.   Problem is, if the message is sifted through a wrong filter, it will be misconstrued.  I like to write.  I like to read.  I long to share with others—it’s a lonely world sometimes and I love that I have an opportunity to touch lives with not only day to day slices of life, but also with the Truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Everything pales in comparison with the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ as Saviour and LORD.  I hope one day to learn to write in such a way as to communicate with such clarity that misunderstanding is eliminated.  Until then,  I pray the LORD uses this cracked and chipped vessel to pour out messages.

Okay… so where was I going?  Language.  Language is powerful and persuasive speech is compelling.  I’ve been thinking on this a lot today as we sat and listened to words, and music and saw pictures imposed on a large screen… I don’t know what impressed me more—that *was* said or what was *not* said.  The service was thought provoking and God honouring.  References were made continually to not look on the outward, but to look on the heart—to “judge by the fruit and not by the suit” was one of Justin’s quotes inscribed on the back of the program.  So, here was a young man, whose life was being honoured and remembered by the hundreds of people gathered, and the recurring message was to not judge the outward, to clean up the inside and not get hung up on the outside.  SO… as I have been really mulling over language—and I’ve been referring to *written* language, now I’m processing what it is to speak without words.  To give a message without words.   Surely as we are misunderstood because of the *words* we might choose to convey a thought, how much more then by our appearance or behaviour.   Needless to say, I came away today with more questions than answers—more puzzles than solutions.  But this I know, I’m clinging to an unseen Hand.

All men should strive to learn before they die, what they are running from, and to, and why. – James Thurber

February 22-23, 2004  I’m typing this Sunday night blog at 1:30 Monday morning… Starbucks, dontchaknow.   A mocha latté, totally not part of my diet but I had one today—late in the day—worse, it was a double.  You know, one thing about staying up late, apart from the regret I’ll have when I wake up (if I ever go to sleep!) is that there’s much quiet time for reflection.  Interesting that the LORD placed me in or with a large family—I love solitude.  Interesting that He gave me boys—I love calm.  Interesting He made life unpredictable—I love predictability.   So as I type here, and read other things I trust the LORD to make things a bit less ambiguous to me as the day hits rewind and I take another look.

What a blessed day—The LORD’s day.  What a blessing to recall some of the conversations, the testimonies, and the prayers of the day.  How amazing all the details the LORD so carefully and precisely weaves and works in our lives.  One of the interesting things about fully yielding and walking with the LORD is that no matter what we do, how we plan our steps or propose to arrange our schedules, His plans prevail and His purposes are accomplished.  As we walk the roads the LORD’s called us to walk over the years, there’ve been many times when we’ve been misunderstood, misrepresented and our motives or our decisions have been misconstrued.  It’s that way for lots of people sometimes, I suppose, and everyone at some point will fall under scrutiny for their beliefs of decisions.  Problem is, most always because we look at other people’s views through our filter instead of theirs, and both are never clear. 

How thankful I am today to have just laid the day at the Feet of the LORD and He directed the path.  No matter what it may have seemed, we’d never have known just how it would go had we second-guessed the ways of the LORD.  And so as we made an unplanned visit to a friend in the hospital, we saw a glimpse of the ways of the LORD, then later, as we proceeded with plans to attend a reception, we saw a friend we hadn’t seen for many years—-we never imagined that we’d see this friend or that he had hoped to see us there and hoped we’d be able to visit awhile (which we did!).  Oh, how marvelous it is to take hold of the unseen Hand and to walk with the LORD.

We just attempted to call our friends in Papua New Guinea… they’re expecting a baby any day and we had so hoped to talk just for a bit—but when we were connected, it sounded as if one of the children had answered the phone and was carrying it around… sadly the time ran out so we’ll need to get another card to call them — perhaps next week.  But I’m not sure how many late nights I can muster—calling at 1 or 2 in the morning is best as there are few lines into the country and ‘after-hours’ it’s easier to get through.  Disappointed—but not discouraged!

February 21, 2004 Well, enough politics, etc. this morning.  Not that there’s nothing to share about that… quite the contrary, but for now, there are many other things to consider!   Plus… after staying up till 3am with my girls, I’m way too tired to wrestle with too much ‘worldly’ stuff today… too many more important things are on our minds these days and my perspective’s been challenged, anyway!

O, something neat: Kelli’s planning on getting a Hammer Dulcimer—something we’d love to buy, too—someday!!  The beauty of the instrument is surpassed only by the beautiful sound when skillfully played.    We were talking about heirlooms yesterday (which this would become in their family) and I was sharing with Kelli that what would make the instrument an heirloom to her children would be the beautiful music they’d remember and that only if it had become a regular part of family life, then any instrument passed on would be the family’s heritage of beautiful music.  That got me thinking about things we all do in our families—are the times we spend together of lasting value?  Are our activities encouraging and ‘nourishing’ then children?  Is the tone or ‘feel’ of our home one to remember—or one to emulate?

On the HOMESCHOOL front:  a neat site loaded with curriculum—books-books-books!  It’s a “message board” site for Used Homeschool Curriculum, it’s the place to post your “For Sale” and “Want to Buy” messages for used homeschool curriculum, books, and resources.  Sort of a ‘homeschooler’s eBay” site!  I’ve not done much curriculum shopping on eBay but we’ve sure been pleased with –every– eBay purchase we’ve made.  From china, to books, to CD’s, to clothing—our eBay purchases have been great!  Every seller was great to work with and every product arrived just as was listed and described.  Now… you know I’d comment if the opposite were true, but I’m pleased to say we’ve had no “sour” transactions!  So—-eBay! Here’s my warning… be careful: you’ll be up all night searching if there are specific things you’ve been looking for!  You might not find the item you’re looking for under a specific name, but sometimes typing in a bit of a different description or name will bring up the item you wnat.  It’s amazing… I’ve learned that if my boy Daniel likes a method (like eBay) and has good results, then I’m very comfortable using that avenue, too!  Now, I haven’t even come close to shopping eBay like he has! 😉

Yesterday we went to visit our boy, Michael, and were so pleased to be able to see his apartment and his delight in his beautiful home!  You know… it’s been over five years since this son left home and so much has transpired—but one thing I’ve learned is to be patient and to not get ahead of the LORD… the LORD *is* faithful and will complete the work He’s begun!  We do praise the LORD for His faithfulness!  Well… knowing I was/am trying to be in top shape , Michael gave me his treadmill.  Now this may be my last blog—bcz that machine might just do me in!  Okay, so my first (planned) hour-long aerobic walk was cut short by 56 minutes.  I needed to get the hang of slowing the thing down or risk being thrown across the kitchen!  Today’s aerobic session will be, uh,  six minutes… well, maybe.  Slower, I can do the hour… but speed that machine up too fast and I’ll likely pass out!  That’s granny’s fitness update!

I was searching for some contact information and came across this neat tool on the Citizen Link Site.  You can locate and contact national and local media.  I think you’ll discover that this site is an invaluable resource if you  don’t already use it!

What an encouragement it is to read Roger Bennett’s writings as he prepares for bone marrow transplant!  What’s incredible to me is that he’s continued to play the piano for the group and has continued to meet the obligations he’s had.

As our friends grieve the loss of their son, there is an outpouring of love and support for them and recognition of this young man’s life.  So many lives were touched by this young man—we never know the influence we have.  So many times I consider this thought: our sphere of influence is far greater than our sphere of acquaintance.   I wrote a letter on this some time back… that was for women, but I realize more and more that no matter the age, the influence one has can be tremendous.   A baby… a young child… a mother… a young man… a father… whatever the age, whatever the circumstance: there will be an influence.  I’ve been mulling over this: what will my influence be?  What will I leave behind?  What will matter?

Most of us never know the stories behind the lives of people in our community.  As we’ve followed this multi-part story, The Garden that Grief Built, this week in the Everett Herald, it’s been totally gripping to read—in this week of again coming to terms with the pain in people’s lives—pain apart from salvation in Jesus, what they’ve been through to bring them to who they are today.  Neighbors… seemingly living worlds apart from our own and yet, some are a real picture of where we might be without hope in Christ and His redemption of our lives.  This series, as well as things the LORD is doing, has been used to renew my resolve to reach our neighbors for Christ—to show them His love and to offer them the gift we’ve received in Christ Jesus. 

With all the amazing things in the news, we’re just seeing the staggering numbers of stories that indicate total chaos and “lost-ness” in our world—though many of these things are not new, the occurrence or frequency and “commonness” is astonishing.  Sin is ugly and the ugliness is becoming so “normal” in society.  I’ve been considering the ‘demands’ made by those who seek their own way—demands of tolerance—yet, so intolerant of rejection and surely of God’s Word, so intolerant of constraints to their “freedom.”  Such a double standard: those who would demand laws demand to break them.  Sin knows no bounds.

February 20, 2004  Well, if Judicial tyranny isn’t bad enough, what’s going on now is out and out anarchy!  The judicial system is becoming a farce!  Though people scream, their voice is not heard.  What is that phrase?  O, yes: You ain’t seen nuthin yet!  What’s going on in San Francisco, Chicago and New Mexico is astounding!   What an affront to God and the God ordained institution of marriage, this denigration of His Word concerning the sanctity of marriage.  It sickens me to have to ‘stand by’ and watch this revolt and the degradation of marriage.  But sin is like that—an in-your-face attack on our holy God. 

A news brief I just received from the Alliance Defense Fund

I cannot believe I used to live and go to school in what is now Sodom.  I used to dream of spending some more time in my city high-on-a-hill… where-little-cable-cars-climb-halfway-to-the-stars…my-city-by-the-bay—but no longer.  My heart’s here… I certainly didn’t leave my heart in SanFrancisco.  We were married in  SanFrancisco—and our marriage license was issued from there… when marriage licenses were only issued legally.   And now, the Mayor’s a hero.  And check out that Habakkuk 1.3-4 passage!  Incredible.  What do you think!?!?   Even so—Come LORD Jesus!

Okay… comic relief time.  I don’t necessarily endorse the saying of every one of these ‘funnies‘ but…  a little levity, dears, a little levity.

February 19, 2004  What a whirlwind of emotion this week as friends and family come to grips with the death of the young man, Justin.  The more we hear of his life, the family’s life and recall what’s transpired in recent weeks, the more we see the Hand of God in all of these things—though in tears, it’s not difficult to say: praise the LORD for His marvelous works!  His sister is a testimony of strength and trust in the LORD.  His family is a picture of faith in the work and ways of the LORD.   As the young people gathered for Bible study last night, much was shared and many tears shed as this young man was remembered.  There’ll be a special service for him next week.

Tamera (Justin’s mother) had just tearfully shared two weeks ago in the morning service that on Christmas day, one of their little daughters had awoken at her grandparents house, and then not finding anyone awake yet had wandered out into the cold from her grandparents house— (next door  but not close in proximity bcz of living in the country), early morning in her diapers and a small shirt.  She was found by a neighbor and brought to Marty and Tamera’s home.   Later that day (Christmas) Tamera said she was fearful to allow her 18yo daughter to drive to Oregon in case something were to happen to her.  She loves her family so much and is careful to be attentive to them.   Tamera shared that day in church that she then felt challenged by God, asking if she would continue loving Him even if He took one of her children away.  Wes and I feel as though it was a prophetic time—that the LORD was preparing her for what He would have for her down the road.   This is a testimony of the mercy of God!  Something we may not understand at the time, but accept in faith.   Anyway, this all has certainly been heartrending, but has strengthened our faith and resolve to love and serve our precious LORD.  Many people are affected—besides the family, Justin’s fiancée, Addy and many other relatives and friends.  We’re also praying for the crane operator who obviously didn’t know Justin was there.  We imagine that his grief and sense of guilt must be overwhelming.  The LORD has blessed Tamera many many ways over the years and one of the most profound is His continued provision and confirmation of love in guiding her path.

She’s now a member of a special group of women who’s grief is a kind shared and known only by the other members… women who’ve buried a child. 

2-18-2004 – 6pm   I have an apology and a correction to make to my comments regarding “seeker churches” in America and around the world. I am sorry for the miscommunication regarding my thoughts  on the “institutional” church.  I wished to simply say that I am dead set opposed to churches that are offering a counterfeit “gospel” and are soft-selling a brand of easy-believism, avoiding the discomfort of “old-fashioned” evangelism or gospel teaching, it’s compromised Christianity that focuses on perceived success, caters to felt needs rather than focusing on the Cross, the depravity of man, eternal separation from God for those who will not know Him as LORD and Saviour. 

1Peter 4.17  “For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God?”

I stand against what’s become a paradigm for a large number of “churches” in America:  seeker sensitive, purpose driven, paradigm shift churches.   And, though I’ve referenced “Open church” & “Home-church” & “House church” sites and agree whole heartedly with much but not all that’s shared on those sites, our family still attends a local Baptist church in addition to a home-fellowship.  I want to share that we are not standing in judgment of all ‘churches’ nor are we seeking to promote some ‘brand’ of Christianity, nor use this as a venue for promotion of a personal agenda or particular plan—save, the Word of God.  We do pray for those who hold the position of pastor of local assemblies and  pray for a spiritual awakening—the wake-up call has surely been given!  We seek the LORD and His Righteousness. 

I appreciated receiving mail concerning this and other issues related to the institutional church.  This blog’s a reflection of life in our home and would be pretty boring if nothing but a weather report was written each day.  Imagine, day after day: In the Pacific Northwest: rain today, rain tomorrow, rain for the rest of the week giving way to occasional showers and rare sunbreaks.

No strong opinions here.  😉

February 18, 2004  From time to time I read info on a site that leaves me thinking: well, that’s the craziest thing I ever read.  Here’s a site that offers hundreds of uses for well known products from Alberto VO5 Conditioner to Ziploc bags.   One particular use for Flexible Straws:  “Prevent tangles in fine chain jewelry.  Run the chain through a length of Glad Flexible Straw and fasten the catch.”

Another “help save marriage” site and petition.  This, “No Gay Marriage” site has articles updates and petitions.  You know, some of us probably seem as obnoxious as the flagrant abusers of the law—and those who are obtaining bogus marriage “licenses.”  The American Family Association has a very thorough coverage of these and other issues that are tearing apart the family, posing such an arrogant attack on God and will ultimately destroy America. (As my husband often says of me: “No strong opinions here!”)  It is utterly amazing to me that our political system has degraded to this rebellious judicial tyranny

I say, O, God, where is the church?  I don’t mean all the religious institutions or tens of thousands of “church” buildings across our land, I mean: the church, the body of Christ.  Wake up, believers!  Wake up to the stench of this sinful nation.  Pray.  Walk with God—stop masquerading with a foot in the world and a foot on the Word.  I say, women: stay home, take good care of your husband, your children and your home, be pure, be faithful.  I say, men: lead as the Word commands you to lead, quit entertaining yourself to death with sports and p-rnography, be faithful, be true, quit running after the elusive nest egg and status symbols, be honest, quit ye like men!  Today’s all you’ve got—tomorrow you could be dead.

I’ve realized another reason I am so ardently against the “seeker” so called “churches” that are filled with people who would have as much or more “fun” at a club, buildings that have no crosses and no Bibles on the chairs or pew racks.  Where there’s nothing offensive, nothing hard to swallow, nothing uncomfortable—just partial Truth.  Look where that whole misguided, unbiblical nauseating trend has taken what should be the Church or what it’s done with the Truth—it’s exchanged it for a lie and made it (the Church) of no effect.   What a grief this is.

February 17, 2004  In a television interview with Diane Sawyer, Mel Gibson gave clear and succinct answers to what seemed to me to be heated and divisive questions.  It’s no surprise and this was just a taste of what’s to come as The Passion of The Christ debuts on the 25th of February.

I just discovered this page for women—The Christian Woman’s Page and took a look at a few articles.  It seems to be a good and encouraging site. 

February 16, 2004   Tragedy.  No words.  I’m struck with the tremendous stark reality that today is all we have—no guarantees of tomorrow—just today: it’s all we have.  Our family was in the middle of prayers following our Bible study when we received the call that Justin, the eldest son of our friends, the Glaser’s, had died as a result of a tragic crane accident.  This young man had just celebrated his 20th birthday, had plans to marry a young woman, had just moved into his new home and had a loving family and many friends.  Another young man whose life *seems* to have been lost too soon—but God.  But God who is rich in mercy… saw fit to bring this young man home, and so, sorrow has come to this home.

My husband and I rode silently from their home this evening… again, no words.  We wondered how could we have been so blessed.  How could the LORD be so gracious.  But I know deep in my heart that grief comes to everyone and tragedy visits every home… sorrow skips no home—every home is visited with sadness and no one escapes the sting of death.

My first inclination was to call my son… I knew our other children and grandchildren were safe here with us; but this son was not here and I was compelled to call to connect with him, to affirm my love for him and to assure him of my concern for him.  He’s just a couple of years older than the young man who passed away and just a year older than Nolan—all were friends, all had that same thread of youth that bound them and all had their lives stretched out wide before them and now two have gone…

February 15, 2004  You’ll just be amazed at Roger Bennett’s news!   The LORD surely seems to be at work here for giving the Bennett’s such remarkable news.
Blessings this L
ORD‘s Day!

February 14, 2004

We’re remembering Nolan today.  This would have
been his 22nd birthday.

    As our friend Carolyn answered the door, we wondered what to say—what is there to say to a mother whose son was tragically killed 5 months ago, a son who was so young and had so much going for him.  Her “Valentine baby.”  We stood on the porch listening to her sweetly recounting some of the events of the day, some tearful memories of days gone by and as she shared, I realized how much it meant to her to know that others were remembering.  Nolan had worked for Costco and the employees had just sent her 2 dozen roses… and a card letting the family know that they hadn’t forgotten this young man, their special friend and co-worker. 
She shared the difficult process to finally locate a heart balloon that simply said, “I love you.” How grateful I was to be holding a plate full of beautiful heart cookies that Kathryn had frosted in white with “I love you” surrounded by dots that looked like pearls around the edge of each cookie.  As I handed her the plate, I realized we had little to offer that would bring the comfort she needed.  We prayed for her there…

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Another visit with Mom has come to an end.  We sure had a happy week with Wes’s mom here with us from Indiana.  Not much time for blogging today… but lots in the news—if you can stand it!

Happy Valentine’s Day!
There is no greater love… John 15.13 “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”    A sweet Valentine’s Day around here today.  Wes liked his flowers! 😉  I did for him what he did for me for our anniversary: rose bushes!  I’ll put them by his Gravenstein apple tree.  I’m thrilled that his hyacinths and daffodils are starting to come up!  I bought him the bulbs for his birthday and planted them a few months ago.  He particularly likes the scent of the hyacinths—that’s why I bought them!

Another great article by Steve Atkerson of the New Testament Restoration Foundation.  Yes, I’m sort of preoccupied with this sort of material lately as we seek to understand what the LORD would have us to do and how He would have us to live out our lives in faith before Him.  None of these articles or ideas are meant as an attack on the institutional church in America—though no amount of discussion will be convincing, rather they cause us to take a good hard look and make an honest assessment of what we do and why!  It’ll surely offend some and probably will be misunderstood by others—but that’s not the intent of my posting or sharing the articles/links/sites.  If a man will not, in the light of Scripture, examine what he does or ever question what he believes and why he believes it, he’s foolish.  Prove all things, hold fast that which is good.

A couple of our children served area Pastors and wives at
a Valentine’s Banquet… they were having a bit of fun before leaving!

February 13, 2004… back to blogging.

A new dawn…  was buying a bunch of “sippy-cups” at the drugstore in town today and the cashier asked, or rather stated:  “O, these are for your graaaannd-children!?!”  I, for the first time, realized that I look *more* like a grandmother than “just” a mother—instantaneously, I felt compelled to buy a [sworn-off] box of hair dye.  This gray hair seems more like a stark announcement of  advancing age rather than a “crown of splendor” or “way of wisdom” to me.  Ahhh but for the days of youth when I was easily thin, agile and much, much smarter than today.  Ahhhhh, youth.

Hey, what about Massachusetts?!?!  Indecision… a little purchasing of time for wrestling and hashing out the ramifications of whichever law or amendment is established.  It may seem like the debate dead-ends, but it’s anything but dead!  Now there’s time for some real slinging over the issues.

YOU can take action on the Federal Marraige Amendment Amendment!  AND push to STOP Judicial Tyranny.   Track this issue at Judicial Forum —click on the weblog for current updates.

February 12, 2004  Too bizzy for bloggin’ today.

February 11, 2004   O… it’s bad enough all the criticism some people receive while they’re *living*, but now the flack Dr. Atkins is getting posthumously is amazing.  Physicians released Dr. Atkins’ [how’d they get access to the files?] medical information—revealing his physical condition at the time of his death following a fall on some ice.  A group whose interest is probably opposite the “Atkins Approach” to eating released the information.  Another example of envy and the lengths some will go to knock someone down—well I guess dead is as far as one can get knocked down—but his legacy is attacked.  I don’t know what might’ve contributed to his gross water weight-gain and is it important to debate it? —but I do know this: eliminating white food eliminates overweight—O, that, and it’s probably a good idea to watch your step on ice.

Be sure and install critical Microsoft Windows updates.  Serious security flaws will leave systems vulnerable.  “Microsoft urged consumers to apply the repairing patch immediately if they were using Windows NT, Windows 2000 or Windows XP versions of its software, or its Windows NT Server, Server 2000 and Server 2003 software commonly found in corporations.”

In the news… today’s the day to keep your eye on Massachusetts, where lawmakers debate a ban on “gay marriage” —which, no matter what the “law” says, can never even be accomplished as it violates God’s Word.  What was the latest ploy of those who are seeking a redefinition of marriage?  Do I keep  chanting the mantra:  now more than ever we need to make our voice heard and our prayers fervent?  There seems to be so much at stake here—but, again, no matter what takes place, the fact will remain that the LORD God defined marriage from the beginning as a union of a man and a woman.  No matter what man devises, God’s Word stands, God’s design stands, and God will judge.  No matter which road a man takes, all roads will, in the end, end at the Judgment Seat of Christ.  There will be no exceptions, no alternate feelings, no buddha, no mohammed, no science, no knowledge or counsel against the LORD.  The Word says:  “But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.” [1Corinthians 2.9]  In the end it will just be Jesus.

Keeping Roger Bennett in prayer… you can read his web journal.

In Titus2 fellowship yesterday morning we talked over the aspects of love.  It’s interesting the number of times love is involved with the decisions we make or the reaction we have to something/someone.  One of the ladies read 1 Corinthians 13 with the specific intention to seek how to apply the teaching in the verses to ministering to the family by meeting the needs of the family.  I suggested special plans ought to be made to bless the family for Valentine’s Day.  I suggested a special meal, favourite treats, individual cards or notes, and a joy-filled home.  I recalled what we’d learned from Nancy Campbell at the Above Rubies retreat:  your children may not remember all that you did in your home, but they’ll remember how it felt there.  O, how I keep this in my thoughts each day.  So… this Valentine’s Day—for everyone: go out of your way, be bold… do something out of the ordinary to show l-o-v-e.

More inspiration for February…   Is your walk waning? Is your fervor dim?  Need some encouragement for your walk?

February 10, 2004

 
This picture was taken six months after Wes’s father went to be with the LORD.
From the left:  he and his two sisters, his mother and his brother.
We had just had prayer for mother, for her future and of thanks for the days behind.
As she arrived for a visit, we were so moved by the great care and blessing of
the LORD in the last four years.  We can trust Him far beyond the sunset.

I read an article regarding habits married couples ought to cultivate; this, from christianity today.   As we make decisions to daily have a clean slate before the LORD, another wise decision is to have a clean slate between husband and wife.  Keeping short accounts safeguards marriage, strengthens it and keeps out the weeds that choke growth and fruit.

It’s going to get thicker and nastier as campaigning for the fall election heats up and as other debates come to pass; read more here.

February 9, 2004  As the family goes, so goes the nation.  Opponents of same se-x marriage  held a rally yesterday and the issue is sparking heated debates—this one’s far from over.   If marriage is to last or to have a lasting impact on future generations, then it’s imperative that it be held in highest esteem and be strengthened and nurtured.  The world is looking for answers—and ultimately, will find none outside faith in Christ.

Had to go back on the eating plan again… had gained a few pounds and had not yet reached my goal.  So… back off the butter-sugar-flour foods for awhile.  It’s not too challenging—but I did want to eat a bowl of tortilla chips today as we had mexican food today—but it was tasty even sans the tortillas and chips… and cake.  Maybe you have a struggle with weight and so you know what I mean—well… here’s a piece I received over e-mail today.

Diets & Dieting:

1.The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans
2.The French eat a lot of fat and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans
3.The Japanese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans
4.The Italians drink excessive amounts of red wine and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans
5.The Germans drink a lot of beer and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans

Conclusion: Eat and drink what you like but learn a new language; speaking English is apparently what kills you.

Thought you’d like that one.  My mother-in-law arrives today!  We’ve been so looking forward to seeing her.  It’s soooo chilly in Indianapolis where she lives!  I’m praying the snow doesn’t prevent or delay her travels.  The NOAA weather site shows her temp at 28˚—with snow flurries. 

For February 8, 2004   In a little more than two weeks, The Passion will debut in theaters around the world.  What will the reaction be?  What will believers do in response to the sure opposition to the movie and its message?  What will you do?  What will you say in response to hatred toward God.  Well, toward Jesus, really, because the world is much more apt to accept a god—not the God of the Bible—but a god of their own or their religion’s creation.  Jesus said: “I am the Way the Truth and the Life, no man comes to the Father but by Me.”  John 14.6   We do praise and thank the LORD for His goodness:  “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.”1John 3.1

So, The Passion…  it’ll be interesting to experience the days ahead.  We pray the film will be used of the LORD to draw men and women to faith in Jesus Christ as LORD and Saviour. 

February 7, 2004  Was Bingo the FARMER or the DOG?  Think about it… it’s quite a question, isn’t it?!?  Some of us believe in the duality of Bingo being fully farmer, fully dog.  What do you think?  Okay… my arm was twisted and I typed what I was told to type—no resistance, here.

Seven years ago today my husband had an accident with a skilsaw.  He cut up his hand and because it took so many months to heal, he was unable to work most of that time.   He lost half of his index finger and though his wedding ring had to be cut off, I marvel whenever I see that ring—I imagine that it stopped the saw from cutting that and his little finger totally off.   I was amazed at the skill of the surgeon who repaired Wes’s  hand—the reattaching and connecting and repairing the bones, nerves, veins and tissue.  But I believe one of the greatest benefits of that day was the cementing of an already dear friendship between my husband and his friend that made them more like brothers.  I’ll always be grateful to Mike for his skill & quick thinking and all he’s done to help my husband.  That accident has been used of the LORD time and time again as the LORD used that time to teach our family lessons about Himself, about trust and faith in Him that we didn’t have before that time—not to the degree that’s been built.  In the years that followed that accident, we would see the LORD bring back to our remembrance how He worked, how He provided and how he led our family and as a consequence, how our faith was strengthened as never before.  Throughout our marriage, the LORD‘s called us to live a life of faith, to fully and utterly depend on Him, His provision and His direction.  The most obvious way has been in the form of self-employment in a seasonal business; couple that with His blessed provision of eleven children and a call to minister to others.  As we recount the years, He’s never —never— let us down, not once.  He’s always provided above and beyond what we’ve ever needed.  He’s faithful and true, He’s our high King of heaven, our LORD.  We celebrate this day.  Truly, God is the LORD.

Kathryn’s doing much better and is getting around much better each day!  Now she has the bandages that are irritating her skin a bit, but for the most part, just a bit of an ache later in the day—some swelling… O, but for the joy that is set before her…

My mother-in-law is coming out for a visit!  We’re so looking forward to having her here!  Living in Indiana, now, she seems as far away to us as she was when she was a missionary in Taiwan or in Philippines.  We’ll have a good time—but she’ll be busy! She’s got plans for each day… lunch with friends, lunch with my mama, and Bible study group to share with.  We’re grateful for this as we’ve often thought that with some health problems complicating things from time to time, her time is likely shorter than we think!  So… we enjoy the hope of the days ahead!

Lots more Valentine’s recipes and ideas here!  [while that site doesn’t seem to be currently maintained, it’s got lots of great recipes—not just Valentine’s Day ideas)—so many yummy looking recipes…  I’m thinking they’re not into Atkins!

I’m going use heart shaped cake pans and make a sweet-heart cake—I’m thinking of making this Oreo White Chocolate Mousse cake and Valentine’s cookies for the children and English Cherubs for my husband.  Kathryn will be making heart cutout cookies—hearts with piped “pearls” and glaze filling the centers.

Another book to read… interesting, a historical fiction book.  A quote from the site:  “Disenchantment with organized religion and a thirst for more intimate fellowship inspire them to worship in their own parlours. Realizing that God doesn’t live in structures of stone, they jettison former rituals in their quest for a deeper Christian life.”

February 6, 2004  Today’s Ronald Reagan’s 93rd birthday.  Much to celebrate in the life of this president!  I missed The Sean Hannity show today and wondered what might have been said about former President Reagan—this, from Hannity & Colmes on Fox.  While Mr. Reagan was not able to attend, a celebration was held in his honour. A pictorial tribute in World magazine sure brings back memories today.  It amazes me how quickly the last 25 years have passed!

It’s another rather dreary morning here in the Northwest.  Such is life—so plans for the days ahead must continue: rain or shine.   Valentine’s Day is coming… a gazilliion more ideas, too! at Peggie’s Place and another sweet Valentine’s page.  Mine is still sadly lacking… but our family and our home needed the attention more than adding to that page!  Still the best is flowers!  I’m so pleased with my new jackson and perkins roses!  These that Wes bought for me are Melody Parfumée and Artistry (these will go in a flower bed I’m making to honour my mother—I still need to get a tree for it).  I also buy an Evelyn rose each year for my mother-in-law—that rose garden is looking so pretty (well, not right now, but soon!).

 

A life changing book for us and for a couple of years now we’ve been encouraging others to read the book “The Day of Small Beginnings” as an encouragement to get out of the traditions of men and into the Word as far as sincerely living out day to day what the New Testament teaches. It can be read online or we can send it out as an e-book.  Many have read it and have been encouraged to rethink the what and why of the living out of the faith—regardless of whether one would make a decision to leave the institutionalized “church” or never to do so, it forever changes the way the “institution” is viewed and the heart or thoughts toward methods is forever transformed by the challenge to what has become tradition and “religion.”  Another book that’s interesting is, “Rethinking the Wineskin” by Frank Viola.  I’m not too familiar with his ministry/theological position and so would like to read more about him/his work.  His book is interesting and thought provoking.  We’ve had good letters concerning home churches or home fellowships—one thing believers have in common over the world is the desire for true fellowship and the longing to be in regular fellowship with other like-minded believers.  A question that seems to come up frequently is the question over the function or order of the meetings in homes.  A good article at the New Testament Restoration Foundation addresses this question.

This blog, in addition to being a web journal—a commentary, is also somewhat of a personal journal in that I give glimpses of daily life here in our home and family—these are more for my self than anything but I share because so many are looking for camaraderie in the Christian home/life and so… I share what’s going on in hopes that it’ll encourage some from day to day.  Sometimes what I write may seem critical or judgmental and that’s not always intentional—but I’m not ashamed of the Gospel of Christ and so when society violates or strays from the Truth, it’s important to stand against it.  I don’t have an ulterior motive in using this venue, nor the intention to give subtle messages to others.   Just thought I’d clear up an unasked question.  I love to write, I love to share ideas and information with others and I love that the LORD has allowed me to be a help and encouragement to women and families.  All I’m writing lately pertaining to home-fellowships is based on our journey to obedience in worship and community with other believers. We’re still members of a local church and  as such, are still happily involved in the lives of believers there.  Our time with other believers in home-fellowship has become our focus because of the collective desire to “live out” or fully function as a body rather than observers in others’ lives.  More on this someday.

February 5, 2004

 
Our special candlelight anniversary dinner at home prepared by Kathryn!
salad, wholegrain rolls, steak, red potatoes, sautéed mushrooms and tomatoes, chocolate cups with whipped cream and strawberries, blueberry bavarian cream filled chocolate tarts… delicious!
All the children were upstairs, while Kathryn prepared our meal; Timothy assisted her as our waiter!
What a blessing it’s been to us today…  I love new roses and peonies from Wes—not the kind of flowers he usually buys me!  These I am planting in the ground and will delight in them for years to come!


Twenty six years later: we still say, “I do… forever.”

February 4, 2004  Now, today it’s a blessing to celebrate our 26th anniversary!  Today we celebrate what the LORD has done, the children, the grandchildren, family, friends, the innumerable blessings, the joys and sorrows, the happiness and tears, the gains and losses and above all: the faith the LORD’s given us throughout all these years.

Just ten days to Valentine’s day!  We’re looking for fun recipes and decorations for the celebrations!

It’s no surprise to me that the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court would further its agenda to undermine marriage.   Read World Net Daily for more on this—I know, who really wants to read more on this—but it *is* imperative to address this one; it’s one of the most divisive and far-reaching issues we’re facing today!  Now, more than ever, it’s easy to see why it’s so important to act now on exposing and ending judicial tyranny in our country.   This isn’t the only issue that ought to have you concerned… there’s more, much more!    Walter Martin used to say: are you doing for the Truth what the enemy’s willing to do for a lie?

It’s not enough to hope it’ll all go away: This is America, after all.  It’s not enough to make a call to a senator or to pledge a couple of dollars here and there.  It’s not enough to just pray it’ll all go well.  We can and we must *be* in behaviour that becomes holiness, we can and must apply what we read in the Word. The watching world is looking for answers and finds none unless our behaviour is above reproach and our testimony is bright and true.  The church in America is becoming anemic and fruitless in reaching the lost for a changed life of Faith in Christ—many are attending services being held each Sunday—but are lives exchanged for Christ and are men and women living in faith and truth?  We must fall to our knees, pray for forgiveness for getting caught up in the religiosity of programs and agendas and curricula that promise life, fulfillment and happiness— It’s no wonder there’s confusion over the first and most basic institution: marriage.  Believers won’t even obey the Word—how could we possibly expect or even hope those without God and with no hope in this world to understand and uphold this most precious and sacred institution.  What an affront to the most Holy God for His creation to desecrate His design—but how much more, His children to stand by and watch.

How can this be done?  Well, I’m thinking it can be done as believers walk in fellowship with one another and as believers rethink what it is and what it means to be a follower of Christ.  Not the Sunday bus ride for the Sunday show for all those who park at the same Sunday Park ‘n Ride.  I mean: fellowship!  As we rethink what we call “church” and how we function as a body and what we call “fellowship.”   We don’t need another program, another activity or another committee meeting to discuss how we can provide for fellowship—but genuine in your face, in your life regular fellowship with families and singles, widows and children, etc. The more time we spend in regular fellowship with other believers, we see what it is to be a New Testament church—and, sadly, we see what we’ve been missing and what countless thousands are missing by *not* being/living in genuine fellowship with other believers.  I don’t mean they’re not regularly going to “church.”    O, we’ve been *going* to “church” for decades!  We’ve been faithful in attendance—the more commitments the better! But what we haven’t been is faithful to being a New Testament church *body*.   Think this sounds strange?  Think it might even seem “cultish?”  Well, it won’t seem strange once you read more about what it means to be a New Testament church.    One of my first questions and hopefully, yours would be: what do they believe?  The site (which is one of many) has publications to encourage and equip you as you seek to follow Christ in practice and in Truth.   Once you read the book:  Ekklesia: To The Roots of Biblical Church Life by Steve Atkerson, you’ll see what I’m talking about… in fact, you probably won’t even have to go so far as to begin reading the book to begin questioning what you’ve been doing and why.  This is just one of many good sites/links for what are commonly called house-churches or home-fellowship groups.

February 2, 2004  A new week is underway—full steam ahead and yet, we sort of feel out of steam here!  Perhaps it’ll all pick up in a day or so.  Too many balls in the air for this juggler!  I’m looking outside seeing the all the roses that need pruning, the apple trees that need pruning and all the beds that need tending—not to mention all the yard clean-up!  I’m going to muster the resolve to get out there this week and get some things done!   I try to get the pruning done each year by Valentines Day—so I still have a number of days to get them done.  I’d like to add another rose bush and another one for my mother-in-law.  I’d like to start another rose garden for my mother… I just need to find another good sunny place to do it—of course, it’ll need a tree, too.  I don’t think a girl can have too many roses.  Each year Costco sells Jackson & Perkins roses and this year they’ve got some new additions.  I’d like to get a totally different one—but I always tend toward the same ones!  Another thing I’m sort of enjoying:  peonies—so I think I’ll add another or two of those.   The hydrangeas need shaping—they’re also a favourite!  It would be something to see one of the red hydrangeas —Michigan Bulb is showing!  We have a few varieties but no reds!   Gardening is such a blessing!  I’ve long thought that everyone ought to have a little digging in their life!  There are so many lessons… parallels and life messages to be learned or better understood by spending time digging in the dirt… clearing away weeds… watching growth come… watering… keeping weeds away…  and: waiting.  Ahhh the waiting.

SO glad we were with our home fellowship group yesterday and *missed* the displays of lewdness and distasteful commercials during the Super Bowl.  We’d not have watched the game had we been home—neither we nor our children need to see all that is “normal” to many—normal doesn’t mean right—I’m talking about the commercials and the half-time show—not the game itself.   If you saw them, then you know first hand the crudeness of the commercials and halftime show.  The moment (totally inappropriate displays) may not have conformed to CBS broadcast standards, however when MTV is producing a halftime show, one could be pretty sure that the First Baptist choir wouldn’t be taking center stage—hearing about who the producers were, I’m thinking: what’s the surprise here?  Today’s news & emails were more than we needed regarding the questionable or totally inappropriate presentations, however, I would like to have seen that last winning kick!   Not referring specifically to the Super Bowl, but life in general:  with each passing year I marvel at what seems to be the lowest of lows… and then another year passes and the depth of depravity and acceptance or tolerance of sin increases and broadens. 

February 1, 2004  The first day of a new month!  My favourite month of the year!  Also, today is the LORD’s Day—a day of fellowshipping with believers!  The reason February is my favourite month is each February marks another year of marriage for us. This year it’s 26!  Twenty-six years ago—not having the slightest idea or knowing or even imagining any of the events, blessings, tragedies, trials or triumphs that would become our history—I said, I do, forever.  And now… though there are days I’d rather not repeat, I wouldn’t trade a one of them or miss a one of them for anything in the world—any amount of money or any thing more or anything less.  Even the worst of days have been better than all the best days most people ever have—and I know it’s all because the LORD’s blessing has been with us.  I still do, forever.

Kathryn is so grateful to everyone for their prayers and kind words of support.  She enjoyed some time fellowshipping with friends and having the opportunity to share what the LORD has allowed her.  It’s really quite remarkable—to think that at this point one year ago, we would never have believed that one year later we’d be looking back on nearly 5 months in a wheel chair and crutches, four surgeries, the blessing of beautiful feet, the path of learning to walk with straight feet, and the merciful blessing of the LORD through skilled surgeon’s hands!  We’d never have thought of all the blessings of this past year and the doors that have been opened to Kathryn to share the LORD.  O, to gain a glimpse of the LORD’s hand in this and of Kathryn’s character, I hope you’ll read the poem Glenys Hick’s wrote for her.  Behind the poem is a picture of an x-ray before and an x-ray following Kathryn’s first surgery.

January 2004

God is the LORD, there is no other.


January 2004


Our January Snow and Ice Pictures

here’s another one for you, mama… Kathryn
and me at a party this past Christmas

January 31, 2004  Already the last day of the first month.  What an amazing thing it is to have time seem to be at an accelerated pace.  Early in motherhood, I thought the days were so long but the months flew by—now, the days and months seem to pass in a blink!

Kathryn’s doing much better today—has a bit of pain in her leg where the tourniquet was used—that surgery is done in a “bloodless field.”  It’s fascinating to see what’s done in the process—but not for the squeamish—I’ll tell ya that!

A lot more to write about the upcoming: Passion movie.  There’s an article circulating that is credited to Paul Harvey and it’s quite a sensitive review of the movie and the effect on the viewer—  From what I’ve heard of Paul Harvey, I imagine he’d likely agree with the words.

Today’s a bizzy-bizzy day.  Many have already gathered to hear Dick York share today at Emmanuel Baptist church.  He’s quite a gifted man.  I appreciate his years of work and his wisdom.  He has so much to offer having walked with the LORD as long as he has.  It doesn’t even matter to me that his theological position (calvin vs. arminius) doesn’t fully match what I personally believe.  I understand where he’s coming from and see his position.  We sort of have that going on in this house all the time, though and it’s really okay.  This side of heaven we only see in the glass darkly—no matter what we think!!   I know my Calvinistic leanings are probably a bit on the strong side and yet, I totally understand how my husband (and friends & family) sees a different (but sometimes parallel) angle of this theological position.  He’s surely read/studied/debated/and waited on the LORD la long time and has my undying admiration and respect.

January 30, 2004  It’s a rainy, dreary day here in the Northwest.  Such a blessing to have wood and a woodstove! Kathryn’s doing a bit better today but is still experiencing quite a bit of pain and some sickness… each day of the climb will be easier for her… but it’s still a pretty steep climb.  Our little friend Kinsey’s picture depicts Kathryn as she sees her.  😉  I smile knowing the LORD’s Hand in Kinsey’s life and that because of a major injury, she’s faced a thousand times more in her early years than people face their whole life… but, Kinsey sees the Sonshine.


Kathryn, by Kinsey… January 2004

January 29, 2004  Long night, this last. Lots of pain for Kathryn—no pain to me to stay by and help her.  So thankful to the LORD for His working through the surgeon who operated on Kathryn’s foot yesterday.  Wes & I talked with him for a bit after the surgery and he was so encouraged by her words and attitude.  She had told the doctors and the nurses in surgery that they had changed her life and that she was so grateful to them for all they’ve done for her—that they had no idea what a blessing they were to her.  So… when they came out to talk with us, that’s what they all said.  The doc was especially touched as he said sometimes work gets so routine that you never know how it all works out.  Well—for us, this worked out marvelously and we know the LORD was answering our prayers in and through the work of this doctor’s hands. 

A precious sister in the LORD sent a beautiful poem that was waiting for us when we got home yesterday.   What’s so touching is not only that she would take the time to do this, or that her walk with the LORD made it possible, but that it is only through this small work that she “knows” us and that we’ll probably never meet this side of heaven—and so we owe her a debt of gratitude.  I made a print of it with a picture of two of Kathryn’s x-rays behind the words and then I decided to frame it for others to see.  I had an old picture in a matted frame and so thought that there would be a nice place for it in the dining room.  I stand in awe of God Who’s made all this possible and the words form the sister in Australia surely reveal that she knows this too.  So… for Kathryn Grace who knows the Who and Why of the shape and scars of her beautiful feet… here is a poem with thanks to and for Glenys Hicks.

Perhaps you heard the Colson, Breakpoint commentary.  If not, here’s a touching commentary, At the Foot of the Cross.

Much in the news about the upcoming Passion of Christ.  David Limbaugh’s review of the movie concludes:  The moral is that if you want the popular culture to laud your work on Christ, make sure it either depicts Him as a homosexual or as an everyday sinner with no particular redeeming value (literally). In our anti-Christian culture, the blasphemous “The Last Temptation of Christ” is celebrated, and “The Passion” is condemned. But if this movie continues to affect people the way it is now, no amount of cultural opposition will suppress its force and its positive impact on lives everywhere. Mel Gibson is a model of faith and courage.   (Read his entire review here)

These I’ve received from newsletters—and expect to see many more:

The Canada-based TruthMedia team have built an evangelistic site around the PASSION film.
http://www.thelife.com/
And they have created SHARE THE LIFE as a site directed at Christians, encouraging them to integrate this film into their evangelism: http://www.sharethelife.com/
Both these sites are incomplete at this time of writing, but expect to be fully operational mid-February, well before the main film launch.

CCCI US have rebranded their WHO IS JESUS site as ‘PASSION OF CHRIST’:
http://www.passionofchrist.com/

And CCC’s Evangelism Toolbox has created a specific PASSION-related site where you can find (or add), specific resources for churches to mesh with this very significant film.
http://www.thepassiontoolbox.org/

For details of ordering tickets, getting the film to your local cinema, and obtaining promotional materials from the film’s makers, plus links, news, reviews, and comments:
http://www.hollywoodjesus.com/newsletter065.htm

You can tell a friend by email (or text message) about the availability of movie clips of the film:
http://www.buzzplant.com/passion/

January 28, 2004 
Well… today’s the day for Kathryn’s 4th & final (we pray!) foot surgery.  We stayed up so late last night… don’t know if it was from excitement or just to have a good time of talking, a last little snack and coffee.  No matter, it was worth it and we’re now preparing for her appointment.  As always, she’s doing great and is very calm.  The surgeons who will be working on her foot today are the same she’s had the previous three times and are such fine men.  I’m so thankful for the LORD’s direction of the selection of this doctor and his associate!  They’re really gracious and so attentive to her needs and comfort.  Easy for me to say.  I have some links on our medical page that show different foot surgeries.  O, …perhaps not with your morning coffee, though… okay?

There’s a site—with books and the whole deal— that seems to validate the type of “diet” way I’ve been eating over the last several months. Last summer, when I decided to let go of butter-sugar-flour foods and mocha lattés, I began to lose weight.  It was as thought the LORD put His finger on that area of my life and I knew that these foods had a grip on me and I had to get out from under my obsession with BSF foods.   I know He guided my thoughts and was my Help as I walked away from foods I love and helped me to replace them with better choices for me.  I am learning moderation.  I haven’t really done the Atkins or Zone diets—but perhaps a combination of them.  My mom suggested the site so I’ve been taking a look at the Glycemic Index.   I think if you’re having a hard time getting your arms around the Atkins plan, then maybe the glycemic index is for you.  It’s possibly an easier way of dealing with “what in the world do you eat” questions.  This, from their site:

• Use breakfast cereals based on oats, barley and bran
• Use “grainy” breads made with whole seeds
• Reduce the amount of potatoes you eat
• Enjoy all types of fruit and vegetables (except potatoes)
• Eat plenty of salad vegetables with vinaigrette dressing

This is sort of how I’ve been eating for the last couple of months.  A little oatmeal occasionally, Flax Seed bread,  NO potatoes, NO rice, smaller portions of beans, 1/4 banana, 1/2 servings of fruit at a time, Tortilla chips only if they have salsa on them—THAT totally curbs the snacking—you get too full too snack on them!  See… it’s really, really easy to cut down/out carbs.  I like this Glycemic Index approach.  I’m going to be reading more about it—perhaps I like if because it allows a bit more flexibility with carbs!  Ahhhh precious carbs.   Moderation, moderation, moderation, dear. What do you bet that the cereal suggestion of oats, bran or barley based cereals means about a 1/3 cup serving? 

January 27, 2004
 Here’s an interesting Census Bureau report—it’s even a bit encouraging… regarding families.  There’s also a mixed bag of stats on Fathers that was interesting to read.  We know the Word has a message to Fathers… that the heart of the fathers would turn to the children and the heart of the children to their fathers.  This, from Malachi 4.6.  What an awesome responsibility fathers have, yet few seem to realize it!

We completed our Titus2.3-5  study this morning in our Titus2 fellowship.  It’s been a long, sort of drawn out study—one I pray has been a blessing to the ladies, but I thought it necessary to examine each word in context and focused on each as a topic for each study.  What comes of it, I pray, will be wives whose lives exemplify and not blaspheme the Word of God.  Interestingly, I read an article a little bit ago about something I just shared this morning and that is the benefit/imperative of early learning and application of specific Bible truths. This article is the second part of an article “The Bible on Responsibility.” It looks to be the last for that site.

January 26, 2004  Kathryn’s getting ready for another surgery.  She’s begun the surgical prep work of scrubbing and scrubbing.   She getting her thoughts and trust in such a place as to accept the path and walk in it. This is the last one in this series of four surgeries to correct her feet, so she’s aware of the trail ahead.  It’s been nearly a year since we first met her doctor and what a blessing he’s been to her and to us.  I marvel at the goodness of God, His mercy and timing in the surgeries and how well they’ve gone.  Kathryn’s been so gracious—I know more and more all the time why the LORD impressed me to name her Kathryn Grace—for God’s grace, God’s infinite grace is evident and made manifest in and through her life.  I’ve always seen a glimpse of this but more so in trials and suffering—things that would hinder most, rather propel her to goodness with a gracious response to humiliation!  I see the High King of Heaven, the love of God—His wondrous grace in her.

God’s blessed us with four beautiful daughters—I do not mean beautiful as the world defines beautiful, but beautiful on the inside where beauty never fades, where beauty deepens and increases with age, experience, and through the work of the Holy Spirit.  I’m increasingly sensitive to the gifting of the LORD in these daughters (and in the sons, as well—but that’s another blog!) and the tremendous and humbling responsibility that is ours in the training of daughters and perhaps in presenting each one one day to the men that will be their husbands—the ones to whom they’ll be joined.  I’m grateful for the opportunities of their lives.  I read a story this evening about a little “ballerina” whose parents only saw her to age eight.  It was gripping to this mama with two daughters a bit older than eight and two under eight.  Tiny Dancer is the story.  Get out your hankie—it’ll grip your heart.

How ’bout this story… would you invite a stranger into the service if he didn’t look right, smell right, fit right in?  If he were sitting on the wall around the churchyard, would you sit down and talk with him?

It’s going to be an interesting year if the “news of the day” radio broadcasts continue as they have been.  Some years ago, story had it that Ronald Reagan said to Nancy (at a cemetery, looking at a headstone inscribed: Here lies an Honest Man and a Politician): “Look, Nancy, here’s one with two men in the same grave!”  Ahhhh.  So now… all the rhetoric and mud-slinging… I wonder how many are honest politicians?  Perhaps an oxymoron.

Thinking of attending an Alpha Course?  Think again.  There are some conflicts with the Word you need to be aware of before you’d consider attending—The Alpha Course is another of the many dangerous teachings to mislead the Church today.

January 25, 2004

Many Blessings to you, this LORD’s Day~
Today I want to share with you a blessing…
it’s in the form of an audio-video presentation:

The L
ORD is my Shepherd.

 

January 24, 2004 We’re in a bit of a mess around here—new sorting and cleaning, preparing to the weekend, baking and washing… no time for bloggin—but Valentine’s Day is coming so I wanted to get working on that page.  I’ll add to it, hopefully, in the next couple of days.  Many blessings!

January 23, 2004  Ooops, I just typed in “3” again!  It’s a bit hard to remember we are well into the month of January and I am still typing 2000-three instead of 2004—maybe you are doing that, too. 

We praise the LORD that Mother is home from the hospital.  Seems she has a condition with the acid-reflux that is quite painful and since it’s not been long since a stent/angioplasty, there was some concern that a problem had arisen and needed to be addressed.  Thankfully the docs were able to help her and she was released.  Oh—the brevity of life—-and the long, long days in between.

After another sweet time of fellowship with other believers, we are more and more grateful for the body of Christ and for His provision.  Each week, it seems there are more things we discover about the Word—passages that we individually study are shared and new understanding is gained.  I’m grateful for the opportunities our children have to visit with others because of that deep need for socializing—all of us have it, I suppose, but young people especially are needing good friendships and enjoyable times.

Joyce was writing to me about her new washer/dryer and I am sure impressed with her testimony of the efficiency of the machines—and the time and water she saves!  She was sharing that the capacity is twice the size of her other washer, so that means her laundry will be done twice as fast in half the time!  She writes: “A well working tool makes for a well working mother!”  Amazing, isn’t it!?!    So— front loaders are on my mind as I type away, waiting for a load to finish so I can get another one going.  So grateful for these maidens here in the kitchen. Maiden Washer, Maiden Dryer and Maiden Dishwasher are all hard at work!

more later…

January 22, 2004  My mother in law was taken to the hospital this morning… how sad we are that she lives in Indiana—no longer lives close to us and therefore, we must rely on phone calls or email, which is how we received the news this morning.  We pray for her and earlier, we prayed that she’d quickly recover and still be able to come out for an already planned visit in two weeks.  Wes just called and had an update… so we’ll see how things pan out.  She’s a remarkable woman whose life has been such a blessing.

Here’s a new site, One Man One Woman Coalition for Marriage supporting the preservation of marriage—looks like it’s ecumenical, but good resources and links, nonetheless.  No doubt there’ll be attempted sabotage like what’s happened to other preservation of marriage/family/home sites.  We pray God will bless America, and more: that America will bless God.

You know… there’s a continued sickening occurrence of disregard for life… it’s not coincidental that it’s in the news at the same time as marriage issues are in the news—all of these things are inextricably linked: faith, abstinence, marriage, childbearing, Truth and life  vs. cults, the occult and new age religions, promiscuity, immorality, abortion, deception and death.  The article at Real Clear Politics sure shows another ugly side of the humanistic view of life.  Infant mortality is on the rise—not because of more abortions, although there are—now, added to the staggering annual numbers of abortions, there are more and more infants being killed at birth.   As sick as it is, the mothers of these infants could have had abortions moments before the births and not be charged with homicide—it would be perfectly legal to do so in our country.  At the thirtieth anniversary of Roe v. Wade, there is so much to be done.  The following article informs us of the tragedy that is no doubt taking place all over America—the world. Real Clear Politics.

It’s time to start planning for Valentine’s Day.  Now… I don’t know the particulars about the origins of this day, so when we celebrate Valentine’s Day… we celebrate love, joy, family and friendship.  We like to decorate with hearts, candles and flowers and heart shaped foods… cookies & biscuits, and we like to share sweet memories and because Valentine’s day comes just a bit after our anniversary, it’s just sort of an extension of our anniversary celebration—always a time of remembering special memories and commitments we’ve made to one another.

 Don’t forget!  Valentine’s Day is for sending love notes…

I am making a page for Valentine’s Day ideas…
I’ll let you know when it’s up!

January 21, 2004  Bloggin’ early for Wednesday—things are stacking up, already!  Only heard a bit of the President’s State of the Union address last night.  I applaud him for his comments in the latter portion of his address concerning the sanctity of marriage and our obligation to defend it.   Interesting comments regarding support of faith-based organizations and opportunities for such to receive financial backing and non discrimination of such.  It’ll be interesting to see how all that pans…  At one point he stated that we have some “unfinished business on the issue of taxes…” Uh, yes—I guess that’s on not a few people’s minds.  Good address, Mr. President.  Had to be.

Speaking of taxes—Costco has a coupon item that Wes just went to pick up last night.  Turbo Tax—with the sale price, in-store and mail-in rebates it was something like $14. or $15.   So… now, that means all he needs in order to complete our taxes is for me to go to the Social Security office and update my information—never mind that this has suddenly come up after 26 years of marriage—suddenly their records don’t reflect my name change.  Omygoodness.  Okay—so I’ll head over there one of these days.  I think I’ll enjoy that trip as much as I enjoyed heading into that root canal last Tuesday.  I do not like the SS admin office any more than the Dept of Licensing.  I just about typed motor vehicles—California, dontcha know.  Even after 25 years here… We still call it the DMV—DOL sounds sort of odd to me—when any of us go in, we’re certainly not on the dole—and those who don’t pass the tests certainly don’t feel as though anything charitable has happened to them—so, DOL—it’s maybe a dumb title.  Stick with me, it’s the DMV.

I just remembered some of my New Year’s goals.  It dawns on me… if I can’t remember when I last drank a glass of water, then it’s been too long.   That, and finishing my meds

We sold our old van!  No, I’m not kidding.  The man who bought it had rolled his van a couple of weeks ago in the ice and freezing rainstorm.  So… he already has a good engine but a van in bad shape and our van’s engine was in bad shape but the van was in not terribly awful shape—for a van that’s 28 years old!    Well, actually, not that bad until two nights ago when someone broke out the passenger window to steal the CD player.  It never *seemed* that old till last week, then it seemed… older.  So glad the thirty year olds I know look so much better/younger than that van.  So anyway… the man took the van and was happy—happy with the nice upholstery, dual exhaust, dual gas tanks and new tires—uh, and the plastic over the door.  Oh, c’mon—no, we didn’t pay him to take it!  The LORD has answered our prayer—completely and exactly.

January 20, 2004   What a beautiful Northwest day we have here today! Clear and chilly. The olders have been working through their schoolwork and the youngers have been watching one of the phonics videos.  I’m particularly happy with this program, The Hooked on Phonics [site is slow loading] videos and cards.  I please with the format and the clarity.  It’s a good partner to the 100 Easy Lessons book and ABeka language arts books.  There are some minor pronunciation differences and occasionally a different term is used for blends or digraphs or whatever, but all in all, the combination is a good one.  There are some children in our family who seem to do better with the worksheet method and some not so well, it depends on their personality—so I always recommend waiting a bit for boys and discovering their particular need/style and then plunging in with them, concentrating on attention, obedience, understanding and recognition.  Over and over I see that knowledge without wisdom is foolishness or vain.  Proverbs 15.14 “The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh knowledge: but the mouth of fools feedeth on foolishness.” That’s another topic for another day.  I need to update our homeschooling sections as I’m sure there are many dead links as well as other info that needs updating.  I don’t know when I’ll get to all that, I do know that today’s not the day.  In a moment we’re off to the Library.  We just received one of our daily calls that someone here has “holds” in at the Library.  It used to just be the ‘olders’ who needed frequent trips to the Library—but now, even the younger ones need a trip or two each week!  So… off we’ll go in the new-to-us “Limo” to the Library!

DOMA’s in the news!  I never want to be called a “one-note-Sally” or however that saying goes… where the daily mantra is the same—like a broken record; and I pray to not be as brass or a clanging gong or tinkling cymbal.  But you know, everybody’s got a note they sing… perhaps many notes, but for me one note that needs to be sung the loudest, highest, deepest and longest, is the note pertaining to the sanctity of marriage.  I don’t generally harp against those who hold a different view, and neither do I spend any time considering the views of those who don’t hold marriage in high esteem, for any thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God is to be cast down. 

“Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.” –2 Corinthians 10.5 

Proverbs 14.34 says: “Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.”  

So what’s the big deal about marriage and why am I so determined in the promotion of healthy marriage and dogmatic over its preservation and restoration?  Marriage is a picture of Christ and the church—just as a bridegroom gives himself for his bride, protecting, covering and providing for her, so also Christ our LORD gave Himself for the church… that it should be holy and without blemish.  In the same way, we women so ought to behave that the Word of God be not blasphemed.

This one’s for you, Katherine ~ God Bless you.

January 19, 2004  I’m overwhelmed by the events of the last few days, humbled at the mercy of God, His providing a van for our family, and for the opportunities we’ve had to share His provision and protection.  We share, not because of anything we think of ourselves and surely not of boasting because none of all of this is our doing, but because all of what’s transpired is of the LORD —no man has power to do what’s been done.  Ps. 118.23-25, 27  This is the LORD‘s doing, it is marvelous in our eyes. This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. Save now, I beseech thee, send now prosperity. God is the LORD

We called on the Name of the LORD and He heard our cry.  We trusted in the Name of our LORD and we were delivered.  We seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and He has provided what has been needed.  Not a moment too soon and not a split-second too late.  O, had we not stood still and waited on the LORD

One of the thrills we had today was *heat* as we rode along in the van which is also *dry* inside with doors that shut securely.  We enjoyed conversation—able to hear and speak at a very comfortable volume.  But the heat… that was pretty neat!  We figure that it’s probably been about twelve years since we had a van with a heater because the one we had before this one also didn’t have a functioning heater.  It’s been very normal to wear lap blankets in the van.  We’ve been able to continually add to our amazing collection of van related or road related miracles… you can only get stories and miracles like these from “faith powered” vehicles which still run for no apparent reason.  I’ll never forget the fact that the LORD’s  a-l-w-a-y-s  gotten us where we needed to go, ALWAYS.

Over the years I have received numerous beautiful letters from people in many places in the world, and I suppose, this side of heaven, I’ll never meet the people who’ve written letters of encouragement, requests, permission to post articles, etc.  I imagine I’ll never know the outcomes of trials and tribulations sisters and brothers have faced and I’ll likely never know if what I shared was encouraging or helpful—but I do know this, I’m forever grateful to the LORD for the ways He’s working, the way His hand is guiding our path and for the opportunities He’s orchestrated for me to minister by way of this site and through articles or letters.  It’s a great treasure to receive a letter from one I’ve corresponded with in the past .  I’m most grateful for the joys and trials in our life that have become material for messages.  It’s not the simple, the pleasant or the mundane that draws or shapes the heart or forms our character—we delight in the mountaintops, but we grow in the valleys.  We rest in the meadows and bask in the sunshine, but we mature and our faith is shaped, deepened and strengthened in the storms and when the days are darkest.  Truly God is the LORD.

January 18, 2004  January 18 and 25 are Sundays set aside to commemorate the  Sanctity of Human Life.  May God hear our prayers and heal our land.


January 17, 2004 
As this month marches on, I’m feeling profoundly aware that in just a “few weeks” I’ll be amazed that we’re already down to the end of the year and I’ll once again marvel at the speed of passing time.  A little newborn already looks older, Spring and Summer merchandise is on store shelves and Election Day is just around the corner—time marches—no, races on!

We continue to marvel at the Hand of God—His merciful kindness, His unfailing love, His provision and care.  Since returning home from our ‘vacation,’  I’ve been simply in awe over all the ways the LORD cared for, provided and protected us.  As we were leaving town, having just received a gift that would add to what would be needed for my visit to the dentist, we prayed and asked the LORD for His provision and protection throughout our trip—I was quickly reminded of those [answered] requests as we were coming home, two cylinders not firing, top speed on inclines was maybe 25 mph and so with much popping and knocking we made the arduous trip home; the I5 southbound lanes from the border to our home seem quite narrow to me.   I had many lessons reaffirmed to me: wait on the LORD, lean not on our own understanding, in all our ways acknowledge Him, submit to my husband, be careful or fearful for nothing, in everything give thanks… and so many more things!

Now, I said above: submit to my husband.  O, how much I would have missed had I not totally rested in trust that God was indeed guiding my husband, that I would submit to him in trust and faith, and that He would watch over and provide for us.  My husband’s driving thought was that the LORD had provided for this time, had taken us through many difficulties and that he just wanted to get home—make it home was the only goal.  Because the van was running so rough and Wes was having to really push it to get us home, our gas gauge was heading to and then touching “E” —- “E” — “E” — “E” –  rapidly! So with much chugging and sputtering we were nearing our home… in fact, when our home was nearly in view, we ran out of gas.  If that were the end of the story, the jubilant and awe-inspired shouts to the LORD may not have spontaneously erupted from all of us— totally and completely astonished at the work of the LORD… as if gently pushed home, we continued on and then coasted along to our home, through no traffic [which *NEVER* happens that time of day], down our lane and as the power-steering was gone, Wes turned into our driveway, with all his might, cranking the wheel first to the right and then to the left as the van stopped just near the place we always park it.  We screamed with joy—God is the LORD—there is no other.

As I said, O, how much I would have missed—had I not totally rested in trust that God was indeed guiding my husband, had I not rested in the fact that my husband is my head and that I submit to him in trust and faith—in obedience to the Word and though the Holy Spirit.  So, because of knowing that I know that I know these things: I would wait.  You see, at the border, when the van which had been running a little rough but nothing like what was ahead, we drove by a used car lot and took a good look at some “fleet vans” they had for sale.  There were several available and one in particular was *near* (but not *at*) our price range.  O, and it was Dodge… I never thought much of them—in fact, I prefer Chevy’s and this was not a Chevy.  The van we’ve been driving is not a Chevy but it’s been the right van for the time.  So while we made our way back home, in the theater of my mind occasionally I would let play out what would have happened had we just gone ahead and bought the van…  we would have missed the great blessing the LORD had in store for our family and our faith in Him.  My husband had a very specific budget and the price the dealer had quoted him was a few hundred dollars higher than Wes’s budget.  Had he gone ahead and agreed to buy it and make payments, he would have missed the better plan of the LORD.  He would have compromised his position on going into debt for a vehicle. 

I marvel…

**We would have missed the significance of an anonymous gift in the mail—that was sent the day before we got home.
**We would have compromised an agreement to not make hasty decisions or purchases.
**We would have missed recounting the provisions and blessings of the two days previous… how I was able to see the dentist, to have a root canal, to see the timing of the LORD and the locations we needed to go.
**We also would have missed the great joy of this day when after getting up very early to drive up to Bellingham to first take another look and then to offer to buy the van… Wes drove into the driveway—greeted by his jubilant family—in the van he bought on the right day, at the right time, in the right way, for the right price!


O, how much we would miss were we to choose our own way!

Breakfast at Harrison Hotsprings in BC

Yay Walmart.  Thinking of the mama’s!

Look what we bought—Thanks to family and a generous gift!

See—we made it home and are sooooo smiling!
With everything else coming from thrift stores or hand-me-downs,
one thing everyone loves here is a great unders shopping spree!
Yes—the shopping cart was FULL of unders and, yes,
I did receive a lot of looks and comments.
And yes, I do praise the LORD.

January 15, 2004 We’re back home… much to share, much for which to be thankful and give praise to the LORD and more pics to post.  But at this hour—much sleep is needed and there’s very little time before daybreak!  Suffice it to say… Canada/BC was absolutely beautiful, the LORD was [is] so merciful and we’ll never forget His blessings and benefits.

On a totally different note—Don’t know why this is intriguing, and it has nothing to do with anything, but I sure think this is a kewl house.  That’s, uh, cool—the way my boys type it.

January 13, 2004
  Too bizzy for bloggin… will put up another blog in a few days!  God bless you.

January 12, 2004  A beautiful day here!  We attempted more decluttering and organizing!  I think we even found a little space in our home!  Condensing was my goal today. Reduction, yes, but condensing sort of became my brief mantra!

My “what and why” thoughts didn’t take me here, but it was an interesting read on what Mormons believe and what they probably won’t share and may not fully understand; nonetheless, it had/has nothing to do with what I was studying.   Could Jesus have sinned?  He was tempted, so could He have sinned? No—in no way and by no means!  His Divine nature, His impeccability makes this an impossibility.  It is difficult for me to remain quiet on issues—and probably this blog is ’bout as far as I oughtta go on proclaiming many things—suffice it to say—I’ve always been strong minded so… bloggin’ is a good ‘soap-box’ for me.  Interesting article on the perfect sinlessness of Christ my Perfect Saviour and here’s another one,. and another!  Aaack—could Jesus have sinned?  By no means.

Praying for friends in Colorado who’ve joined the ranks of the unemployed… we say: come on up… the water’s fine! 😉

January 11, 2004  Another good and blessed day in the LORD.  Seeing His Hand in everything we do makes for a thrilling walk, a walk of faith in anticipation of His leading, a walk of faith trusting that as all His ways are good, He will guide and He *will* provide.  Boy—some conversations have really had me thinking today—the “what and why” of what we believe… it’s remarkable what the LORD’s done for us, Who He is—His omniscience, omnipresence, omnipotence—His glory, His power, His dominion His boundless love.  Now… were we to just live out these truths, to truly be in relationship with Him, to truly walk with Him—a living body!

We had another time of praising His for His provision of our van—and praying for one to replace it!  It’s a faith-powered vehicle, one that seems continually fraught with a new sound, a new leak, a new knock somewhere in the engine and a new rattle someplace.  I sometimes wonder how far downhill that van will get before it’s at the bottom—totally irreparable—it already seems beyond repair and the next trip will be the van’s demise.  Looking in the autotrader was a real eye-opener, however!  No, it didn’t make me appreciate our van more, but it did dose me up on the reality that there’s sure a difference between a 1976 and a 2004 vehicle—a $ignificant difference.  In reality, this van—or any other *thing* for that matter, pales in comparison to what others are dealing with.  I just read Roger Bennett’s blog, for example…

Each day I receive a devotional from Gospel Chapel.  Every time I read them, I find that the LORD has worked in and through them to teach me a truth from the Word in a way I’d not heard before or had forgotten.  There’s also a “Sermon Outline” to which you can subscribe—Subscribing takes just a moment.

Ahhhhhhhhh… just found the Noel Pie Plate Company online!  In a shop in Leavenworth, I saw their pie plates, canisters, and teapots and thought they were so lovely!  All the while we stopped in different shops, I searched and searched for a honeypot—saw only one, and it was tacky.  So, now… my great thrill was finding a honeypot and dipper at their site!  I drink my tea and sometimes my coffee with honey and milk.  Well… recently my little cherub, ami, dropped my large ceramic honeypot and it broke on the floor—yes, it was *full* of honey.  Fortunately, as the kitchen is often cold in the winter, the honey didn’t run all over the floor, but it was surely a sticky mess!  This was one of the things that were given to me by my dad—guess that’s what made it sad to me—no more gifts from him.  So… one of these days maybe I’ll order one and another one for a friend who always admired my blue honeypot.

I sure appreciate the beautiful new CD by the southern gospel music group, Legacy Five. I suppose it’s, in part, due to the fact that we’ve met them, seen their candid videos and have heard their testimony—the ways in which the LORD’s worked and is working in and through their lives, the testimony of Roger Bennett and the Hand of the Lord in his life and ongoing ordeal with cancer.  Our family also has high regard for the Palmetto State Quartet, the work of Andrew Ishee and Phil Cross and others—there are so many great songs to be heard—great songs to be sung.  We think there’s nothing quite like quartet music—well, maybe our 11 part harmony is a close rival!

January 10, 2004  We continue to be amazed at the weather patterns—thankful for the break in the storm that allowed for a bit of clean-up in our yard.  Our friend Mary wrote of their power outage [and post 36 hour return!] and war-zone appearance of their yard—I echo those sentiments, as ours surely looked like some wild storm swept through!  I was sad to see such a large branch of the willow tree broken.  Wes will need to go up with a chain saw and finish that off.  It’s such an enormous old tree that the loss will not necessarily be noticed—but I’ll notice.  Just like I notice when something’s been moved or misplaced in our home… it’s just a funny thing about mothers.

Need to find out about the content of a particular movie?  We sometimes take a look at Screen It when we’re questioning a movie and the rating attached to it.  I must give a disclaimer—this is obviously not a “Christian” site and the categories are graphically described in the movies reviewed/listed.  A particular ‘war’ movie had a rating higher than what we would allow for viewing—but after reading the description, we understood the rational for the rating.  War is not polite and killing/death/battle is not neat and clean—there are no kinder, gentler wars.

My husband had a letter from a friend—I’d forgotten about his website—Judicial Forum.  Then, he’s got a weblog you can read and lots of other stuff on the site.  There are so many things going on in the news—so much, so bizarre that we can’t comprehend it—we can’t fathom the depravity that’s become so common. 

So what do you think of all the news about saddam?  I wonder what it’ll take to make him talk—rather, to make him say what officials are wanting him to say.  Then, an interesting twist to the civil unions in Vermont—and like everything else, it all comes out in the wash: “The homosexual lifestyle is about sexual adventure,” said Tony Perkins, president of the Family Research Council. “I’m beginning to see that they’re not interested in obtaining marriage for the purpose of monogamy and long-term commitment.” This, from family.org/cforum yesterday.  Glaringly obvious, is the enemy’s continued age old attempt to thwart marriage and attack God in the assault of His creation.   Then, further in the news—‘Seems Howard Dean‘s arrogance is matched only by his spiritual/biblical ignorance.  This candidate, it would seem, would only add fuel to the fire of our national moral decline—and the temperature’s rising.   Ahh… even so, come Lord Jesus.

January 9, 2004  The clouds giving way to blue sky and sunrays this morning is hardly representative of a week of ice, snow and freezing rain!  The only indication of the past week’s storm is the mess of limbs and branches of various sizes all over our yard.  Over the years, I’ve been amazed by the sudden or instant changes in weather in the Pacific Northwest!  I’m continually impressed by the changing of seasons—I’m told it compares nothing to that of the Northeast, nonetheless, for this southern California girl who knew few types of weather of weather and two seasons: hot and sunny or warm and sunny.  Occasionally, there’d be a few scattered storms here and there.  So… that explains my amazement at icicles, snow, freezing rain or rain, more rain, and a lot more rain.  It seems that during one particularly wet Spring, I’d wake up and before looking out the window, I’d ask Wes, “Is is raining?”  He’d reply day after day, “Yes…”  Day after day… rain.  Oh, were those days depressing to me.  I’m more and more attempting to appreciate all the water—preferring to see the Spiritual significance to water and equating it with the washing of the Word.

 “…even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.”  Ephesians 5.25b-5.27

In the news today I was amazed to read the headlines… Of course, the ongoing coverage of the ice and snow’s resulting problems of downed power lines, trees and continued power outages.   But more astonishing, no, sickening really, is the headline that Lake Stevens gets a casino—which the GM of the casino hopes will “be an asset to the community.”  That’s just what this county needs: another gambling asset. bleck! Just what we need, another venue for people to advance deeper into addictions, more opportunities for lying, cheating and abandoning families and for the state to reach deeper into empty pockets—The manager delights in what he believes is an “untapped resource” on this side of the county; I guess this “untapped resource” is ideal for his biz and for the state: additional tax revenue.  No doubt, greedy gambling’s ravenous and insatiable sister: pornnoonographyy, will move in next door. 

It didn’t make front page, but my parents have decided to come home… 😉 I’m guessing they got tired of the SunnySunShine in southern California and wanted to console us here by leaving it behind and coming home to the wet and wild weather of Washington.  That, or they are just going to stop in, say hello, check their mail, water their plants and head back!

For this child we’ve prayed… and praise the LORD with Sean and Lisa at this miraculous gift!Even in this, the LORD is demonstrating His gracious love wherewith He loves us, this gift of Life—not only in this life, but in Salvation through His atoning blood.  O, again, all God’s ways are good.

January 8, 2004 The snow and ice slowed our housekeeping progress somewhat.  I think we’ll have to concentrate on the cleaning and sorting some more next week.  I have also just restarted my trek to losing more weight… well actually, lose the 4 pounds I gained over the holidays and then the rest of the weight I’d planned on losing.  It’s a really tough battle as I need to incorporate more exercise and more WATER (I know, ma, you’ve been talking to me about water my whole life!).  I like to read the tips and ideas from ediets  — these are Zone, Atkins, or low carb type diets.

So, then, that’s the main deal here.  That, and schooling—it’s during the months October-November and January through July that we do most of our schooling, though we do some schooling projects year-round.  We’ve found that trying to keep to a rigid school schedule during the rest of the year is complicated by many breaks and interruptions!  So, over the years, we’ve come to this schedule and like the flexibility.

The snow remains, but it’s not nearly so cold today as it’s been over the last week!  The pictures in the paper today show some incredible results of the storm and the freezing rain.

Family news from Focus on the Family and Citizen Link provide updates and news that affects our nation’s families.  These articles prompt us to pray all the more for our nation, our officials and the families—especially marriages and for those who don’t know Jesus as their LORD and Saviour.

*****

January 7, 2004  Icy today!  Icy-cold and icy roads, icy trees and icy power lines!  We’ve been inside listening to ice falling from the branches and icicles falling from the gutters—quite an eerie sound as the trees sway in the wind, the icy braches cracking with some limbs falling.  The willow tree looks like a gigantic icicle mop and all the walnut trees are like ice sculptures.  After sliding around a bit the other night, I’m not driving anywhere—and pray I don’t need to!  It’s raining now… not freezing rain like last night, but a light sprinkle.  It’s 30 out and the ice is thawing a little bit and the forecast is rain and warmer weather (38-40).

January 6, 2004  I finally got out ‘year in pictures’ done!  Wes is going to put these pages on a CD for me to have.  I don’t ‘scrap-book’ and I don’t keep a detailed day to day journal, so the year in pictures is a way for us and for our children to see the year and keep the memories fresh!   Oh, this snow and cold weather is amazing!  I thought it might prevent our granddaughter from having surgery today—but, alas, our daughter-in-law braved the elements to take her to Children’s in Seattle where she’s undergoing surgery to remove a growth above her eye.  We’ve been remembering her and the surgeon in prayer!  Our grandson is here… it’s a blessing to be able to help them and to spend unhurried time with him!

The weather prevented Wes from working today—he’s thankful as he has an avalanche of office work to complete—year-end and day to day stuff really adds up!

I just received a Karla Dornacher CD in the mail… it’s a screensaver for this computer! I love the books she writes and her illustrations are so beautiful to me!  I’m looking forward to having this on the screen when we’re not using the ‘puter!          It’s too cold to type! —more later!

January 4, 2004  From John MacArthur’s, Truth for Today: “Do you know you cannot serve God unless you are separated? In the Scripture, that word refers to being set apart for a specific task or purpose.” This, taken from 1 Peter 1.16.  We’re to be holy because God is holy.  We are His workmanship, we’re His ‘ambassadors’ here, we’re His peculiar treasure.  Today as we worship, we trust Him for fresh bread, for the sincere milk of the Word that we might be yielded, more fully equipped, ready for His service as He leads us.  I pray the LORD will direct our paths this year… a specific task or purpose…

One of the blessings of our trip to Chehalis on New Year’s Eve was the special hospital visit we were able to make to see our friends, Mr. & Mrs. Pais, where Mrs. Pais had just had surgery a few hours earlier.  Mrs. Pais—our Amelia’s namesake, was diagnosed with Leukemia 18 years ago and this surgery was to remove her thyroid and some lymph glands.  We prayed together and sang to her.  What a blessing it was. Mrs. Pais has a remarkable testimony of walking hand in hand with the LORD.


amelia holding mrs. pais’s hand

January 3, 2004  A very cold and snowy 3rd day of the year!  We’re trying to stay warm but it seems an endless battle to keep the back door shut!  We’ve enjoyed these days with family and friends—celebrating the birth of our LORD and reviewing all the ways of the LORD in the last year.  Amazing workings, blessings and provision!  Another year of walking with the Saviour, another year of His merciful kindness!

Quick Notes:

We rejoice with our friends over the birth of their new little daughter!  Little Lydia Grace made her long awaited entrance into the world at 12:25 early New Year’s morning!  Over the last two weeks, when the phone would ring, we thought we would receive the ‘announcement’ call.  And  I’m sure the days were so long as the wait lingered on. 

As the LORD brought a new little life into the world, another friend is experiencing the loss of her baby and sadly faces the process of passing this little one the LORD’s called home early.  We grieve with her, her husband and children and do pray to see the Hand of the LORD and wait on His planning and His purposes in all of these things.  He is only good and His ways are only good—it’s hard to see this in trials sometimes—but were we to see all things as of His Hand, these are all the things we’d choose—we trust with our friends that God’s ways are good and His paths are peace.  This time of year often seems to come with a unique sadness of its own.

A group of stores in town liquidating their inventory—ads in the local paper and signs all over for the Design Warehouse sales.  Accidents all over the place as snow and ice make for treacherous driving conditions!  I’m thinking my parents are probably not going to come home from California… !

Well… I need to get bizzy-bizzy-bizzy———those New Year’s resolutions are tarnishing as I type—-my coffee’s cold! 

January 2, 2004  Making progress setting up new pages, revising old… more later.

Happy New Year!
We’re filled with joy and anticipation as we look ahead to the new year!

drink more water
stomach muscles
clean one thing a day
learn one new thing every day
memorize a verse a day
drink coffee while it’s hot (the coffee)
New Year’s resolutions you can hold on to.

December 2003

The kettle’s on,
go get a cup
and enjoy today’s blog!

The Welcome Home Blog

December 2003


The beautiful craftsmanship and decor… at Pension~Anna


Leavenworth at Christmas

December 30, 2003  A chilly-willy day here! What a blessing to have lots of wood for the stove—our source of heat in this old farmhouse!

New stuff in the news… Tim Eyman’s in the news again.  Some folks around here have a different name for the man—I cannot print here.  This time he’s going for the property tax… a 25% reduction which would surely benefit seniors [in their own no-mortgage homes] somewhat but wouldn’t really benefit others insomuch as the reduction in prop tax would mean less of a deduction in income tax, plus a reduction in local services we all need.  Well–*I* didn’t *need* that personal police [dis]service *I* received last month!   However, I’m still thankful for Police and Fire here—–so a reduction in Prop tax?  I’m not so sure it’s necessarily an across-the-board answer. 

Well, if Tim Eyman doesn’t raise your bloodpressure, maybe ephedra does! And, if you’re going to get a kick-start for your diet, I guess you’re just going to have to eliminate BSF foods or low carb instead of using ephedra!  Early next year, the supplement will be banned—in fact, consumers are being urged to immediately stop using the herbal weight control supplement now!  There’s just enough time for everyone to ransack the stores in order to keep New Year’s resolutions.  Since most New Year’s resolutions only last a matter of days… and the ban will take effect some 60 days after the announcement—it’ll coincide with the total loss of New Year’s resolution commitments… ‘course, folks may have a few days of residual left in the bloodstream and bottles of the pills stashed away.

We’re doing some year-end/new year cleaning-sorting-reorganizing-painting and bedroom shifting around here!  The boys are switching rooms with the girls.  So….instead of progress, it looks like a real mess—and no light at the end of the tunnel yet—but, we’ve traveled this road lots of times and so, if the LORD tarries, we’ll have this situation all taken care on in the next few days.  It’s time to go through all the clothes, books and toys.  Well, not so many toys (by choice!!!) but, way too many clothes and books—well, maybe not too many books!  When 11 people love books… 

We love to get a fresh start at the new year and so we do this pretty much every year.  This way, the children end up with very clean rooms and a new view from time to time!  Our boys have had the room they’re going into, but the girls have never had the ‘front’ bedroom yet—so, now they’ll have the sunrise side! 

In the background I have a beautiful new CD playing… we went to the Legacy Five southern gospel music concert last night!  What a blessing to us all!  Roger Bennett was a bit late so we enjoyed the waiting for him and the updates he was sending by phone [during the concert] as his plane landed at Sea-Tac and throughout his cab ride north to the location of the concert.  Roger was in Houston to see a specialist in preparation of bone marrow transplant.  You can read an update on his condition and situation.  We really love the music and the message this group brings.

December 29, 2003  Ahhhh…. the last week of 2003.  Amazing!  Lots of things have happened in the last few days!  We did go to Leavenworth—a quaint Bavarian town nestled in the Cascade mountains.  It was so lovely; beautiful shops all lit up with strings of brightly coloured lights, icicle lights and stars, greenery and garlands entwined with tiny white lights framing nearly every doorway and then, the reds and greens of ornaments, nutcrackers, bells, clocks and dishware—from teacups to carvings, the shops were overflowing with special things for everyone.  It was quite cold and so all the people were bundled up and the snow continued to give a light dusting everywhere.  It was snowy going over the Pass—compact snow and ice—but our son’s car was suited just right for the driving.  We sure enjoyed it—I think Wes loved riding along watching a movie—I add this, because, those of you who know the condition of our family van (In addition to several problems, the van is very old, leaks, no heater…) would not be able to make such a trip.  I’m sure our son and daughter-in-law appreciate their cars/things *much* more, now that they’ve had the experience of driving ours!  Anyway… what a treat to drive such a nice vehicle and stay in such a beautiful place.  We loved the whole adventure!

While we enjoyed the time away, I sure missed the children—-but! our children were being treated to a day in Seattle at Pike Place Market and a day at other shops and thrift stores where they made several purchases.  I’d made some requests of things to *not* purchase—and they did very well—oh, except for the fake cigar with talc in the end to blow out like smoke.  Gasp.  You know, our daughter-in-law was pretty embarrassed when a woman, who’d just seen a few of the children go out to the van, walked into the store and asked Tara if she was the one driving the van, and when Tara replied that, yes, she was… the woman exclaimed that one of her children was sitting in the van smoking a cigar.  Ohmy… poor Tara. She explained to the woman that the cigar had been bought at the dollar store—-I don’t know what the woman must’ve thought.  Fortunately, Tara’s a quick wit and blew it off (no pun intended).

Pictures tomorrow… I’ll get them resized for the blog!  Blessings to you and mama if you’re reading this… i love you.

We’ll go to a Southern Gospel concert—one of our favourite groups, Legacy Five, will be performing.  We’re grateful for their testimony.  We pray for the health of Roger Bennett, who’s had leukemia for ten years.  You can read an update on him and his situation.  Wes received a phone call today from the promoter of the program who called asking that our children take tickets at the door and they’ll have an opportunity to talk with the members of the group. Roger Bennett has a most beautiful style playing the piano—our daughter has thoroughly enjoyed his books.  So… this is a blessing and a happy opportunity.

December 26, 2003  Our son and daughter-in-law gave us a special gift for Christmas—a stay at a bed-and-breakfast in Leavenworth and the care of all of our children!  Now, isn’t that a sweet and thoughtful gift?!?!  I was thinking of my parents who are suffering in southern California… ~wink~ and their dinner on the Queen Mary—well, this isn’t quite what they’re doing but so nice!  Our sweet Naomi loved her new dolls from grandmother… She opened a couple of her  birthday gifts this morning and a couple this evening.  She was a little sad that friends couldn’t come for her birthday—I think it’s the first time she’s realized that a Christmas birthday has a bit of a bittersweet side—but in her tears, we tried to show her tender-loving-care and some special treatment.

Funny… I was thinking about this a lot—-thinking that the LORD Jesus: whose birth we [say we] celebrate comes at a time when people are just too busy to remember Him—or don’t know Him at all.  I’ll explain this to Naomi along the way and perhaps she’ll avoid the trap I’ve failed to avoid over the years and just love the celebration for what it is and not for what it “ought to be” or should’ve or could’ve been.


Early Christmas & Birthday morning 2003

December 25, 2003  It’s a happy Christmas Day—the day we celebrate the birth of our LORD and Saviour, Jesus Christ.  We know that there are many myths, many traditions, many pagan aspects to this particular day… and we quickly acknowledge the faults or disparities in joining in the celebrations of the world or taking part in pagan rituals—but none of those things alter the fact that Jesus was born of a virgin, God incarnate, and that there is no other Name given among men by which we must be saved.  We celebrate the birth of our LORD, we celebrate the gift of salvation that was ordained of God through His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes on Him may be saved.  He is no respecter of persons and He cannot lie.  His is our All in All.  This is what we celebrate today.  It never was about a time of rushing, or fretting over gifts or disappointment or a tree or right clothing… it never was about all these things that trip us and trap us.  Every year I feel the gripping of the trap—and every year on this morning I feel relief that it’s ‘over.’ The freedom to just worship the LORD—to thank Him for the unspeakable gift of His Son, our salvation, our Rock and Redeemer—THIS is Christmas—This is Peace.  Ahhhh sweet peace in our Saviour.

In our home, on this day we celebrate not only the birth of our LORD Jesus, but we celebrate our little Naomi’s birthday as well.  Our little Christmas gift that God uses continually to bless us.  Our little Naomi is so precious to us—because of partial deafness, she’s opening a whole new world to us, a whole new understanding and compassion—and because of her deafness, we hear in a whole new way… we are learning to hear with our eyes, we’re learning to hear with our hearts.  So, in our home again this year, we say praise to Jesus, praise to the LORD for the gift of our dear little Naomi—born on Christmas Day.

December 23, 2003   I love this poem… it’s precious to read, precious to hear. You can hear “A Cup of Christmas Tea” told by the author, Tom Hegg.  Do you have time for tea today?

December 22, 2003  Off and running to begin another fun packed week! More cooking today—this kitchen’s becoming a carbohydrate explosion—I think there are so many carbs in the air that it won’t matter that I’m trying to avoid them…I think I’ve just begun taking in carbs by osmosis.  However, still no weight gain from any sampling I’ve done… but I’m not pushing it!

I’m refraining from eating Mary’s recipe for ‘butterfingers’ candy.  I made about a bazillion of these last night.  Ingredients are Cheese-It’s, peanut butter, and chocolate bark.  I spread the peanut butter between the Cheese-It’s–then put them in the fridge to get cold. Then using a half package of ‘bark’ at a time, I melted the bark in a bowl in the microwave (2 mins) and then using a fork to turn them the bowl, I began coating the little ‘sandwiches’ and setting them on sprayed foil-lined baking sheets.  I did something like 300 of them using two packages of bark.  I tasted half of one and decided that that was going to need to be my last taste.  A pan-full would be the desire…  I made peanut brittle, too and I had a bunch of smiling faces as I began to crack the brittle into pieces in each pan.  I thought I’d be standing there stirring forever… here’s my tip: be sure you have your candy-thermometer out and if it’s a glass one, make sure it’s not broken *before* you start boiling the butter-sugar mixture!  I remembered half way through that I might have another old thermometer in the drawer… sure enough, I did!  Sometime in this past year, the glass one cracked (uh, in the drawer) the glass on the very end is cracked and some’s missing.  The shape of this thermometer is like that of a 12″ long drumstick.  I never *saw* the counter being used as a drum… nor this drumstick…

O…would you please take a few minutes to vote in a poll~ The American Family Association has been taking an online poll on whether homosexual marriages should be recognized, at www.marriagepoll.com you can vote today!   So far, the results don’t look too favourable (in my eyes).  You’ll see by the results of the polls, that Christians aren’t the only ones voting.  The enemy’s sly.  O… the enemy is as a roaring lion… he’s prowling about seeking whom he may devour.  We know that: we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the  darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. (Eph. 6.12)

December 21, 2003  God Bless you, this LORD’s Day!  Take a look around… greet someone who’s alone… seek to be a blessing!


Our daughters in the Deaf Choir Christmas program

More next week.

December 20, 2003  Here’s a sweet Christmas story.  My husband sent it to my computer… think you’ll enjoy it.

As always… there’s a lot going on in the news!  Christmastime sparks the annual barrage against Christianity and things ‘sacred’ to us.  Sacred being, the LORD Jesus and our worship of Him.  Other things would be: the nativity, the cross, etc. or public expressions of faith.  I often think: are we doing for the Truth what the enemy is doing for a lie?  From local news to world news and current events, there are so many things going on that it’s hard to keep track of them all.  There are sites to keep you up-to-date on the latest news concerning our ‘religious’ freedom; one such site is Alliance Defense Fund.

I receive a newsletter from Norma that’s been immensely helpful!  She’s continually coming out with helpful ideas and encouragement for healthy eating and healthy living—all these in Healthy Truths!!  You can subscribe to receives these invaluable letters!

December 19, 2003 Went caroling last night!  We live in an old town with neat old houses and streets.  What a blessing it was to walk the sidewalks singing in front of various homes.  Some people came out, some stayed in, they all seemed genuinely grateful for the singing.  A couple of guys, in particular, who were obviously working inside remodeling an historic old home, stopped what they were doing to came out and sit on the porch steps to listen.  It was impressive to think that we had the privilege and the freedom to do this—in many other countries of the world this would not be possible, and so, once again we praised the LORD for His mercy and the opportunities we have to share and praise Him openly and to spread the gospel.

December 18, 2003  One of the great blessings of the internet is all the unique friends and websites there are to meet and see!  I do praise the LORD for the blessings He’s afforded us through internet.  I know I’ll always be grateful that my friend, Kelli, *just so happened* to be looking for a Bible study when I used to publish a daily Bible study and she *stumbled* [Providence] across my list.  O, was that ever of the LORD as there have been so many marvelous talks and blessings because she took time to contact me and ask questions—further, that she took the chance or the risk come visit our family—what a blessing that was.  She visited at a time I was feeling sick (which I so regret!) and was in such need of encouragement: she was it, just what I/we needed!  She’s added a special dimension to our lives.

Then, there are those who subscribe to TheWelcomeHome letters and sometimes I happen to see a subscriber list and take the opportunity to visit their sites. I don’t always see who’s signed up or who’s still subscribing—it’s probably best that way because as it is I just write as the LORD inspires and not to a specific person or group. Well anyway, seeing the url’s on subscribers addresses sometimes sparks my interest—especially when a name is particularly unique… one such visit was one I made last night and was so interested in her site—especially her page on Soap making!!!  Well, it’s great: Thyme For Ewe—what a neat site & family!

December 17, 2003
Well, it sure doesn’t look like anyone’s low-carbing here!  My kitchen sideboard looks like carbohydrate headquarters!  All the ingredients for brittle, fudge, divinity, bar cookies, rolled cookies, pies, and Christmas cakes!  It was cheaper \/ for Wes to go out and do the shopping, so he came back with all the supplies for Christmas baking.  Now… this is one of the ways we celebrate—making treats and sharing them is a way we demonstrate love to our family and friends.  For one thing, we generally have very little contact with our neighbors… that’s the drawback to living in the rural/farming area of our town.  It’s a blessing, though, too: the space and view!  Anyway… through the year we bake treats and give to our neighbor, but at Christmastime we like to really do something extra.  So… how’s it going to go—low-carbing at Christmas?  My first goal is NO weight-gain—if I lose, that will be a real bonus!  No weight-gain is my strong conviction!  I’ve been able to maintain this weight-loss through this fall and yet(!) I have tasted a few of the things we’ve made.  I just can’t go and have a piece of pie or the treats I used to freely eat—it’s not worth it to me anymore.  I never want to live in or travel in that territory on the scale ever again!


I’m still driving ever so carefully…

Now there’s no small stir in the controversy over what should be done with saddam hussein!  I wonder how long he’ll persist in telling his captors that Iraq disposed of its weapons long ago, or that he knows nothing of (missing Navy pilot) Michael Speicher or that Iraq has no ties to Al Qaeda.  It’ll be interesting to see how this all plays out—who’s taking orders from whom and how long they’ll be able to fight.

Laura’s site “Seams Like Yesterday” is up and running—it’s so nice!  She does such high quality, beautiful work.  It’s a blessing to know her, to watch the LORD work in and through her and her family!  She and Mary have shown us a bit of quilting and I look forward to learning more… well, that is if there’s time!  I think she’ll soon be swamped with orders!  The baby quilt she made using a child’s baby clothes is the most precious quilt I’ve ever seen.  The ways she used distinctive parts (pockets, collars, cuffs, hems) of the clothing was really incredibly clever and the mother (who ordered the quilt) will easily remember the child as a toddler in the particular outfits as she sees the unique squares.

  December 16, 2003   I’m dreaming of hot summer days… as I came across this picture I was almost able to hear the sounds of summer… feel the heat of the sun on my face, or the digging in the garden and the splashing of the pool water.  I’m mindful that we’ll soon turn the corner and the days will soon be longer and the hours of darkness will diminish!

Need more articles?  Interested in more on what’s going on in the church today?  Take a look at Kjos Ministries

I’m thankful to have been serving in the soup kitchen yesterday and as I drove there, I was mindful of a message I wrote a couple of years ago concerning serving in the soup kitchen and my murmuring heart. There were inconveniences and small irritations that kept bringing to mind the words of the LORD… will you be My servant?  Then again yesterday these thoughts come to me as some of the  guests were demanding, belligerent and perhaps even rude.  Honestly, it was a joy because I no longer saw them as irritations but as opportunities to serve the LORD.  I thought of all my cantankerous attitudes over the years and my self-centered demands of the  LORD as daily I have *expected* Him to reply to me as if I’d never caused Him grief.  My High King Of Heaven—who was I to not serve Him… and yesterday it was in the form of serving some people who didn’t care—but for themselves.  Then, as God would have it, there were blessings in the form of people who *did* care and were grateful.  I got to thinking—do I serve the LORD for what *I* will receive or for the Joy that is set before me.  So, again, I prayed and I pray today: Lord, make me a servant.

These are the days before Christmas… I hope other sisters will be encouraged to wait on the LORD in these days and not allow sentimentality to grab hold of their hearts and derail them as they seek to serve the LORD without trappings of the world.  I sent out a Welcome Home letter yesterday in hopes that someone would benefit from my failings and what the Lord is doing through the years.

It’s a real test of determination to be resolute to not be caught up in the frenzy.  When the ads flash before us of all the things we must have and do not need or think we need and cannot afford, it’s a test of resolve to be unruffled at the barrage of mind.  We have received many “season’s greetings” cards… what does that *really* mean?  Nothing. Absolutely nothing.  O, I *know* the sender means *something* in the sending, but really, it means nothing.  The season doesn’t save us, and God didn’t send the season so that we’d celebrate His love for us.  He sent His Son—*that’s* what we celebrate.  I’m thinking that maybe we ought to send Happy Holidays cards in January or February or some other month when people have a day off from work or school.  How about summertime happy holidays cards when teachers and students have a holiday from classes.

December 15, 2003  All over the news… it’s saddam… It’s sort of pathetic how many shots are being taken at the administration, the military—how many conspiracies and theories are bandied about.  I was thinking they ought to just put him back in the place they found him—but what a contradiction–his people killing themselves for him and for whatever benefit or great reward they believed they’d receive from *g*od for their efforts and yet their own leader obviously didn’t believe that or his own lies as he sat with a gun in his lap.

Continuing to add to our “year in pictures”  Fun to reminisce as I looked through the hundreds of photos!

December 14, 2003 Well… what a weekend this has been—-and what a day in the news! He (saddam hussein)  proves rats can quite possibly live through anything-anywhere!

Today was a pretty late start… we sure enjoyed performing in our two Christmas programs at church and also tonight attending the Christmas musical presentation at a local church our friends attend.  It’s always very professionally done and such a blessing.  Now… I’m sure that they all put a great deal into the performances—even more than we did—!! Well… so now another Christmas program is part of our family history—no doubt, one of our favourites, and for me the very little time spent in practices etc., etc. was a blessing.  Our friend, Kimberly, has an incredible knack for figuring out programs and envisioning how they’ll all come together—faith in the LORD and His doing and organizational skills to be able to pull off all sorts of dramas and presentations.  We sure had a great time singing together as a family (especially in our living-room practice sessions!!)  Then, having our son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren there—and I’m just grateful to the LORD for meeting me at my point of need—giving me words to share in a portion I had in the program.  I’ll get it edited tomorrow for a welcome home message.

   
these are for you, mama————scenes and sets of the Christmas program.

Our daughters will take part in the Deaf Fellowship Christmas program next week—but those practices have been minimal and are part of our sign language class this week.  As I’ve written in the past, our church “sponsors” a Deaf Fellowship that meets in our old building and we take sign language classes there.  The LORD in His mercy provided this blessing long before we understood our part in it and our need of sign language training!  In the meantime, I’ve come to understand that sign language understanding or ability is not just for those who have deaf or hearing impaired family/friends, but is necessary to/for everyone—this, since our daughter is hearing impaired —unilaterally deaf, with minimal loss in her right.  We’ve come to see once again that the mercy of the LORD is unfailing and we’re in awe of His provisions for our family.  I don’t think there’s anything more beautiful than watching a beautifully signed musical.  On the program for next week, the words read: “Interpreting will be provided for the hearing.”   Our little daughter sure is looking forward to the musical—finally “getting” many of the signs—it moves pretty fast!  She’s got a joyful heart and is enthusiastic!  I talked with a woman today whose husband is deaf and she commented that she didn’t learn sign language until they’d been married a couple of years.  Apparently someone told her that if she were to have any hope for her marriage, she’d *have* to learn to *talk* to her husband and *understand* *him*!

I’m anxious to read  a newsletter/magazine I received from a friend today.  What I’m interested inis reading someihing about John MacArthur’s latest book. Here’s a recent quote: “Everybody has an opinion, whether it’s about the war on terrorism, the state of the economy or whatever.  John MacArthur reveals that there’s only one opinion that carries real weight… God’s!”


andrew wants to play the guitar… but a broom’ll do!

 

December 12-13, 2003  It’s tough to come to an understanding or a decision of how to celebrate Christmas—as it’s not a holy-day or a sanctified day—or the actual day of the birth of our LORD—it *is* however, a marvelous time to give thanks and to share the Good News—that Christ DID come to earth, what He did and why He did it.  Just as God says He will preserve His Word, I believe so also that He will preserve His message—the message the prophets declared and angels proclaimed.  Jesus Christ came into the world as Saviour—fully God, fully man— to save sinners from eternal separation from Him, to live eternally *with* Him in Glory.  There is no other—those who say there are many roads, I say, yes, there are many roads and they all meet at the Judgment Seat of Jesus Christ and in that Day He will either say come in or depart, I never knew you.  I stumbled across and read a sermon I thought was quite good as I was reading Spurgeon on Christmas.  I’d have to readily admit that I’m sort of a Spurgeon-ite—which also makes me a Calvinist, reformed theology, yada, yada, yada.  I try not to get into that all that often as it often causes divisions and sometimes disagreements.  I want to just say: I follow Jesus my Lord.

We have a program at our local church this evening and tomorrow evening—among all the other presentations, our family will sing and I will share a message called reflections of a mama’s heart at Christmas.  I’ve been deliberately writing and rewriting this talk as I’ve wanted to be certain that it is an accurate description, or a sincere reflection.  So… I wrote it—and I’ll send it out as a Welcome Home message tomorrow.  I need to make a few additions or changes—since something written for a talk varies a bit from a written message.  It was an honour to be asked to share—my hope is that others were blessed—I always come away from these sorts of things feeling like I totally missed the deal and blundered—nonetheless, I sure pray that someone was encouraged.  We loved singing tonight!  In one part of the song, I’m not just sure whose part I was singing—could have been alto, could have been tenor—but I got back around to the line.  One of my boys was singing out strong… and I sort of got got up in one of those tender mommy moments—you know the kind that make you weep for the sweet moment.  I was sure proud of all of them.

      December 11, 2003  

Our daughter made nice treats for the Bible study she attends on Wednesday evenings. A couple are new and will become favourites around here!  I added one of the recipes to Kathryn’s recipes page (c-chip-pecan pie bars). Now… we tasted them—BUT since they’re BSF foods, my daughter and I are avoiding them—but all the littles sure did gather around to eat the “frame” of each pan.  Now the “frame” is the half inch perimeter of the pan that she never includes on the serving platters—so no one ever gets the ‘frames’ or  ‘edges’ of brownies, bars, coffee cake or whatever—well, no one but the littles here–it’s their favourite part of our baking; that, and batter! (I know… raw eggs…)


after the piano recital on Sunday

Avoiding BSF foods has helped me so much!  I’m thinking of getting a little more serious so as to be able to lose the last ten pounds I want to lose; but I’ve been able to maintain this thirty pound weight loss by avoiding BSF foods.  If we’re out visiting, then I’ve been eating very-very small portions of white foods or butter-sugar-flour foods and this has enabled me to maintain this loss but if I add these back in to my daily diet, I always gain a pound or two.  But, for the most part: NO WHITE FOOD!  I can’t seem to follow the regimens of Atkins like my parents—they’ve done so well!  I also can’t seem to stay in the Zone or hang out with Dr. Phil or go to the South Beach… just saying NO to white food has been enough for me.

Ahhhh, so grateful for the opportunities the LORD’s given me to share with women and families.  I sure don’t take this lightly, but then, nor do I take what I’m doing so seriously as if I have this great wealth of knowledge and wisdom—but this I know, the Word stands—the Word does not fail and God’s truths do not return void.  My thoughts always return to a verse that governs my thoughts: Christ in you, the hope of glory. [Colossians 1.27]

We fellowship with a group of believers who attend different ‘churches’ in the area.  I say ‘churches’ because we know that as believers in Christ, *we* are the church and the buildings in which we gather are simply that: buildings or meeting places—we do *go* to church—so to speak, we *are* the church—all over the world believers are the church.  Anyway, in this fellowship of believers, we find many facets of personality and so the contributions are unique—*this* is what makes fellowship so sweet: the combining of unique personalities who are individually at once whole when surrendered by faith in and to Jesus, make up a dynamic whole when gathered together.  Just like in a family—in the beginning a husband and wife are a complete whole—any additions to that family make it a more dynamic whole—but it is already a complete whole.  I was sharing this in the lesson (#22) that day in our Titus2 fellowship on Tuesday morning. In these meetings and in our evening home-fellowship we’re seeking to live in accordance to the Word and not be caught up in what have become the trappings of the modern “church.”

Oh my… a line from that ‘purpose-driven’ article I read yesterday just keeps ringing in my ears—the congregation being asked what kind of music they like to listen to on the radio—answer: then that’s the kind of music we’ll play in church.  Oh my… I’m thinking, that’d be like me asking all my little children what kind of food they want  to eat for breakfast and then serving it to them everyday!  I’ll tell ya this right now: they wouldn’t quickly choose ten grain cereal!  Or, how ’bout this: what if I were to ask the children how they’d like to spend the day—everyday—they wouldn’t tell me they’d like to spend the whole day in study, writing essays, doing mathematics, being quiet in prayer and meditation,  hard at work keeping the home spotless—that’s for sure!  No! They’d want to play and play and play—drinking Nestles Quik and eating chocolate-chip cookie dough—they’d probably like to watch movies and invite all their friends in to do the same!  We all would probably choose one of the easier roads—but is that what this life’s all about?  An amusement park?  Is that what Christ died for?  Is entertainment man’s chief aim and God’s glory? I saw a man sitting at a bus stop in our little town today… so far removed from all that drives some people.  I grieve for him—for all the lost and for all the saved who live lost.

December 10, 2003  I know that I often stand alone in many groups.  I’m not uncomfortable with this, but I’m often grieved that so many I truly respect seem oblivious to the things that seem so clear to me—and I do hastily confess that I’m sure they must think the same of me. I just finished reading an article that stated more succinctly than I could the challenge or what I consider to be the problem with a popular book and church growth movement.  I often hesitate to comment on specific groups in the Christian community for the sake of unity—but I do comment when for the sake of Truth I see the need to do so.  One such situation is the seeming frenzy over the purpose driven church or life—its ‘success’ and its methods.  In the article I’ve just mentioned, there are specifics—and these are but a few of the glaring contradictions or controversial points of the purpose driven life and/or church.  The article is lengthy but worth the read. It’s risky to take a stand but I’d say it’d be far riskier to *not* take one. 

December 9, 2003  I receive reminders of birthdays from Birthday Alarm—you just sign up and receive two reminders: a week and three days prior to the birthday dates you’ve selected.  It’s a neat way to be reminded to e-mail or send a card to someone. At this time of year it’s neat to set some goals for the coming year… this’ll help with your organizing or ‘be organized’ goals!

December 8  It seems we’ve hit the deck running, this week!   Many things to take care of… many commitments on the calendar!  It seems it always goes this way—no matter how many attempts are made to not be over-committed.  All the dates or activities involve at least a couple in our family and all seem important—and all the while attention is being given to one event, preparations are being made for another!  So… sometimes it feels like each event is just a step to the next event.   Problem is, hastily running through them would tend to invalidate them, and that’s something I’d like to avoid like the plague!  Balance.  O, for balance!

The year’s coming to a close… all the print media publications will soon be coming out with ‘year in pictures’ editions.  This morning I received an email from Focus on the Family… reviewing the top articles of the year.  Personally, I think these are just some of the most dramatic articles.  I don’t think you’ll never see the TOP articles of the year—for the TOP articles, are rarely published… and perhaps few are known, they’d not be sensational enough for the mainstream media—but these are the truly top articles—articles that would be top stories of a lifetime… but in this last year… mothers who’ve loved and lost their sons in war; mothers who’ve loved and lost their sons in auto accidents; mothers who’ve held their dying children after years of caring for them; fathers who daily go out to work to care for their families in spite of sickness or injury, weather or disability; fathers who walk sons through adolescence and daughters down the aisle; children who overcome obstacles, disability or pain in order to reach goals, climb mountains, reach stars; husbands who say good-bye to wives and children to board planes bound for destruction; families who gather belongings moments before fire consumes it… these are the top stories… these are the ones few ever read but are most worthy of recording.

December 7, 2003  May God Bless you, this LORD’s Day.  Today our children played in another piano recital.  They all played so beautifully!  Our friend has invested so much in their lives and given them a gift I could never repay: the gift of music.  I’ll always be grateful to her for what she’s done for them and to the LORD for giving them the ability to play.  I pray for all the children to play beautiful music.  So many years, so much practicing—even now as I type this, beautiful music fills our home (just now: Sunrise, Sunset) —I couldn’t be more thankful!  Ahhhh… it was also my step-dad’s birthday—what a blessing he’s been in and for our family.  Our children have learned a special love from him—a consistent, patient man whose life has been a blessing to me—to my mom and to them.  It seems all her life there have been inconsistent, unfaithful men and that is not who this man is and so—in celebrating today, we celebrate for her the birth of her husband—a rare gift, he is.

December 6, 2003 
Oh, what a beautiful morning!  It’s likely to become gray and dark—but for now the sky’s beautiful!  My friend thinks that overcast days are the most beautiful… she oooh’s and aaaah’s over the shades of white and gray.  Hmmm.

More on freezing… foods, that is.  I receive a [yahoo groups] digest called frozen assets—it seems that every day I am learning a new (to me) idea that I incorporate into my cooking and homemaking. There was a question a day or so ago regarding the potential defrosting of a freezer in a power-outage and how would one know if the freezer defrosted in their absence, say, if they were out of town or away on vacation.  So, here’s the tip:  “…fill a small cup/dish with water, put it in freezer until frozen. Then place a penny on top of the ice. If you find the penny at the bottom or anywhere other than the top of the ice, you will know the freezer had defrosted or partially defrosted.”  Isn’t that the best?!?!?  Then there’s the tip for boiling ground beef instead of frying it. And, though I link to the site from our recipe pages, I sort of forgot about the Urban Homemaker site.  I really like Marilyn from articles I’ve read and the contents of her site.  She used to be a featured columnist for Gentle Spirit magazine… O, how I miss the former days of that magazine. Many changes have transpired since then.  O, in those days, when that magazine would come—I couldn’t wait for its arrival, I’d drop everything to sit down and read it… as I recall, I’d read them cover to cover while nursing babies, watching children out on the lawn, waiting at appointments or whatever!  I miss those days!
December 5, 2003  It’s a clean-up day around here, a study day and preparation for a busy weekend.  Keeping laundry under control is my daily concern—I find that when I maintain a simple schedule, all of these things can be handled—but! when I neglect one thing for more than a day—woooo, all duties seem to topple!   My friend, Mary, wrote to share that she’d begun holiday baking—and freezing!  I will set about doing this next week!  I hope to have several things made each day.  What a blessing it is to have things done in advance!  All this thinking comes from seeing time spent wisely, being prepared with foods/meals in the freezer and seeking to be resourceful!  Ah… that’s what homemaking is: continually growing in wisdom and grace—blessing others in the process and product.

We had another Bible study here in our home last evening—many little children, good fellowship and time in the Word.  I wish we could have these times every couple of days!

Recently, I was thinking on the things Nancy Campbell shared at a retreat—over and over again her words come into my mind and the thing I’m thinking of is that young people need fellowship, they need it as much or more than we do.  They need us to provide for them the basis for lasting friendships and then opportunities to cultivate them.  I know this to be so true… and as we have many ages needing different types of things, it’s a blessing to have families in—families who have various aged children and who are seeking to train them up in the ways of the LORD.  It’s challenging to me sometimes to see that all the children are busy with appropriate things, that their companions are ‘on the same page’ so to speak, and to be sure that idle time is well spent.  I know it’s worth every thought, every prayer and every ounce of energy—the fruit is sweet.

My daughter in law just called for a recipe for Russian Cream which she plans on taking to a party tomorrow.  It’s such a delicious tasting side-dish.  I think it goes with everything!  We’ve sure enjoyed it here.  Problem is… it’s not all that healthy… so moderation!

December 4, 2003   Recently I discovered that in the lost files were all our lists—lists for school, checklists for packing, shopping, trips, camping, etc., etc.  Additionally, I had household checklists for different seasons, gardening, etc. that I regret losing.  So… now I’m in the midst of redoing these lists—they make things ever so much easier, especially when packing for a trip or making a fast grocery list.  I’ll post them here when they’re done.

December 3, 2003
  We searched for a song (for the Christmas program) to practice last night… what a challenge it is to choose a song which reflects our heart and expresses the message we seek to convey.  So… after talking about all of that and praying together, it was time to prepare for bed.  It wasn’t for naught—anytime a family gathers and shares together is a blessing.  We have a small amount of time to choose the song and so we’ll have to get clipping along!

Another stormy night!  I know the sounds are magnified—as is everything else in the dark, but it sure seemed like a bad storm outside!  My husband was up and gone very early this morning… and as I tried to go back to sleep, my imagination soared as I thought of what was blowing around outside!

Not stormy inside, we’re enjoying a nice morning here!  Pink light-bulbs in the lamps make the home seem warm to me.  My mother used them when I was a little girl and so I’ve grown accustomed to the type of light they give off and now prefer it to other light effects.  Even the fluorescent tubes in the kitchen are this type of colour—it sort of looks like ‘afternoon’ all day long.  Plus having been born and raised in California, I prefer warm weather and sunshine—but after so long living in the Pacific Northwest, now the scenery I most prefer most is what’s HERE—this is home to me now!  I realized this amazing shift when earlier in the year we visited my old hometown—and what I had continued to think was my favourite place—anywhere: in So. California.  Now, I love it there… but it’s not home to me anymore and the bland countryside/landscape is no longer home to me…stucco, concrete, swimming pools, Coppertone, compact cars, freeways and palm-trees were all more than familiar to me, but they’re not ‘home’ to me anymore—home is here and it’s taken on a whole new meaning now that I’ve seen what home isn’t anymore.
More notes…
Had several letters of response to yesterday’s “TheWelcomeHome” note I sent out.  I’m thankful for the opportunity to send letters out to ladies and am praying about what I ought to send first.  I’ve got several letters I want to complete and send.  Lots of ideas to share in the “Good Things & Recipes” letters, too.  It’s a blessing to have been able to do this for several years now—and I ‘m humbled at the replies.  Finally, yesterday, I was able to access the mailing list and so will be able to use that list server once again.  It was challenging (for me) to get that sorted out.  I have soooo much to learn!   Everyday is a learning experience—for which I am grateful!

One of my little boys has been ‘behind’ in reading and lately has just ‘taken-off’ with reading and spelling!  What a thrill it is to sit beside him while he reads to me!  The particular story he was reading had a bit of adventure in the story line and it was so exciting to listen to him as he anticipated what would happen next and was reading with that same feeling!  I love it when things all seem to come together and learning becomes a daily thrill for the child!  I wouldn’t want to miss this for anything!

A great homeschooling/large family endorsement sort of article in an Indiana newspaper!  I’m guessing this family wishes that even though this article is quite encouraging, it likely doesn’t reflect what actually happens in a large homeschooling family home—all the blessings and benefits are too many to accurately convey.

Looking for national news? The site referenced above also had a link to national news.  Since my mother in law lives in Indiana, I was happy to have a link to news there.

December 2, 2003  What a windy-rainy day it’s been!  I’m thankful for the rain—but don’t like storms!  The wind has helped the last of the weeping willow tree leaves to shed… they’re now all over the yard—tiny leaves, millions of them!  Nearly all the trees are bare, now, and the landscape has taken on a whole new look—no, an old familiar look.

I found an old book on Ebay-–my daughter found a CD she’s been looking for — we ordered them and are anxiously awaiting their arrival!  I’ve discovered that just about ANYthing I’ve been looking for can be found on Ebay.  Incredible.  So, all day, I’ve resisted the temptation to search Ebay for things I don’t need.  Things I have been searching for for years can now easily be found on Ebay… so, there you go—the commercial spot for the day! Ebay: such a deal!

Had all these pop-up ads on the screen… all these offers to download this or that program.  Spyware.  Well… thankfully, one of my sons got rid of most of the programs that started the problems.  It was time consuming and it’s mind consuming to me!  I know our MS friend would be rolling his eyes at the trouble we’ve gotten ourselves into—especially since it wasn’t all that long ago that he got us out of the fix we were in!  Okay… so tighten security—batten down the hatches—it’s sometimes rough sailing on this ship!
And so goes another day.
December 1, 2003

Another new month… another opportunity to do this month: better.  We all think these things, we all attempt great things and then, we all look forward to a new month, a new year to *really* do better.  We have this eternal hope that *this* will be a better year… doing things differently than we’ve done them before.  Obviously, somewhere along the way we slip and fail to keep to our lofty goals and high expectations—December is a great month to be thinking about all we decided *last* December—resolutions we mentally entertained at the end of the month in preparation for the *new* year ahead—the new year and its vast unpainted canvas.  Here we are at another December looking back at the canvas that only twelve months previous loomed large in front of us and now, that once white canvas, that clean slate, is anything but white and clean.  I never did get photos in albums this past year.  I never did write all the “thank-you’s” I intended to write.  I didn’t faithfully remember my secret pal with cards and gifts.  I didn’t keep life simple and orderly. I never did back up the files on the computer.  I never did write down the sweet sayings of the children and I didn’t make them quilts or very many new clothes.  I didn’t spend near enough personal time with each child—listening, really listening to all their thoughts.  I didn’t get very many projects completed.  Well, if I think I didn’t do anything… what DID I do?  Ah… the memories of the year flood my mind… and hopefully through this month I will post pictures of what really did happen this past year.  It’s not all lost, it’s not all a waste, it’s not a failure.  It wasn’t what I planned, it wasn’t all I hoped it would be… but it was more—so much more!  It was all I needed, all I wanted, and so much more.  Things that could never have been imagined: happened.  Things that seemed impossible: happened.  Things I didn’t expect: happened.  Blessings—-now I know what the line in the hymn means: blessings supernal Heaven came down and glory filled my soul…
The Lord allowed things to happen in this past year that I’d never imagined would happen the way they did.  His Hand has been so evident—His mercy and grace so sweet—His provision so perfect.  Now… the month ahead should bring great things… we’ve seen the King and He is gracious!

 

Oh…. I reached a milestone.  I’ve boasted for years that I never got a ticket.  I was stopped one time because my license plate had fallen off.  I was stopped one time by an officer giving us a warning that there was commotion in our vehicle.  I was stopped in a grocery store parking lot for failure to signal (I later learned that our little city police were on the lookout for a person driving a van matching the description of our van) and I questioned about the signal for a parking lot—he told me it was a good practice to do so. :-O    Ahh… so my milestone is that I got a ticket.  Yes! I did and it was for failing to come to a complete stop at an intersection I *thought* I’d done so—–well… so there you go. In tears I handed him my license and proof insurance and registration… which I had to riffle through an envelope of registrations for and I didn’t have on my glasses so I couldn’t see the writing—I could have given him one of my Les Schwab tires warranties for all I know! The officer said I need to stop completely—not rolling, stopping, removing my foot pressure from the accelerator and then proceeding into and through the intersection.  I felt like I was in driving school—I wanted to say I don’t know what you mean…besides that, I didn’t even see you, where on earth did you come from, anyway!?!  So now… Shattered my clean driving record and now I am nearly causing myself and our passengers whiplash at stop signs and yellow traffic signals.  Yeah, I know… I have friends who know I tend to push the speed limit and they’re wondering how on earth I’ve never been stopped all these years.  So… the failure to stop—that ticket was for all the others I should  have gotten and didn’t.  Mercy.  I can’t afford to NOT stop now!  I told the officer I learned to drive in San Francisco, California—he smiled.  I immediately called my husband… what a merciful man… he must’ve been smiling for he didn’t really say much and let me know that it’d all be alright… and it is.  I laugh now—foot firmly on the break.

No… this wasn’t snapped from my van window with our camera.
I don’t know where this pic came from.  My sincere thanks to whoever sent this 😉

November 2003

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November 28, 2003  Well, Thanksgiving 2003 is a now a happy memory.  God blessed the day and our time together—All the hurry-scurry and hustle-bustle is over and the memories are sweet.  We’re more grateful than ever for the goodness of the LORD, His mercy and gracious care.  Providentially , everyone was safe and well, everything was neat and orderly, the food all came together on time and tasted delicious and, most of all, we shared a day of great thanks together; as a family—we shared around the table something for which we’re most thankful and something for which we were most thankful during this past year.  All the answers were sweet—and we all agreed with each one… but the memory I will hold most dear is the answer one of our children gave regarding gratefulness for the steadfast love and support of family—for the knowledge that our family never gave up, never stopped praying and never lost hope.  I was grateful, for I knew in my heart that it’s only the enabling of the LORD to love when there seems no love, to hope when situations seem hopeless, to intercede in prayer when there are no words—it is the LORD—a walk with Jesus that makes those things happen—the natural man cannot do those things—in the natural, we don’t love, we don’t hope, we don’t have prayer—no…. not in the flesh—but in the Holy Spirit—we have all these things and more.  The LORD is gracious, full of compassion and of tender mercy.

We were so glad to have family and friends come over… it was a blessing as we celebrated our daughter’s birthday, had great conversation and singing!  I’ll try to post some pics later.

We’re not shopping today, we’re not saving money, finding all the best deals in the county.  As the children looked over all the ads in the paper last night… as one of our sons was talking about the best new store he’d discovered (It’s “Stupid Prices” in Bothell—a liquidator store) and as another was bidding on an Ebay item… I thought we didn’t really need to be out plowing through the crowds—I guess we sort of shop all over the world at home.  So we’re home… just spending time at home today.  I’ll talk with our friend later, to see how she fared on her shopping excursion before dawn today.  I sometimes feel like I never need to go anywhere… I just delight in the anticipation of the great shopping stories she and my mom have… they seem to be able to locate the very best of the best “deals” around—especially as our friend maps her course and the specific times of the sales she intended to make!  Now, my mom won’t be out in the crowds today—her shopping stories seem to happen when one would least expect to have them happen… you know, at a store the minute when everything “happens to be” 30% off and then because she’s there at 1pm and they have a special take an additional 30% off she’s got a 25% off coupon that applies to other combined offers along with her senior discount… she practically takes the item home for free!  ~smile~ I’m not kidding… she’s incredible!

The children are having pumpkin pie for breakfast… we’ll have turkey sandwiches for lunch and whaddya suppose: leftovers for dinner?  I know we’ll have at least two meals of our Thanksgiving dinner—oh, yes, Turkey Soup!  Yes… I did make broth yesterday afternoon and yes I did strain it before bed and yes… I did burn several scented candles and so… thoroughly enjoyed the process.  As I blogged last week—it’s NOT my favourite meal and mexican food sounds better than ever!

Next week I’ll get back to some more serious blogging…
there’re so many things going on in the news—in the world!


Many Blessings to all of you and your families
this beautiful Thanksgiving Day – 2003
No time for blogging… time for family,
time for baking, time for grinding, and chopping and mixing…
time for rejoicing… time for giving thanks, time for giving love…
Join me in praising the LORD for His goodness, His love and His mercy.
We have so much for which to be thankful…
Count your blessings, name them one by one…
Count your many blessings, see what God has done.

~Happy Thanksgiving~

November 26, 2003  My sweet daughters’ birthday today… so many fond memories have flooded my mind and fill my heart with joy.  This precious daughter is more than a blessing, more than joy to me… what a delight she’s been to us all the days of her life.  We celebrate this today… and every year as her birthday is always near or on Thanksgiving… I am humbly reminded of the great gift we were given the day she was born.  All of our children have been and are such blessed precious gifts—all are a joy to my heart.  I’ll write more next week about the ways this weeks’ activities have gone. 

I don’t know where the time’s gone…

November 23, 2003
 I don’t usually blog on Sunday’s—this is a family day—the LORD’s day and generally not a day on the computer.  It’s my parent’s wedding anniversary today—SO, Happy Anniversary, Mama & Poppy!  We called to sing them a greeting… we missed them, though!  So, when they return, they’ll have a chorus to listen to on the answering machine!

Ah, so, it being Thanksgiving week, I thought it’d be a good idea to get busy looking for neat new ideas for the special day.  My motivation is not self generated—it’s fueled by some marvelous newsletters I’ve received in the past week.  I’m always pleased to receive newsletters from Norma— Healthy Truths and her wonderful website: A Woman of Value.  I think what’s made Norma such a caring and encouraging person is her experience with difficulties and pain and the wisdom she’s gained from them through the years she’s walked with the LORD.  She’s given great perspective to life’s situations and I am thankful to be able to read and glean from her. 

We bought cranberries to make relish… the best taste to me, the easiest thing in the world to make: 2 whole Oranges, chopped—white parts removed,  then ground up, 1 lb. cranberries, also through the grinder, in a bowl add 1 cup of sugar, and a pinch of salt.  Put in the fridge and stir a couple of times a day for a few days… serve on Thanksgiving or whenever you have turkey—sandwiches or whatever.  Yum.  This year I am going to make a few things that will be totally unique.  Ham-grape-almond salad, pea salad and maybe something else… I wish my mother-in-law were here!  She makes the best-best layered jello salad.  I may make a rainbow layered jello  for the children—they love it so much!  It’s fun to make, fun to eat.  I sometimes make sugar-free and then don’t worry so much about the overload for the day.

So thankful our family seems to be well as we come to Thanksgiving… some years we have some bit of sickness in the home and the day of Thanksgiving is one day everyone wants to be sure to be very well!  No one want to have the flu over Thanksgiving!  Here’s how you do the deal if you’ve got the flu

They all love the meal—but like I’ve told you—it is NOT my favourite meal—I love the day, it’s the meal I don’t love.  But—it is a blessing to me to prepare for it and to serve it knowing that it’s such a delight around here and that everyone is so looking forward to their “favourite things” to eat.  O… I can recall the numerous times I been early pregnant and the smell of the turkey carcass simmering in the kettle for soup the next day—nausea nearly comes back to me at the remembrance!  Ack!  I think THIS year I shall not make soup broth the same day… I will sleep well with the fragrance of sweet candles filling the air… replacing that penetrating poultry smell… then set about making the soup the next day. 

How often do we attempt work for God to the limit of our incompetency rather than to the limit of God’s omnipotency.”  ~ J. Hudson Taylor

November 21, 2003  And so the erosion continues… The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled 4-3 that a ban on homosexual marriage violates the state constitution and gave the state legislature 180 days to come up with a compromise or a plan to comply with the ruling.  Alarming? Yes.  Irrevocable or final? No. There are sites focusing on this issue–bringing in points of interest and value. Alliance For Marriage sheds more light on this “crisis.”  The Campaign For Working Families offers you an avenue of communication with legislators in Congress.   You know… in all this we must remember that God is still on the Throne,  that from the beginning He designed, defined and instituted marriage between one man and one woman—that they would leave their father and mother, be joined together and become one flesh.  So—no matter what the courts say or do, no matter to what levels a depraved society lowers itself: the Word of God is sharp and powerful and in it we find ALL that’s needed for life—we know that “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness; that the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.”  (2Timothy 3.16)  If you’ve not yet signed a Federal Marriage Amendment Petition, you can do so by visiting the website One Man One Woman.  Ayia!

You find no difficulty in trusting the Lord with the management of the universe and all the outward creation, and can your case be any more difficult than these, that you need to be anxious about His management of it?      ~ Hannah Whitall Smith

—Made lemon meringue, pecan and chocolate pies yesterday.  Ahhh… all that BSF food sure looked good.  I DID taste the lemon filling as this was the first time I used arrowroot powder rather than cornstarch for the thickener—nah, I don’t think it worked as well and it did impart a subtle flavour  [I know—I’ve been told many times that it is tasteless—but I don’t think so—I think it has a ‘barely there’ ginger taste]  that I don’t desire in a lemon pie—so I think for lemon filling I’ll stick with [REFINED ;-( ] cornstarch—now, next year I may be totally converted to whole foods and balk at this refined cornstarch stuff—ahhh, I can take the heat and will humble myself at that time.   You want to learn more about whole foods?  Are you new to the whole [no pun intended] concept? You can check out Sue Gregg.com and you can also view this brief page of encouragement for “newbie’s” to whole foods.   Okay—time’s up for today… ‘sides, my coffee’s cold. 😉

November 20, 2003  Whew! No flood yesterday!  The river crested three and a half feet above flood stage here yesterday and remains high—above flood stage, but is receding slowly.  Farmlands and rural roads have been flooded but we haven’t heard of any real problems.  These days we listen to reports all day regarding the level of the river and the local weather conditions.  Ooooo, I don’t like cold weather—but was so grateful for the snow yesterday!  Snow is a blessing when the rivers are threatening to flood!  It’s raining hard today and that makes for another day of high levels in the river. Our first fall/winter in this home, I was reading in the Psalms and came upon Psalm 29 which contains what have sort of been the theme verses for fall and spring (times of high likelihood of flooding):  Psalm 29.3, 10 “The voice of the LORD is upon the waters: the God of glory thundereth: the LORD is upon many waters… The LORD sitteth upon the flood; yea, the LORD sitteth King for ever.”

This month is just ticking away—one week from today is Thanksgiving Day!  Also, next week, my parents have an anniversary and one of our daughters has a birthday—some years, these fall on Thanksgiving Day and we’re doubly thankful!  My daughter in law wrote asking for my stuffing recipe—so that’s something I’ll have to figure out and write down for her.  I’ll put it in the recipes section, here when I get it figured out—this is the problem with frequent cooking without a real recipe.  Now, I collect cookbooks, magazines and recipes and for the most part recipes are a guideline for me.  However, when I am making something really complicated or for the first time, I do follow the recipe!  When I’ve tasted a meal somewhere and want to duplicate it at home, I just try to recall the specific flavours, the ingredients and the likely preparation method and go to it!

I sometimes think that I’d sure like a mulching vacuum—you know, for all those little bits and pieces of things in the carpet.  I don’t know how many little Lego’s have been vacuumed up over the years—our incomplete sets would give a clue.  I also don’t know how many pennies have shot into the motors of our vacuums—many, I’m sure!  Yes, that’s plural: many pennies and many vacuums. Now, most of our home is not carpeted—BUT—for the rooms that are, a Hoover Mulcher would be great.  My sons thought this: would be a great vacuum!   I’m not sure we’d get much actual work done with one of these!

November 19, 2003  Another great site with GREAT stuff!  Though I love-love-love the Silpat sheets that my daughter-in-law gave me, I cannot justify buying more of them at this time (they’re pricey—but worth it, to me!).   I just visited a site which offers a baking sheet and I really want to try the nonstick material for baking!  These sheets at 12.00 per, look a bit more ‘doable’ than the 27.00 Silpats.  Additionally, I’d be more apt to use one sheet for crafting —at that price!  Apparently, glues don’t stick to the material and they’re not damaged by heat, thus they’d be great for under crafts with the glue-gun and Fimo or Sculpey stuff.  While you’re at that site, check out their GREAT prices on needles!!

O, by the way—there’s continuing talk of the hazards of polymer clays… seems they leave a residue on hands and the effects are potentially dangerous to health.  Toxicologists’ reports seem to still deem the levels within “safe” ranges for handling—even if ingested.  Now, moms, we know better than to let the littles work the Fimo anyway and we wash up after use… so, the debate is ongoing and those on each side are adamant they’ve got the truth.  We smile around here and say: O, isn’t that the way it goes with good stuff? —It’s unhealthy, dangerous or fattening.

We’re all a lot alike!  We all have too much on our docket, too much laundry, too many things need to be done, too many things are left undone, too much procrastination… and dinner time: what to do for dinner?!?!   Here’s a neat site that’ll give you all sorts of helps & encouragement for family meals—maybe it’ll even spur you on to get all those things done that you haven’t had the  energy to do!

November 18, 2003  It’s time to start preparations for Thanksgiving… the meal, the baking, the family back around the table and the activities of the day.  Now in all my life I’ve never really and truly liked the Thanksgiving meal—in fact, recently, I shared with my family that in a few years when I’m 50, I will make enchiladas, guacamole, chile rellenos, tamales, salsa and refrieds for Thanksgiving.  Icy cold Dr. Pepper for everyone, too.  Ah… but that’s just a dream… I’ll likely still be making a dozen pumpkin & pecan pies, cornbread, green beans, sweet potato casserole, garlic mashed potatoes, and… turkey.  I never eat turkey on Thanksgiving.  Well… that’ll change *this* year.  ‘Seems that ALL of Thanksgiving is carbs.  Thanks. 

Now I’m not an Atkins or Zone maniac—I mean I’ve not developed an unnatural fear of ICE (with all due respect to the late Dr. Atkins) or anything like that…. but it has been more than helpful to me to eliminate most BSF foods from my diet… thirty pounds ago I would not have even believed this nor did I have the will-power to attempt their elimination.  I could still head up and host a meeting of overeaters anonymous and commence by saying: my name is pamela and *I* am a carbohydrate addict. (have you ever wondered why the self-help groups include ‘anonymous’ in the name? —you go to a meeting and tell-all, share-all!)   I’ve not suddenly ceased to be a junkfood junkie—I’ve just managed to avoid being a user.  High-pro/low-carb hasn’t been *preference* changing for me—*life* changing, yes, but not *preference* changing.  The molasses cookie I had the other night was as delicious as I knew it would be.  The mocha I had the other day was as wonderfully tasty and delightful as the hundreds I used to enjoy.  All the while… I KNEW… those will have to be FEW and FAR between.  I can never go back to grazing again.  I cannot indulge in the freedom of gluttony,  ‘sides, Biblically, I know that’s wrong—I need to reckon it to be so.

more later.

November 17, 2003  Ahhhhh another rainy day here in Washington.  Hot tea, candles, a fire in the woodstove, children reading and working in every room… everything’s being done indoors these days… it’s wet and wintry now.

I’m slowly planning my quilt which is being inspired by our friend Laura and a quilt she made recently.  The quilt is wonderfully made using beautiful baby clothes—yes, she hesitantly cut into beautiful clothes in order to construct the quilt squares.  Each square is unique as Laura designed each one according to the type of or piece of clothing she used (pockets, collars, trim, edging, etc.).  So, every day I’m remembering the different baby clothes and how I might incorporate each child’s clothing into a square. I know some of the very well loved things I’ve saved will have to be reinforced or covered with sheer fabric in order to be used.  Now, I’ve been ‘collecting’ baby clothes for nearly 25 years—-I hope this quilt will not take as long to make as it has to gather materials for it!     I’ll be sharing more about Laura soon as she’s beginning a business sewing modest maternity clothing.  Her skill and expertise is evident in everything she does.   Yes… this is an endorsement—you’ll agree when you meet her and see her work.

There’s a strange and funny and wonderful world out there, a world where people who share same convictions, same hobbies, same lifestyles, same interests, etc., etc. can gather and become friends.  It’s as real as the real world, as close as family and as near as the computer screen.  In this world friendships are born, emotions are kindled—sometimes even fired up.  The events, activities or accomplishments of virtual strangers stir our emotion as if we’d been close companions for decades.  Though this world has a dark side and I’m in no way referencing it—firmly avoiding personal knowledge or familiarity with the depth of the depravity—I continue seeking only to follow well lit paths: I’m speaking of discussion boards, blogs and email lists.  Some of my dearest friends are ‘internet friends’ —friends who’ve blessed me beyond measure, friends whose lives have enriched ours and we theirs.  Because of time constraints, I’ve opted out of email lists for the most part and prefer a few digests or boards where discussions are posted concerning specific topics.

Years ago I did a web search for homeschooling and child training and the one of the sites I was directed to was the  MOMYS website…. so I subscribed,  and have, off and on over the years, received the digest. MOMYS is an acronym for Mothers Of Many Young Siblings.  It is on this digest that I’ve come to appreciate the unique ideas, helps, information on a myriad of topics pertaining to training & bringing up children.  And, as with any list, the personalities become familiar over time and a sort of web-kinship is established.  The moderator carefully guides the list.  There is a woman who posts on the digest from time to time, I appreciate her maturity and approach to topics being discussed.  I was especially touched by her gracious reporting of the fire which destroyed their home in the October fires in California.  Her response to that ‘tragedy’ has been inspiring—equally encouraging is the reaction by those who’ve also come to respect and appreciate her and her family.  You can tell a lot about a person by what they do and *don’t* say AND what others do and *don’t* say about them.  I read a post this morning that several in the homeschool materials/curriculum communities have offered their help.  You can read more about this family at a site that’s been specifically set up in response to this family’s loss.  We know this isn’t the only loss, the only need, the only tragedy.  We pray for the others who’ve experienced loss, tragedy and sickness.  Perhaps even you, who are reading this just now, are experiencing loss, pain or sorrow—-for these I am sorry and pray for the LORD’s hand and blessing to be with you.

November 16, 2003  We had a great visit at the doctor Saturday morning.  I’m always a bit apprehensive about these appointments because of the unwrapping of her foot: revealing the work.  Since this is the last surgery she’ll have on this foot, what we see now is the ‘finished product’ and so naturally, I was anxious for this day.  She had her dressings changed and will now wait two weeks before the doctor removes the stitches.  At that time, she’ll be free to walk and wear ‘normal’ shoes.  We’ve come to understand that ‘normal’ is a relative term—and through this year we’ve become altogether familiar with with a host of new “normal’s” around here! 

Ever wonder if stuff you’re using around your home is, or was at one time, being recalled?  But—oooops, you never heard about that recall and subsequently, now you’ve got a houseful of hazardous materials posing a threat to your health or safety even as you read this!  Ah… but there’s Safety Alerts and now you can visit that site and sign up to receive, by email, notices of recalls.  Well, just to satisfy my curiosity, I did a little snooping around and found that it’s quite a simple task to search different categories for recalled items.  Once you become accustomed to navigating the site, you’ll quickly see this and be able to do a specific product search—and hopefully, find nothing on their list that you have in your home!

I remember a few years ago I was oblivious to the fact that I was driving around with four new Firestone tires and someone asked me if it made me nervous to drive with those tires.  Well, not having heard about the recall, or rather, not paying attention to the recall nor even to the type of tires on the van, I shrugged.  In the back of my mind I was thinking: mygoodness, if they knew the numerous problems we’ve dealt with with that van, *tires* were the least of my worries.  As naive as it sounds, I know that our vehicles are faith-powered and frequently there’s no mechanical reason why they’re operable—anyway, at that point I was just hoping it wouldn’t rain as I had no wiper motor and used the manually operated string method whereby the strings looped around the wipers on the outside and the string ends were hooked together  on the inside of the van are then pulled side to side causing the same action on outside—it’s a rather effective method, but not one I recommend.  Sometimes… you know… any port in a storm.  O, by the way, once home, Wes checked the serial numbers and sho nuf, we had the “defective” tires.  It was simple to have them replaced—Firestone couldn’t afford for it NOT to be!

November 14-15, 2003  More busy days in our home.  Time is limited, or better stated, it is spent differently when one of the family members has more needs than at other times—especially when that member is one of the main wheels in this well oiled machine!  Ah, my daughter: the daughter I truly recognize is a gift of God—and perhaps more: she’s gifted of God.  Whatever the case or whichever way I look at it, she’s remarkable and amazing.  What a joy for her to feel well enough today to play the piano—O, how I’ve missed her playing in the last few days!  One of my greatest joys each day is hearing the beautiful music played on that piano—but O, how those early days pained me!  I don’t know if you’ve heard the songs to which I’m referring, and bless you if you’ve endured them, but they’re pure torture and pure delight to the budding concert pianist.  Believe me, when hearing: The Indian Song, one never thinks the next Chopin is tapping those keys.  The only thing I think is that we’re nearer the end than the beginning of Book One. 

I’ve been encouraging Kathryn to write an account of her year, to chronicle the surgeries, recovery periods and to share the complexities of pain, navigating and general living post surgery.  I’m recalling many solutions to predicaments that casts/crutches/wheelchairs present; one or all pose problems nearly everywhere we’ve been.  Her doctor shared that many times the key to rapid recovery is firm and unwavering motivation.  She’s been totally motivated—and he is pleased!  We’ll go to have her bandages removed and dressings changed.  I’m thinking that the gauze they used initially is too tight and that a good deal of her pain is currently a result of that.  I’ll take the camera in the morning and snap some pics of the “main event!”

 

November 13, 2003   The LORD is merciful and has blessed abundantly as Kathryn had a very successful surgery Wednesday afternoon.  While she’s in considerable pain at times, she’s quite amazing to us all as she bravely handles what comes.  It’s been a blessing to me to help her and I look forward to the days ahead when the pain and swelling diminish and she’s able to comfortably get around once again.  Ahhhh… I suppose, in reality, what I truly look forward to is taking her shopping for shoes… pretty shoes: something that’s been difficult to do most of her life as she’s never been able to wear “beautiful” shoes—but how grateful I am no matter what shoes she’s worn, and truly, she would say the same thing.  I’m grateful to the surgeons and they know it as I’ve shared with them numerous times the great blessing they are in the literal changing of her life and helping her to have corrected feet.  I pray that she will have beautiful feet—that the verse that inspires her now will characterize her life.  How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace.

  November 12, 2003  No time for bloggin’ yesterday—and, actually, less time today!  We’re preparing for Kathryn’s foot surgery at 2 and the care she’ll need for a bit.  I think we’ve had more visits to doctors in this past year than we’ve had in all of our parenting combined—now, of course, this does not include visits to midwives/OB’s which seem to number in the hundreds as I’ve been pregnant over 100 months of my life! Whew!     Now… this surgery tomorrow is much less complicated than the others as this is a surgery to remove the ‘hardware’ (screws & wiring), to do a little work on the bones, and “lift” the scar. So… I’ve been chatting with our daughter while she drank her last glass of water, took her anti-nausea meds, and antibiotics.  She’s been scrubbing her foot 2 x’s daily for five days with an antibacterial surgical scrub—poor girl—her foot is now quite sore and looks jaundiced.  If you or anyone you know is contemplating foot surgery, what a process this is!  It’s really and truly a year long process.  Months and months in casts and on crutches; months and months of swelling and additional surgical procedures following the initial corrective surgery.  I believe we were unprepared, initially, as our expectations were quite high and really, in hindsight, unrealistic—totally unrealistic.  But—we’re optimists and had we known, I don’t know what, if anything, we’d have done differently.  One thing I know, and that is that the LORD has surely been gracious and beyond faithful in His provision, His protection and tender care of our daughter. 

Lots more in the news… too much to blog today…  seems like time’s on 78 speed.  Remember old record players, turn tables, etc.?  We used to think it was so funny to speed up the player and listen to the distorted mousey voices.  Well, sometimes, I think that the speed of time has been increased and the volume’s way up and the tempo’s too fast.  The rate at which things are changing is mind boggling to me… and yet… there are some things that don’t seem to change… the coffee still drips slow when I’m seeking to have the study start on time on Titus2 mornings.  I posted the latest lesson in our study of Titus2.3-5.  We had a good time Tuesday morning.  I look forward to the second half of this lesson which we’ll do in a couple of weeks.  I thought it best to have our Titus2 meetings on the 2nd  & 4th Tuesday mornings of the month so as to allow the keepers at home to do and be just that: keepers at home.  Some miss the Friday morning meeting time… I do, too, sometimes—but this is best for now.

  November 8-10, 2003

Ahhh… Boys’ Day.  I thought I’d just blog a bit about the day of days.  Everyone ought to go out for boy’s day.  I learn so much on these days from my boys.  It was a blessing, too, to be with my parents–to have them and the boys together is rare—generally, we’re all together with all the family and there’s often much commotion and lively conversation such that one gets lost or cut off in the exchanges.  On Boys’ Day, it might tend to get a bit that way but the topics & conversation remain: boys’ stuff.  I wasn’t disappointed in my anticipation of the traveling to the restaurant and all the car sounds I’d hear; nor was I let down by their reaction to “ALL the FOOD!”  It was as I’d anticipated: all good.  Now, I’d not intended to take the five year old as he might not have enjoyed the day as much as the rest—but had you seen the expression on his face or heard his determined joyful, compliant attitude, you’d have taken him, too.  “When you say to me, “Andrew, you need to stay by my side,” I will say to you, [emphatically] “yes, ma’am, I will stay by your side.””  Now, you see? Would you have left that little one behind?

In addition to the ‘best lunch in the world’ at the restaurant, next door at Gart Sport was also an adventure.  Now, when I saw my thirteen year old riding around on this ‘big wheel’ —just larger proportions— looking just like he did when he was five: I thought… now, if there’s anyway for me to buy that and bring it home and explain to Wes WHY I HAD to buy it… well, I stopped at that.  Now the next morning (yesterday) I was telling Wes that I had so wanted to buy that big wheel—and that I had thought of many things I would have told him as to why I had to buy that big wheel.  Well… much to my shock,  when he returned from picking us his vitamins (C & D) that morning—which was a rather lengthy time away, by the way, he told Samuel to run out to get something from the truck.  So… Boys’ Day… it was the best.

Those vitamins, C & D?  Uh, that would be coffee and doughnut.  And the big wheel? What a blast!

Today’s blog’s covering a few days worth of stuff as there have been few opportunities to blog and fewer to read what’s going on.  But there are things going on alright—lots of stuff’s going on!  You know, it’s tough to keep in mind that I might need to be a bit guarded when blogging.   But then, sometimes I consider this and think: nah, it’s my blog… so I blog.  Some days will be innocuous and others will seem a bit sharper—caustic even.  Sensational, this blog is not.  I hope it’s both informative and entertaining.  I attempt to be factual and forthright.  There’s enough pointless drivel in life—that’s not my purpose 

My sister-in-law works for IBM and so, bearing that in mind, I’m reluctant to ever think/talk poorly of the company. It has, in fact, been a very good job for her and her abilities have been both sharpened and broadened in her tenure there.  But… and it’s a big but, I’m continually regretful regarding the ‘liberal-ness’ or the ‘politically-correctness’ of the firm. Big Blue… is really becoming Big Magenta or something like that.  I guess in actuality it’s been a series of compromises that have transformed the company to what it is today.  It’s amazing to me all of the subtle erosions of the family, the clever or perhaps inadvertent attacks on morality.  Were I to seek to be employed outside our home, I’d be hard pressed to enter or remain in a situation where there’s such compromise to Biblical standards and thus would likely have a very limited resource pool from which to secure employment.   I’m not suggesting an IBM boycott… but there are other international business machine companies.
  November 7, 2003
Today is Boys’ Day Out… Somewhat of a new tradition with my parents. My mother begins reminding them well in advance that Boys’ Day is coming…  [all this in answer to the many times we girls have gone out to lunch or whatever with Grandmother—and without the boys!].  So, Boys’ Day Out.  We’ll be meeting them at a buffet restaurant where the boys will enjoy a meal… sampling lots of different foods, making their own sundaes and trying out the various beverages.  This is the sort of day that makes me smile… for on these days I drive the van and all of my companions are male and the conversations, unlike the conversations of all-female passengers, are comprised of more sounds or sound effects than actual words and far more is noticed *outside* the van than what we’re feeling-thinking-dreaming-wanting to do- *inside* the van.  In fact, I don’t think we have a complete conversation without sound effects the whole day.  It’s a total paradigm shift from a day out with the girls.  While the boys are gentlemen, extremely courteous and polite, it’s a whole different set of parameters on Boys’ Day.  For example, I generally don’t notice the makes and models of vehicles on any other day.  I never call out, “O, Sweet!” when seeing a new van, for example.   I’m never asked to speed up to the latest BMW on any other day.  I don’t generally have truckers honking (in response to the “pulling down” hand motion my boys are making somewhere in the van).   I generally don’t ever have young ladies smiling and waving at my passengers on other days.  I’m never offered a taste of coke-fanta-orange-sprite-rootbeer at once in the same glass on any other day.  After a nice lunch with the girls and visit with my parents… I never go the sporting good’s store and test all the displays and try on camo gear.  No, when the girls go out to lunch, we don’t come home with pocket knives or flashlights or baseball cards.  But, on the other hand, I never feel more like the Queen-of-quite-a-lot on any other day than on Boys’ Day Out.  With boys… it’s always an adventure.  With boys, it’s always the best day ever. 

  November 6, 2003   Just returned from the doctor’s office where Kathryn had a pre-op appointment.  It’s gotten to be amazing to me the length of time involved for corrective foot surgery.  I’d no idea the length or the intensity of pain and healing.  Here are some links on my medical info page regarding foot surgery.  So… another surgery next week and then another one in a month on the other foot.  In the meantime, there’ll be other office visits, dressing changes and rewraps, and… life—the ongoing dailies that make for the seeming evaporation of days.

I’ve got lots more to post but no time… too bizzy for bloggin’

  November 5, 2003  A couple of our “olders” went to see a movie… not something that’s often done in our family—but allowed on occasion.  The occasion for this allowance was to see the film: Luther.  It’s a precarious position for parents to decide which is fine and which is completely inappropriate—there was a space of time in which we were absolutely not to go or allow any of our youngsters to go to a movie theater.  Our rationale was that other patrons at the Cineplex would not know which movie we were heading in to see or exiting from. Five or ten years or so of this was burdensome as there were occasionally one or two movies we really wanted to see—movies that were IMHO or in my not-so-humble opinion, fine—even beneficial.  So rather than allow the pendulum to powerfully swing to the opposite extreme (blowing off any restriction whatsoever) we took a more rational, conservative approach and now *occasionally* allow a movie to be viewed.  Our [legalistic] fervor was sincere, but it was: legalistic.  So, then, how do you determine which is best some movies? All movies under a particular rating?No movies? No movies where people might [will] see you?  Only mail-order home videos?  Ahhh what a challenge for parents.  A couple of things help us make our decision… the first and foremost being: will Jesus be comfortable sitting in on the viewing and will this do harm to the testimony of Christ?   Ways we utilize to make decisions are through reviews either in print, or on the net.  Two sites help us: Plugged In Online and Screen It.  Now, my EXTREME caution about Screen It is that it is very very graphic about describing scenes in movies—the number of incidents, words, partially spelled swear words, etc.  I used this when seeking discernment on a ‘war’ film—understood, then, the nature of the movie, etc., etc.
  November 4, 2003  I’m thankful to live in the area we do—not only because of the beauty, but also because of the proximity to so many places we end up needing to go.  Today I’m grateful to live near to the Children’s Hospital in Seattle our little daughter had an appointment with an Audiologist.   She’s been to several docs in an attempt to ascertain & diagnose her problem.  She’s deaf in her left
ear and the thought was that she might be a candidate for a sort of “FM” system whereby a person [teacher, speaker, etc.] would wear a microphone and our little one would have an aid that would allow her to clearly hear what the speaker was saying.  Trouble is… in her life, there are so many ‘speakers’ that we’d constantly be switching the mic and it would be more of a problem than a benefit.  So, after hearing what the audiologist suggested, we came away feeling like we would just continue our course.  As we understand it, the other alternative, a hearing aid for the ‘good’ ear would be cumbersome and she’d quickly reject it.  I’ll be reading over the literature they offered us, and hopefully, I’ll post the highlights on our Medical page soon.


Think you don’t have an impact on what goes on in the media?  Think again! Your voice is not obscured by distance or by the walls of your home—if you’re willing to do a little calling or writing, that is.  From the little I’ve heard about the contents of the miniseries on the Reagan’s I’d say the character assassination and inaccuracies portrayed on film is reprehensible!  In one venue, Some 22,000 people made their voice heard.  O, the bias of the media—the lies of the enemy, the work to distort and destroy is appalling.  This, with judicial tyranny, is the sickening, eye-opening reality of those who oppose God. It may be that when you have a problem with your computer and the screen goes black—the black screen does not care and hears nothing—but collectively, voices in opposition to lies in the media will be heard!
Now, don’t just bang your head on the keyboarddo something better: use it for good!!

THRILL OF THRILLS!  My son was working with an old computer and on it was an old hard-drive… ahhh the thrill of seeing old files… files several years old, I’d totally forgotten about!  But, oh the LORD is merciful to me… ever gracious and kind.  I smiled as I saw different old things I’d been disappointed to have lost.  Timothy said now, these are like hieroglyphics—I don’t care they are old… I’m pleased to have them.  I don’t know if this system can read them… or however that goes —-and this does nothing for the few year’s worth of files lost–but, nonetheless, it’s a joy and delight to me!  So… no time for bloggin!  I’ve gotta try to sort through some files… who knows, maybe I’ll come across an article that’ll be just right for you!  I’ll post things on pages as I’m able!  Here’s a pic of our birthday boy and brother!  We were singing a rousing round of Happy Birthday!

  November 3, 2003  Ahhh… a new month—and is it ever crispy cold!!  We’ve started the month off at a running pace!  We had the joy of attending a wedding on Saturday and celebrating our son’s tenth birthday yesterday!  I love celebrations!  This particular child is especially fun to prepare for because his appreciation is so great and so sincere.  He’s a bit more quiet than the rest and yet, there’re always deep thoughts resulting in profound statements!  He’s a grateful child and so my desire or any efforts to please him are rewarded greatly!  We had a good time the other day as I had asked him what he’d like for his birthday dinner… pouring over the cookbooks, he decided on roast and red potatoes with garlic & herbs, also ambrosia and Caesar salad—oh, and garlic bread, too.  Oh, my, all the delicious white food I passed over!

I must tell you of a white food I did NOT pass over at the wedding reception on Saturday.  You must try it sometime!  When we returned home, the first thing I did [really!!] was to get on the net to look up this recipe!  Russian Cream! Oh, my! It was just delicious.  Near as I can tell, this is the recipe for  Russian Cream—I can’t wait to try it.  It is THE white food I will indulge and eat!  🙂  I’ll make it for our next gathering… I know everyone will be just delighted! 

So… now I have been thinking again of gifts to make for the holidays ahead… my first stop was this site for candle making. You know, I was looking for easy and safe things… as I have many eager crafters… and I must guard against accidents at the hands of curious youngers! The olders [that’s what I call my older four at home] can handle much more than the youngers [that’s what I call the younger five].  I am thinking of a gift for each of our family members… it will sort of *seem* generic… but that’s not my intention at all… I just think they’d all really like the gift!

 

Okay… so here we go… another month of bloggin… and off to a good start!  —many blessings, pamela

 

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BACK UP YOUR FILES!  IF YOU’VE GOT A BUNCH OF IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON YOUR COMPUTER, MAKE A COPY (AND UPDATE IT FROM TIME TO TIME) AND STORE IT IN A SAFE-DEPOSIT BOX AND/OR AT A FRIEND’s OR RELATIVE’s HOME.  In light of the floods, fires, etc., it would be very good to make copies of your important papers, documents, policies and take them or the originals and file them in the safe-deposit box, too.  I have some other notes that our friend Laura sent me today that I’ll share tomorrow.  It’s too late for bloggin’ and my time is up!  😉

October 31, 2003    Happy Birthday, Laura!!
Ahhhh… no bloggin’ yesterday!  Too many things to do around our home and too many people on this system 😉 I’ve been watching the news on the net regarding the California fires.  Our hearts go out to those who’re in desperate situations… all the uncertainties, the grief, fear and loss from the relentless fires.  We commend all the Firefighters, all the volunteers, Police & Rescue and the courageous citizens who’ve selflessly done whatever it takes to help others.  My mom sent me a neat link this morning—fire update—it’s quite something to see the far-reaching effects of this fire.  I was born in San Bernardino and raised in Redlands so I’ve been sort of tracking what’s been happening in those areas.  Our friend here told of a relatives devastating loss of their home.  My sister in law lives near Saddleback Mountain and called my mother-in-law last night to let the family know that they’re all “fine” but everything is covered with ash. As a result of the fires she’s been working “a ton of extra hours” because all the hospitals (one of which is where she works) in the area are full and busy.  Oh, how many lives are touched one way or another by the tragedies.

I love to hear results of something I’ve written or links I’ve highlighted here… my friend wrote yesterday and shared her delight in finding links for her patterns of dishes and china.  I was thrilled to see the patterns—and amazed that her pattern of china is the same as our son & daughter-in-law’s china.   Now… when I’m at their home, and I see their china, I’ll be thinking of my friend.  I’ll continue to look at Replacements or on Ebay for dishes for our daughter.  I never see my pattern on Ebay, but you never know…  In the scheme of things, this is a very very low priority.

I had another beautiful letter this morning from the owner of the Simply Graceful website where you may purchase beautifully modest dresses for little girls—“Handmade with care for Special little girls.”  You know what I was pleased to see… she’s offering a jumper for mama’s!  Go and see… I  love home industry!

October 29, 2003 Now tonight I was looking at a wonderful needlework website! As a matter of fact, just today I was showing my daughters some stamped cotton-linen placemats that my grandmother was in the process of making.  I think I’ll ask my mom to finish them with our oldest daughter.  She’s been busily arranging her closet and looking over the things in her hope-chest and yesterday was looking through my mother’s china which is being stored in boxes for her.  I decided to take a look at Replacements to see what they have available in that pattern.  I was pleased to see all the different pieces they had!  Whew! The prices are high, though!  Then I decided to take a look on Ebay… there, I was not so successful!  I did, however, browse through the different sets and patterns of china and smiled as I saw all sorts of different sets of china and remembered different friends and family members as I saw ‘their china’ patterns.

Dealing with loss… oh, the things I’ve remembered as the days have passed… things that were on this computer.  Much like an address book which I have on my desk, I had a nicely set up address book and personal info files that I’m regretful to have lost.  I have been sorry about this today.  But, as my friend wrote this morning… my loss was NOthing like the losses being faced and experienced in California (and, obviously elsewhere!).  Oh, the devastation of those fires.  My very small disruption is as nothing compared to the losses they face.  It’s a good thing to see things in proper perspective.  I’m so grateful to have been reminded of this!

October 28, 2003  What a blessing to fellowship with other believers around the “‘net table” here!  I’m grateful for the opportunity the LORD’s given and His working in our lives.  It’s a blessing to have the good of the ‘net at our disposal—but we must be ever careful, ever vigilant to the downside or dangers of this great tool.  One thing about not having anything to work with over the last week, was the reality of the time grabber this machine is!  Actually, it’s both a time and attention siphon! I am more keenly aware that every moment I’m facing this box is a moment I’m not facing my children.  Likewise, every moment they’re using the machine, they’re not doing something else. So… perspective was gained by the loss of the files and use of this machine. Debbie G once wrote about the dangers of email lists… I’d sure echo that and add, the ‘net in general.  It’s a tool—and like all tools, in it’s proper place and purpose it’s marvelous—I pray we never lose sight of this or else our expensive lesson will have been just that: expensive. 

October 27-8, 2003                             Good Good Morning!! 

We’re up and running!  After losing all the files on my system, It is with great thanks to the LORD that this site was on a server and is restored.  I am grateful for the salvaging of these files as they are the only files I have of the 139,000 files lost when my computer crashed.  I am grateful to my husband and to our friend Sean for their patience and kindness… yes, and time and finances to get new components, programs and all that went into reinstalling them.  This was a very very expensive lesson for me… my prayer has been that in all of this the LORD would be glorified and I would be gracious and accept as of His Hand all that transpires. I’m sorry to have lost five years of files… sorrier that I never backed them up properly and now have lost thousands of important records, files, orders, etc. that I cannot replace.  Some of the more important lessons I’ve learned in life have come at great expense, but I’ve also seen the LORD bring rich and lasting fruit from the difficult plowing I’ve experienced.  I’m sorry to have lost beautiful letters of correspondence, marvelous articles I always intended to post on the site… pictures and chronologies through e-mail of events and phases family and friends have gone through.  I’m regretful that I don’t have addresses, and journals and letters to my children that I’ve been keeping over the last five years… because as you know, I’m a saver-of-quite-a-lot.

One neat blessing that’s come of this loss is MORE ADVICE!
In addition to my standard admonitions:
Get right with the LORD.
Brush and floss your teeth today so that you’ll have teeth to brush and floss tomorrow.
Drink MORE Water.
Try to cut down on BSF foods.
Life is too long to fret about everything.

And NOW… here’s my new mantra:

BACK UP YOUR FILES TODAY
Really.
If you don’t know how…
Don’t remain ignorant… find someone to teach you how.
You may live to regret NOT doing it.


October 16-17, 2003  
Now HERE’s something f-u-n-n-y considering the negative report CBS on Homeschooling.  This spoof is as ridiculous as the CBS piece.  Don’t you wish you could invite the CBS crew in for a week and show them how a homeschooling family works?!?!   In addition to seeing how much teamwork goes into each day… they’d be treated respectfully, treated to beautiful music, great stories, tasty food, lots of story books, trips to the library, taste-testing new creations in the kitchen, prayer time and Bible study and lots and lots of questions and more stories… and maybe a little too much socializing.  It’s too bad they won’t be coming tomorrow… it’ll be another full day here in the life of a teaching home.  It’s sad what’s happened to some people—but to label it: the sinister side of Homeschooling… hundreds of prisons are packed with inmates who’ve committed heinous crimes, do we call this the sinister side of government education?  Will there be a sequel to the “Dark Side of Homeschooling” presentation?  Public Schooling Nightmares: A report, how children nationwide have been put in danger, even killed, while public schooling.  O, but then… by other names & descriptions, these reports fill newspapers every week, don’t they.

We receive a bi-monthly newsletter called Pen & Sword, published by the Amy Foundation. This, from the Amy Foundation site: “The Amy Foundation, founded in 1976 by W. James Russell and his wife Phyllis, was named after their daughter. The Foundation is best known for its Amy Writing Awards, which is a call to present biblical truth reinforced with scripture in secular, non-religious publications. First prize is $10,000 with a total of $34,000 given annually. It is acclaimed as the most popular journalism contest in the nation.” 

We so appreciate the timely and well written articles.   In fact, our children recently recalled that Daddy was reading one of the newsletter feature articles the night before our Ami was born.  At that time, there was no preparation for a girls-name, nor did the “amy” newsletter prompt her naming, it was simply a sweet coincidence.  [She’s named for a precious saint of the LORD, a woman named Amelia who’s been a spiritual mentor in our lives.]  You can take a look at theAmy Foundation Home Pageand read past article contributions.

Looking for good eats????  I forget to suggest great cooking websites that we’ve really enjoyed—so here’s one for you today! This site has terrific recipes and a great search tool, plus you can set up a personal recipe box.  Try Epicurious today!!  Then, you might want to go to Our Favourite Cooking Websites page.  It’s loaded with links for you.

 


 

NEWS  Terri Schindler-Schiavo’s feeding tube has been removed. “The tube removal came just hours after Gov. Jeb Bush told Bob Schindler and his wife, Mary, that he was instructing his legal staff to find some means to block the court order allowing Michael Schiavo to end his wife’s life. “I am not a doctor, I am not a lawyer. But I know that if a person can be able to sustain life without life support, that should be tried,” the governor said, adding the “ultimate decision of this is in the courts.” The father of the woman said the family was heartened by the governor’s last-minute effort. “The family has not given up hope on Terri,” Bob Schindler Jr. said following the meeting with Bush.” [FoxNews]

 

October 15, 2003  I’m reading  The Family Meal Table and Hospitality by Nancy Campbell.  What a valuable manual it is!  It’s a blessing to me because I’ve allowed busy-ness to creep in and steal time and ‘tradition’ away from the gathering at the table for meals.  O, how much is lost when, as the family goes many directions, the mealtime is reduced to merely refueling.   So… I’ve just begun reading the book and will be quoting some of the rich truths and suggestions for the family meal table.

In our ‘welcome page’ I have listed a request to pray for our friend Diana.  What a blessing it was to me to recently be able to see her and the miraculous way the LORD is using this illness to His glory.  She’s absolutely radiant—another testimony of the grace of God!  I’d still request prayer on her behalf as the road ahead is quite difficult and she daily faces challenges associated with her illness.  What a precious and courageous sister in the LORD she is!

Do you have GRAMMAR questions? Need to know proper sentence structure or any other answer pertaining to grammar?  This site’s for you!!

Don’t forget the case of Terri Schindler-Schiavo.  It’s such a sad situation that could’ve been improved in so many ways!   Worldnet Daily is also reporting the story.

And it goes on…  HOMESCHOOLERS: SEND CBS NEWS BACK TO THE BOOKS! Click on the “Hot News” on the right side-bar.

October 14, 2003   Oh, the media has a heyday with it’s twisting of stories and scandalous news, doesn’t it!  CBS aired a two-part program on “the dark side of homeschooling” last night, concluding tonight.  One thing I try to remember in all of this is to not get all hyped up or ruffled… that media thrive on sensational stories to get ratings and ratings—not complete stories or truth—are paramount in that industry. We don’t hear all the evils linked to government education, just as we’re not being told the truth on what really goes on in the schools today and the brainwashing of the humanist agenda.  Home educators, take heart… press on, study hard, learn all you can, serve all you can, be obedient to the Word (Deuteronomy 6) and teach well!  All this threatening news has temporarily cast a dark shadow on homeschooling… but we know the truth.  The enemy of our souls is at enmity with God and will never relent—but he is a defeated —defeated— foe.  On the other side of the coin, there’s a very interesting, great article regarding homeschoolers in World magazine.   This is HSLDA’s alert for today:

 

October 14, 2003

Dear HSLDA Members and friends:

CBS National News ran a negative homeschooling report last night titled “The Dark Side of Homeschooling” and will run a further report this evening. The reports focus on a handful of child abuse cases during the past 5 to 10 years involving families claiming to be homeschoolers.

Last night’s segment discussed the murder of Kyle, 13, and Marnie Warren, 19, by their brother Brandon, 14, and his subsequent suicide. The Warren family is from Johnston County North Carolina.

To view the CBS story go to:  http://www.hslda.org/elink.asp?ID=1139

Missing from the CBS story was that: Social Services had contacted the family eleven times, were well aware of the condition of the home and had been working with the family.

However, to any fair-minded reader the story leaves the impression that homeschooling equals child abuse.

We are outraged that CBS would ignore the obvious facts and draw the erroneous conclusion that homeschoolers need to be strictly regulated. The story is a shameless attempt to smear an entire community of committed, dedicated parents.

The real story is CBS’s bias against homeschooling and it is using this distorted story to encourage the regulation of homeschoolers.

Please call Viacom (parent company of CBS) and CBS to express your opposition to the biased reporting and smear campaign against homeschooling. Highlight the fact that homeschooling was not the cause of the childrens’ deaths and that you expect CBS to have higher journalistic standards.

Viacom President and CEO – Mel Karmazin
P – 212-258-6000

CBS Evening News – LA Bureau
P – (323) 575-2202

Sincerely,
J. Michael Smith
HSLDA President

 

October 13, 2003   Home from retreat… what a blessed time it was!  What inspiration, what affirmation for what we know and what the LORD has taught us through His Word.  It’s a blessing to be able to spend time under the teaching of a woman who’s walked with God—trusted in God and has a testimony of a pattern of good works.  I’d like to spend some time reflecting and then write a bit about it.  My initial thought is that I am so grateful to God that He didn’t allow my early [and erroneous] assessment of Nancy Campbell to remain but allowed me to see and hear the message behind the messenger.  O, we can be so critical sometimes—so quick to judge, so quick to misinterpret actions, words, inflections, manner or appearance of an individual and perhaps totally miss the great blessing God intended us to receive.  Oh, am I glad to have not missed the blessing of the Above Rubies retreat and all the marvelous affirmations of God’s Word—His precious and marvelous plan for wives and mothers… the utmost—really— was that I was able to share it all with my daughter; it was wonderful.  What a great and awe-inspiring God we serve and how gracious He is to provide these opportunities for us. 

Oh, the great blessing of faith… the strength of faith.  I loved reading this story in the local paper… an inspiration to me… a church member who, early in her life, endured great dishonor: judged by the colour of her skin—not the content of her character— and yet she pressed on, she kept the faith—her church was a refuge.

Now, while I was away, I had a letter in the email from a reader who was wondering the fate of the case of Terri Schindler-Schiavo—it’s a discouraging conclusion.  Worldnet Daily also reported on the story.  Now, why does this matter, or why should we care?  You see this is just as dreadful as abortion and yet another act of mocking God by the enemy–the sanctity of human life is at stake. Already, millions of babies are killed at the request of mothers to  whom these babies are inconvenient, unplanned, unwanted.  Now this decision to allow the starvation of Terri Schindler-Schiavo is yet another turn in the slide of degradation of life… who’s next? The elderly?  The disabled?  The no-longer-useful?  The inconvenient?  Who chooses life?  Is it ours to decide?  Is it any wonder that there is judgment on America—or other nations who forget God. 

October 9-12, 2003   Retreating to Olympia… no time for bloggin’ so we’re off to listen and learn what the LORD has for us!    I’ll blog details when we return!!  Blessings! —ps

But first, one more thing…… this story —-the case of Terri Schindler-Schiavo is unbelievable.  Even so, we cry, Come, LORD Jesus.

October 8, 2003   Only a couple of days till the Olympia, Washington Above Rubies retreat!  There may still be some room… so if you want/need to attend, make plans right away—today!  Click on Above Rubies and go to the  “American Retreats & Seminars” link on the menu bar. From there, look at the info for the Olympia retreat set for this weekend!

Well, so, Cal-eeee-fornia has a new governor—amazing.  His speech was gracious, and history will declare his genuine sincerity in his determination to make Cal-eee-fornia “again the greatest state of the greatest country in the world.  Thank you very much. Thank you. And God bless all of you. Thank you.”  What’ll his stand be on God’s place and role in our nation.

The rally for preservation of the “Ten Commandments” continues; The ‘Spirit of Montgomery‘ caravan stopped at U.S. Supreme Court on Monday!

It’s getting wet & chilly here!  And chilly means it gets dark earlier and that means the family is gathered inside earlier and that means we have more ‘sit-down’ meals t-o-g-e-t-h-e-r!  So when it comes to autumn, my mind turns to autumn recipes like soups and stews.  I decided on a few meals this week that I’ve not prepared in a while… meatball stew, baked chicken & rice and lasagňa!  Need some ideas or fall recipes?  Here you go!

Some more on: The Open Church—I received an encouraging letter by email this morning and a caution regarding open church  getting ‘out of control’ (which I heartily agree could be/become a real problem but can be firmly addressed in the formation of the “open church” plan of the worship service—much like families have ‘boundaries’ or behavioral guidelines/suggestions for how different functions/events are handled—and the Bible is pretty clear on these).   Anyway, I thought it important to reflect on an aspect of the “open church” that may be misunderstood and that is the dissolving or doing away with a traditional Sunday worship service—and that’s *not* what’s desired or intended here (or in the book, The Open Church) at all.  What *is* desired is a plurality of messengers of the Word, a plurality of bringing fresh bread to the congregation.  What’s desired here is the liberation of pastors from the position they hold of being the only vessel in the bunch to share the Word *AND* running the church show, so to speak.  Most pastors are so involved with the day to day working of the ‘church’ that they don’t have genuine time in quiet study, prayer and meditation on the Word and so they succumb to following whatever trend they can follow in order to prosper the way driven churches are [seemingly!] prospering—but if lives are to truly be changed, set apart for the Master’s use, then a more biblical model of ‘church’ must be sought—for the worship of God, for the equipping of the body and edification of the saints—saints, being those who are chosen in Him from the foundation of the world.  Very little true equipping and truly very little edification’s going on in the ‘church today.

October 7, 2003   Stuff in the old and new News…  What’s to become of the Episcopal church in America?  The Headline: Conservatives Rally as Episcopal Church Faces Possible Split   Another one; a bit older:   Marriage: the union between one man and one woman  A CNN poll  It’s dated 07/03   An article quoting Bush… on Marriage

So, lots of contemplating “Open Church” and what it would be like in our local assembly.  It’s continually a grievous situation to me here and I suppose all over America—perhaps the world as the Sunday ride is taken by millions.  I imagine that church parking lots all over are as local “Park ‘n Ride’s” where each car pulls in, locates their usual parking space, nods at the others in theirs, goes in to the local church sanctuary [read: bus] and takes the weekly ride on the church bus.  O, for many it’s a thrill—what’ll it be this week? entertainment? new songs? slides? a tear jerker? a memorable day? O, for many it may be a combination of all these every week.  But for many, there’ll also be another common phenomena: one of the loneliest places in the world is a seat in the sanctuary of a church full of people.  Everyone on the bus knows they’re there to observe the ride: the Sunday Show, they know in their heart they’ve got fresh Bread: things they’re aching to contribute, prayer requests or answers(!) they’re aching to share—but they won’t, they don’t, they never will—it’s the Sunday show, you know.  So… dutifully, as if scripted to do so, the seats are taken, the ride is endured and afterward the proper exit, kind words spoken, and parting gestures are made before returning to the lot of the Park ‘n Ride with obligatory or customary waves and nods to the oh-so-familiar(?) faces before the departure and weekly journey homeward. Alone.    An interesting page from Open Church ministries: Start Now!


On our son’s birthday… I love it when our sons come home and the kitchen if filled with family again!

October 6, 2003   Another Monday, a new week… a new week with endless possibilities but clouded with memories of days gone by, memories of faces and tears, grief and sorrow over what was and what could have been. If someone you know has been visited with tragedy or sorrow, why not write them a note today; let them know that the God of all comfort, the God of all strength, the God of Peace and Hope will carry them, will guide them through the valley and that there is peace, there is joy, there is hope in Jesus.

Nancy Campbell has been an inspiration to me and so I very much look forward to taking our oldest daughter to a retreat this coming weekend, where Nancy will be the main speaker and two of her daughters will contribute as well.  I’m always refreshed when spending time with like-minded women, women who’re seeking the LORD in their lives, desiring to know, understand and obey Him and live in accordance with His Word.  In this world there is such contradiction, such disobedience to the Word—to Christ; that when one would stand against the tide and proclaim His faithfulness, there is great anticipation and joy and great value—this isn’t a time to “get away” to hang out with girlfriends to avoid responsibility—rather, quite the opposite: it’s a time of anticipation of what the LORD will do and how He will direct through prayer, through the messages, through His Word and through conversations with sisters in Christ.  This retreat is well attended and is likely full already… It will be held at the Black Lake Conference Center in Olympia. For information contact: Robin LeClair, robinleclair@juno.com and for further information, see the Above Rubies site.

I receive Nancy’s devotional newsletter… and maybe you or someone you know would be blessed by the encouragement of an older woman in the LORD and would like to receive her newsletters by email.  If you know others who would be blessed by these devotions, you are welcome to forward them or let them know they can subscribe by sending a blank email to subscribers-on@aboverubies.org   If your husband would like to receive the Bi-weekly Message to Men, (written Colin Campbell) they can send a blank email to menslist-on@aboverubies.org  Colin is currently writing a series called, WHERE ARE THE REAL MEN OF GOD? All men will be blessed and challenged by receiving this series.

It’s time to think about the planting of the winter garden… it’s not too early to think about SPRING!!  Dutch Gardens has some beautiful tulips and many other flowers… so beautiful!  Costco has a wonderful selection of bulbs for the spring garden and the prices are really incredible.  I bought my husband different types for his birthday and in a few weeks I’ll plant them—but first I’ll remove all the geraniums in the ring around our front light.  I’m going to try a few new (to me) techniques for preserving and propagating the plants through the winter.


For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men, Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world; Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ; Who gave Himself for us, that He might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto Himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works. Titus 2.11-14

October 4, 2003
     “Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.” Hebrews 3.12

 October 3, 2003   Today our thoughts and prayers are for family friends who’re grieving the death of their son… a tragic loss… a seemingly senseless loss—but nothing is senseless with the LORD, and so we ask: LORD, what is the lesson here?  What are we to make of this?  This was a very very expensive lesson…

Over the years we’ve collected and read books and materials for the encouragement and strengthening of marriage and family.  Many things we’ve collected are scattered throughout our site for the purpose of edification and instruction.   It was great to discover another neat site: Christian Marriage & Family Ministry.  A great marriage takes work and it’s worth it—it’s worth it for today and it’s worth it because of the legacy left to the children and to society… it’s never a 50-50 deal; it’s always 100%-100% on both sides… I wrote an article a number of years ago —a message that I continue to wish to convey to our children as well as to others.  It all began with a thought that one day all our children will have is memories… one day they’ll be married with lives and homes of their own… what am I going to leave them?  What are the heirlooms we’ll leave our children?  We don’t have a lot in terms of valuable “material” things to leave them—but what we DO have is faith… hope… and love… and we’re working on a someday an heirloom marriage… a legacy of faithful love for the LORD and each other.

October 2, 2003    I’ve recently lost weight and am continuing to maintain and lose slowly by continuing to eliminate (as much as possible) BSF foods.  One of the hardest things, though, is to find alternatives to our “normal foods.”  I just made a special low carb page and I’ll try to fill it with good alternatives.  Probably the best or easiest thing to do though is to get some Atkins books or some Zone books as they are filled with recipes, the philosophy behind low-carbing and suggestions for alternatives and substitutions for foods you like.  I don’t know what’s best for everyone… I just know this has worked very well for me.  O, and another thing I know… my mom’s advice would simply be  Drink water—low carb your diet… eat less, move more and drink more water 😉 
For one of my meals each day, or when I don’t know what to eat for a meal or when low carb isn’t available to me, I just have a cup of tea or coffee and an Atkins bar or Zone bar—this limits my time in the kitchen, limits my portion and solves out-of-control eating and satisfies my chocolate & chewing craving!


a good-bye for now to the one leaving for the mission field next week

October 1, 2003   The first day of the month… fresh and new stretched out before us…

I’m partial to Susan Branch stuff—Cookbooks, Keepsake books, Calendars… stuff!  I just received an email update about her site… I think you’ll like it!   Her work reminds me of Karla Dornacher  whose work I so admire—probably much more because it’s inspirational!

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September 2003

Go ahead and get a cup of coffee or tea and enjoy today’s blog!
September 2003 

September 30, 2003  We’ve come to the close of another month.  I continue to mull over senseless tragedies.  And then I question—who am I to say a tragedy was senseless?  Do I know the mind of God and do I possess understanding of His ways?  He Who creates and sustains all life, Who hides the wind and knows every star by name, Who created the fountains of the deep and sits above the circle of the earth, Who is behind and before and is acquainted with all our ways and knows the number of our days before as yet there was one of them?  Senseless tragedies?  I suppose not—not in God’s economy.  So, what of tragedy?  What would be God’s way in tragedy?  To know Him? To seek His Face? To walk in His ways? To listen to His voice?  Yes—all these and more because His ways are higher than our ways, His thoughts than our thoughts.  Trusting that there *is* a plan and purpose for everything under heaven. 


This, I do know… there’s never a second chance to do the right thing first.

September 29, 2003   Today is our second son’s birthday.  Today he’s just a year older than the young man who, as a result of a car accident, died  early this morning.  As children, they played together;  and so my mind floods with memories today of days gone by… memories… sometimes flooding our soul with joy,  sometimes with sorrow.  We sat with the family last night as tears and life stories were flowing.   Many had come to offer support and encouragement, and console the family.  As the hours passed and the time of his passing drew near there came a sense of peace that the will of the LORD was being done.  As in most situations like this in life, rumors, stories and misinformation are circulating rapidly.  None of those things matter now, for today is a new day for that family.  A new day without that son.  A new day, for eternity, for that son!  We stayed behind in the waiting area while  my husband remained with Nolan; and after what seemed like an eternity, he returned and shared that as Nolan passed from this life, there was no struggle—no pain; for this the parents were thankful——we were grateful for the grace of God who mercifully took this young man home with no further suffering.  Such a tragedy…

No more bloggin today—nothing left to say.  All God’s ways are good.

September 28, 2003  My heart is heavy this morning as I think of the barely recognizable young man in critical condition following an auto accident.  We happened to see him the afternoon prior to his accident… healthy and strong.  And so… as my husband and I stood beside him last night, we prayed for him that the LORD would spare and restore him, that he would be brought to health and that the LORD would be glorified in this tragedy.  I called our sons as they were childhood friends with this young man—O, I asked them to please drive carefully and responsibly.  I so wish that all who think they’re invincible, all who enjoy the folly of joy-riding—could see the consequences of folly.  I know this young man would say the same thing.  So… we pray and watch and wait on the LORD on behalf of this young man and his dear mother—his dad and family.

  Join with other believers today, be a blessing wherever you go;  Remember those who are afflicted, those whose burden is heavy, those who are alone, those who suffer difficulty, those with wayward children, those with heartache, those who need to hear and receive the Good News of the Gospel: the LORD Jesus Christ.  May the LORD bless you today with His presence—His peace—His everlasting love.


1  Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands
2 Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing.
3 Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.
4 Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name.  (Psalm 100.1-4)

September 27, 2003  We’re reading an interesting book: The Open Church.  It’s a great book—straight talk.  Now I don’t mean that I have the abilities, qualifications, etc., etc. but I could’ve written that book—I mean what I read on that site and in the book are echoings of my sentiments—exactly.  Well… maybe not exactly, but as near a duplication as I can imagine.  For what it’s worth, it seems as though there are many and I dare say there’d be more who’d echo in response to the question/discontentedness with the local church.  I think it’s something we all feel… We all know and we’d all say if unconstrained by conscience and tradition: there’s got to be a better way.  There *is* a better way.  To me… and I’ve thought this a loooong time: what we call church is that period of time once a week where we all go to the Park ‘n Ride, get on the bus, go for the church ride which can be anticipated to last for 80 minutes tops and then when the bus winds around to the end of the ride we all get off the church bus and go home in our cars… still facing forward and aching for more.  There *is* a better way.  And it doesn’t mean *leave* the “church” and stay home.  There *is* a better way. Go ahead… take a look, order the book… pray and wait on the LORD.  We’re trusting *Him* to show the better way… there’re lots of people looking for it—and more who need to see.

Oh what tragedy comes of folly.  I just received an email concerning an old friend whose son was badly injured in an auto accident and is now in critical condition in Harbourview Medical Center.  I don’t know if there’s another place I’d rather be taken than Harbourview were I to be in critical condition with head and/or multiple injuries or with a very serious medical condition—but truly, I’d rather be left totally alone than be take there if I had any other problems.  The docs they’ve assembled are remarkable!

O the grief this mother must feel as she waits and prays.  This young man is quite intelligent—but nothing matters now… his relationship with the LORD is all that matters.  I exhort anyone to be sure, be very sure your anchor holds and grips the solid rock.  Jesus is that rock.  The only name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.  None of us knows the day or the hour the LORD will call us home—–our eternal home will be with Him or will be in outer darkness ever separated from Him.   Proverbs 14.9  “Fools make a mock at sin: but among the righteous there is favour.”    The Bible also says in Matthew 25.13 “Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.”

We never know when a joy ride may take our life or whether we’ll live to be a hundred and slip away in our sleep.  Watch therefore. Revelation 3.3 “Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee.”  —all KJV

… and floss your teeth and drink water in the meantime.

September 26, 2003 

more interesting stuff…

Judges steeped in a liberal ideology and heady with power they have arrogated  to themselves are responding — with decisions bordering on judicial tyranny.  So writes Judge Robert Bork, a senior fellow at the American Enterprise Institute for Public Policy Research, in his latest book “Coercing Virtue: The Worldwide Rule of Judges.”

Focus has set up a page spotlighting Judicial Tyranny  featuring latest news and decisions that are affecting families, marriages and will affect & harm future generations.  Why the term Judicial Tyranny?    “Because activist courts are using powers they don’t have, powers not granted them in the Constitution, to overturn the will of the people and the legislatures of the states. The concept of judicial supremacy, that judges have the final say on the meaning of the law and the Constitution, is nowhere to be found in the thoughts of the Founders or the text of their founding documents.” [Focus site]

Dr. Dobson is urging Christians to contact O’Reilly and thank him for telling the truth about the threat judicial tyranny poses to America and the American family. As host of the most popular prime time talk show on cable, O’Reilly’s voice is an important one on this important issue.

You can contact O’Reilly by e-mail at Oreilly@foxnews.com or by calling the Fox News Channel at 212-301-3000

September 25, 2003  I’m considering attending an Above Rubies retreat in a couple of weeks.  Though my husband is encouraging us to go, I’m still not fully certain—but I’d like to grab any opportunity to spend time with our oldest daughter and this is surely a marvelous opportunity.  She’s more than a blessing to me and I’d like to encourage her in her walk with the LORD as she moves into adulthood, I’d like to affirm her, to strengthen her foundation and to let her see and understand that I’m walking beside her… knowing the time is short and perhaps one day she’ll be in my same place: seeking more and more how to be a godly wife whose price is far above rubies.  We’ve concentrated on this for her all the days of her life and have prayed the LORD’s hand would be with her, strengthening and guiding her.

  Though I’ve had friends reject the writings of this author, I still think the things I’ve learned about men from reading books by John Eldredge have been extremely helpful.  His book, Wild at Heart, has been used of the LORD to teach me a little more about my ‘boys who would be men’ and about my role in their lives and in my husband’s life.  Over the years I’ve observed ways of boys and because of this, things don’t surprise me like they used to… things don’t discourage me in the same way and things aren’t as hard for me as they used to be in raising boys.  I guess our trainer set really was the greatest blessing.  They know that’s an endearing term I have for them and they also know I adore them—but truly, still, they’re a trainer set and I’m still, in many ways a trainee mother.

  I recently wrote about cleaning out & closing my husband’s parents’ home/property.  Both our fathers died within a few months of each other ’99/2000. Now, my dad’s things were easy: my step brother rented a large moving truck and loaded it up and drove it away.  Weird.  But, Wes’s dad’s situation was as different as their homes/locations were!  Mine lived in a retirement community with no superfluous anything and my father-in-law had property–a ranch and a l-a-r-g-e shop & barn!  Ohmy, what a job this was… decades of accumulation.  Now, my mother in law has already moved out of state and is NOT a saver—by this, I mean that she keeps what’s important, what she’ll really need and what she’ll really and truly use.  She’s careful about everything and doesn’t fret over what she’ll have or not have.  I appreciate this about her.  Anyway… this process has really been impressing me to clean… order… not horde… not accumulate unnecessary things… not over indulge… etc., etc.  It’s also been teaching me the invaluable lesson that time is short, we don’t know the day of our death or His coming and so we must be ready.  Occupy till He comes, but be ready.  I’m thinking more and more… I want to Live like I have forever and love like I only have today.  I’m also thinking with dread that our children will one day be doing the same things we’ve been doing and so I’m also thinking: do I want to be a burden or a blessing when it’s all said and done.

In going through Dad’s things, [he was a missionary & pastor ] we came across hundreds of files, thousands of papers, pictures, books, etc. and in all of the files there were a number of ‘keepers’ that we set aside to give to different people.  I was happy to have the blessing of internet to locate some of his former classmates & fellow missionaries and I’ll be sending them some pictures of their younger days.  It was interesting to see what they’re up to now; though retired, they continue to work with aids victims, widows and orphans in Africa using among other things, their medical skills.

Interesting article by Dr. Falwell regarding the attack against actor/director Mel Gibson and the upcoming movie: The Passion.  This isn’t necessarily an all out endorsement of the Falwell site/activities, by the way, as I’m not a fan of purpose driven anything especially when it’s becoming purpose driven everything, purpose driven everywhere.

Family Research Council is a great resource filled with information, updates, etc., regarding the press, legislation, and current events impacting our society, and more importantly, the family.

Interesting:  State by state laws pertaining to legal marriage.  While the “institution of marriage” faces attack, it’s clear that the majority of Americans still hold to its traditional definition as the union of one man and one woman.  Marriage Protection Week: Oct 12 – 18, 2003!

September 24, 2003

Children’s children are the crown of old men;
and the glory of children are their fathers.
Proverbs 17.6

 

singing ‘happy birthday’
with pop, mama  & our son Daniel

 our son michael & lindsay

             my mom & me…

 kathryn, mama, abigail

 


wes and most of our children…

September 23, 2003  Today would have been my fathers’ birthday and I’m grateful to the LORD today for the blessing he was in my life.  I’m thankful for what I learned from him and the joy memories of him bring. I’ve written about him directly or indirectly a number of times in welcome home messages.  Stories about him are ‘legendary’ and tall—just like he was.  Anniversaries of  difficult or poignant times are often melancholy days for me…  I often say about this and other such times:  it’s so over when it’s over.

No time for blogging yesterday—my dear husband’s birthday.  His favourite part of the day was having all the family here… he loves it when our older sons come back home, when my parents come over, when the grandchildren come over.  He loves having a large group in for celebrating—it doesn’t matter to him that it meant he’s a year older!!   He’s taking ‘aging’ very well—much better than I am.  I’m concerning myself with changes and limitations and he’s sort of taking it all in stride.  He’s always been this way, taking what comes: with joy and anticipation.  I, on the other hand, tend to look back too much, to scrutinize and analyze everything past and present.  This makes for regrets sometimes and in his mind, there’re too many bridges to cross to focus on those passed over already.  We’re pretty content with the combination of thought—as we talk about these things–these complementing differences a lot over the years.

We’re trying to complete projects around our home this week.  Here in the Pacific Northwest, there are only a few weeks of ‘summer’ weather left and then the days will be very short and chilly!  My husband and sons are doing the painting and repairing and I need to focus on the preserving of plants, fruits and vegetables.  I’ve bee taking a look at sites for information on preserving flowering plants, particularly fuchsias and geraniums  in the Pacific Northwest. There are lots of helps regarding over-wintering plants.  I have lots of geraniums so I’ll be trying a few methods of preservation

 
Wes… happy birthday… september 22nd

September 21, 2003 A break from normal blogging to simply encourage everyone to be in prayer… be in worship of the Saviour… be settled in such a way as to allow the Holy Spirit to have His will and way in your life.  O, the busyness of living day by day… the enemy’s great tool: busyness in the life of a Christian.  So busy there’s no time to walk… so busy there’s no time to listen… so busy there’s no time to be quiet.   Psalms 46.10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.”  Be still.  Be still and KNOW.

September 20, 2003  Risky to take a stand on the Target/Marshall Field’s deal [a fragrance and clothing line aimed at teens] —but money talks and talk talks and when there’s negative feedback or negative number$ as far as $hoppers and dollar$ go, then there’ll be re$ult$.  The marketers are now counting on this negative feedback frenzy to *promote* the products among the teens.  It’s easy to see they counted on teens’ desire for shock value (and that stupidity of wanting to be “different” just like millions of clones), but now are exploiting them further by enticing them through further rebellion.  It’s astounding to me how backward and upside down our society is [getting] —the proliferation of vulgarity in media: movies, videos, music, newspapers, ads, etc., etc.  And then (!) the seeming surprise over how it’s affecting everything… abandoned children, diseases, divorce, rape and other crime, drugs & alcohol, family dysfunctions, etc.  I shake my head and wonder—this society, its glorification of media & movie stars and the utter shameful filth that’s produced… it’s incredibly ludicrous.  I’m thinking that the only thing Sodom and Gomorrah didn’t have was the Internet to flush sewage into homes faster, to spread it thicker and to make it ‘normal’ to emulate what’s seen and heard.  The lewdness is becoming ‘normal’ but ‘normal’ isn’t God’s paradigm, is it?  His ‘paradigm’ is righteousness—without which, NO ONE will see the LORD.

I think on this like I think on conversations with parents who are unwilling to discipline themselves to discipline disobedient little children and the little children become nearly intolerable to be around.  Just like parents must take a stand and draw a line of acceptable behavior and model propriety, so also, as consumers, we must take a stand and when sewage is offered to our young people we MUST take a stand to say it’s wrong—send letters, make phone calls, remove our dollars and encourage others to do the same.  My mom used to say that vulgarity was a sure sign of ignorance—that people who use foul or vulgar language do so out of ignorance and lack of education.  I’m thinking that that’s the case here with this line of perfume and clothing… a blatant mocking and dishonorable display of ignorance and surely a lack of wisdom and understanding.  But then… the Word says that the fool mocks God and mocks sin.

Are you willing to do for the Truth what the enemy is doing for a Lie?

September 19, 2003  An advertisement insert in a Sunday’s newspaper for Marshall Field’s dept. store for a cologne and a clothing line aimed at teenagers called “Fcuk” and their advertising slogan to go with it is “scent to bed”.  In the age of promiscuity, *deadly* sexually transmitted diseases, in addition to the gross immorality promoted in public schools across America and around the world… this is just another of the vulgarities we’re seeing in the market place.  My complaint and concern is that the TARGET is young people—impressionable young minds and bodies and the target is Target… where FAMILIES shop—well, not THIS family.

BOYCOTT    TARGET / MARSHALL FIELD’S
write letters, make calls, save your dollars
this is not a myth
Call Target’s toll-free number and curteously let them know their decision to sell
FCUK
products through their Marshall Field’s stores is WRONG.
Their toll free number is 1-800-440-0680, extension 1.
You’ll be discouraged from leaving a message, stating that you’re calling “Target” —please leave a message anyway. More on this:

http://www.onemillionmoms.com/
or scroll down this blog http://god-blog.blogspot.com/
More on this another time.

September 18, 2003   Here’s a neat site to create custom crossword puzzles at home! I am looking for interesting ways to incorporate facts and spelling into each days’ schoolwork.

If you’re trying to lose weight… say NO to white food.  You can lose weight and lose it without all sorts of counting, weighing, measuring, etc.  Just try to eliminate B-S-F foods [butter-sugar-flour foods] or white foods for a week.  At the end of the week, see where you’re at on the scale and then if you need to press on… pray for strength and endurance to do this another week and so on until you’ve either got those foods under control or you’ve lost the weight you desire to lose.  I’ve been doing this and am so grateful to have lost weight and feel that if *I* can do this, ANYone can do this—really.  You can press on and you CAN lose weight.  Once I admitted I had an eating problem and not a weight problem, I addressed the eating problem by targeting the foods that pack on pounds… that’s where I came up with B-S-F foods.  Easy to remember and simple to eliminate.  Notice I didn’t say *easy* to eliminate!  This has not necessarily been *e-a-s-y* but it’s been simple.  Some days when I’ve tasted white foods, I’ve *decided* to taste them and then have *decided* to quit tasting—I say to myself… I’ve had lots of cookies, I’ve had lots of bread… lots of rolls… lots of crackers… lots of whatever… THAT’s why I need to say *no* to those things as much as possible.  So, I decide to remember what my plan is and why I have it: and stay the course.  No one can do this for me—I must do this and any day I don’t equals several days lost.  It’s ever so much easier to keep peddling on an incline with momentum built up and ever so much harder to press forward without it.

September 16, 2003   My sister-in-law’s birthday today!  This morning our daughter began teaching piano.  It’s been a goal of hers to do this one day and the day has come.  Her piano teacher has blessed us all  with this gift: teaching her to play beautiful music and now to pass the gift along to others.  My prayer has been that she will be used of the LORD to bless others and all along the way He’s been answering that prayer.  She loved her first day with her students!

I’m writing a Welcome Home message concerning the ways and days of daughters which has been inspired by the LORD and this daughter.  Sometimes I think our roles have been reversed for many years as for a number of years she has been my teacher, she has been my inspiration and my joy.  Many times when I’ve been discouraged or have failed to stay the course, she’s been used of the LORD to encourage me to press on in obedience to continue to run the race with patience.  I owe much to this daughter.

We’re continuing to plow through the mountain of laundry created by our recent camping trip.  Omy, am I ever thankful for our washer & drier.  I’m grateful for our running water and walls and floors.  I’m amazed at how we take all of these things for granted…

My mother in law just wrote concerning a book I’d given her: Karla Dornacher’s book:
Savor This Moment  and she shared that she’d been so blessed by the reminders and perspective of what’s most important in her life.  O, we all need these reminders.  Mothers do, Dads do, daughters and sons do—we all tend to get caught up in the web of the trivial or the busyness or the daily-ness of living that we forget what and who’s most significant or crucial to attend to and/or to meditate on those things the LORD’s revealed to us in His Word.

Many Karla Dornacher blessings at CBD!!! Lots of great prices for you… on her things and everyone else’s!!

September 15, 2003  Home from camping!  A fun time and happy memories for everyone!  I did think about home… our big tub, our bed, our table, our hot water, etc., etc.  BUT!  What we don’t have at home we had there… lots of uninterrupted time to talk with friends and to sing by the fire… to sit by the lake and see the stars… to drink lots of coffee and hear friends’ stories.  So… it’s a good thing we went away for a few days.  Our children were blessed and they were a blessing to me: helpful, kind and an inspiration to have fun and enjoy the time!  (I sure appreciated our own bed last night as our air mattress was just a flat piece of vinyl as soon as we lay down the first night—never did find the hole.)  But the flannel sheets and down comforter made for warm sleep—and we were assured of our FIRM foundation!!!   More tomorrow!

the camping gang… minus many friends!
September 10, 2003 We’re talking about Biblical eldership quite a bit around our home and interestingly, my husband received an email tonight with a quote from the book Biblical Eldership and I was prompted to take a look at an article I’d seen recently regarding the topic of eldership.  I like Piper—being a Calvinist there’s much wisdom I agree with in his writings.

Hey… are you a pessimist? Know someone who is?  Don’t despair… there’s help for you, but the site is not for the thin-skinned… and by the way… sourcing this site isn’t an endorsement of the whole site’s contents.

September 9, 2003   A couple of weeks ago I received my shoes from Zappo’s—what great service and fast delivery!  The best part was the savings!  I have a pair of shoes I  really like and what a blessing to have found them *on sale* with *free* shipping! The $30. savings, and the saving of time and ga$ was wonderful.  Maybe there’s a pair of shoes you’ve been looking for—-try Zappo’s!

things I’m thinking of…
 the tub… the faucet… the lamp… the coffee pot… the COMPUTER!!… the, uh, washer…
the phone… and the nice cozy-warm-dry-home… and C-A-M-P-I-N-G.

We’re planning a camping trip… yes, this is sort of a ‘spur-of-the-moment’ deal.  I think I need a camping trip to be spur of the moment so that I don’t give a whole lot of thought to the deal.  See, I don’t really like to go camping—but I love the way the children are so pleased and enthused about the eating, sleeping and playing outdoors—none are favourites with me!  When I was a young girl, sleeping outside in the backyard was the highlight of the week! My mom had cots for us to sleep on and we loved waking up outside in the early mornings… and yes, my memories are complete with the remembrance of the aroma of orange rolls hot from the oven—store bought refrigerator rolls that I never buy today but loved then!  I don’t remember my mom dreading the  laundry sleeping outdoors generated—-I’m trying to keep a joyful attitude about camping because I *know* everyone (including me when I get there) will have a wonderful time!

Here’s that incredible Bible study program… it’s expensive at first glance but when you take a look at what’s offered, it’s staggering to have hundreds of volumes at your fingertips.  It appears to be far better than Online Bible or Power Bible—but the price is prohibitive for many.

  September 8, 2003  We missed the Bush speech last night… read it this morning.  As always, there’s strong opposition to everything he says and does.  People are reacting to the speech, to the war, and are antsy over the passing of another anniversary of the 9-11-01 attack and the potential or possibility of a ‘repeat.  It’ll be an interesting week!

Time to get cracking on the school-work!  The summer days have come and gone for another year.  I’m especially glad this year to get back to a smooth-running routine.  O, that adage is so untrue: “All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy.”
Au contraire!  Too much play and not enough work makes dull minds!  So… here we go… time to sharpen our thinking, re-order our home and our days, learn new things… to make it a great TNT year (trying new things!) and to rejoice as this is the day the L
ORD has made!

Our son wrote an email wondering about the upcoming movie depicting the last hours of the life of the LORD Jesus: The Passion by Mel Gibson.  There’s an “unofficial website” about the movie and there are controversial stories in the news regarding the production of this movie.  It’s just interesting to read up on the world’s take on the most important facet of a Christian’s life.  For if Christ be not crucified, buried and risen, then our faith is in vain—–and to me, it’s accurate portrayal is crucial—though  man could never portray or fully comprehend what happened for humanity for all time on that day. And another man’s take on the making of this film.

  September 7, 2003   What a beautiful wedding and precious time of gathering together to celebrate marriage and the joining of two families.  What a blessing to see what the LORD has done in this family—At one point the photographer gathered the family of the (great-grand) parents and the whole platform was filled!  What a legacy.  Another marriage… another demonstration of the mystery of Christ and the church.  Another reminder to us all of the significance of the sacred vows and what it really means to commit one to another until death parts the union of the two.  O… how lightly this commitment is taken and the vows to treasure and maintain the unity are seemingly not revered by so many.  A good marriage takes sincere commitment and sincere effort.  Without the LORD, they that build the house labour in vain.
September 6, 2003    O, still too busy & tired for bloggin’!  But it’s a good busy-tired!  We have the privilege of doing this wedding reception for friends and Omy, so many things to take care of to make a day special!  We’ve attempted to do many things in advance so that the day is seamless as transitions are made from different areas of the church — between the wedding and the reception.  I pray it goes well… just as I’ve prayed for these families that this time will be a blessing and a treasure.

It’s time to think about schoolwork, music lessons and fall days ahead.  More on all these soon.  My prayer continues to be that many are encouraged, inspired and blessed by the articles, information and links we have here on the site… I know a number of years ago when all these pages were just ideas, I sure had a challenging time finding good and helpful articles for the different things we’re interested in (Christian family living, modesty, parenting, homemaking, etc.) —so, that was the springboard for this site and I pray it’ll continue to take shape and be a blessing to many to the glory of the LORD.

September 4, 2003   Back to bloggin—and yes… it’s a long one today… but it’ll be slim for the next few days… shopping and cooking for a wedding reception we’re doing on Saturday, and then the LORD‘s day, and preparing for a baby shower for the twins on Monday!  Whew!  I think we need another vacation—but we cannot go on vacation until we conquer Mount Laundry! 😉

I like to highlight different online family ventures and pray they do well—that the LORD blesses the work of their hearts and hands and that they’ll continue to provide things needful and useful to and for Christian families.  I think my favourite book has been, The Hope Chest: A Legacy of Love by Rebekah Wilson.  I’m so thankful to have this book, to visit the website and to glean what the LORD would have for us to do as parents of sons and daughters.
Simply Graceful is having a sale and has added some more jumpers in denim.  Also, concerning the Pure in Heart website… beginning October 1st, Pure in Heart will begin selling ready-made items only; they’ll continue to offer the same high-quality sewn jumpers and culottes, only without the wait! 
It’s good to be home & it’s good to get back into routine and back to bloggin’!  You know, one of the neat and yet difficult things about being away so much is the break from the dailies, a break from the normal schedule and time to take a good look at the pictures of our lives—to take a good look at how those pictures are taking shape, but more importantly, to stand back and see the gaps.  We thoroughly enjoyed our time at a Bible Conference in Deer Lake, just north of Spokane. Also, just before the conference, we were able to visit over breakfast with a woman who had been my husband’s Sunday School teacher over 35 years ago.  We ate at a the Old European Restaurant in Spokane that features authentic breakfast foods. Yum  Yes, I *did* taste a bite of Strawberry Crepés, Æbleskivers, Dutch babies, Swedish pancakes.  And NO, even *bites* of these foods are NOT on the Atkins diet(!) and over 5 days on our trip I did gain two pounds which seem impossible to lose these past few days—but I’m not bailing, I’m just facing the small set-back and am trying to stay on track.

  Now… about the Bible conference… We’ve come to very much appreciate the open meetings and to hear from the different men, missionaries and to listen and/or sing with the beautiful music brought by several of the people (many young!) there.  Many of the people who attend the conference have been doing so every year for many many years and yet there’s such a freshness each time.  Also, the majority home fellowship rather than meet weekly in a traditional “church.”  Many of the fellowship groups are quite large and one, in particular, has a three generation family group.  We so appreciate the teaching of the founder of the Shield of Faith, Dick York.  We also appreciated the strong admonition to be in the Word, to be obedient to listen to the Holy Spirit and to *do* the work.  We’re not to be hearers only, but *doers* of the work. We’re so grateful for the good fellowship–especially for our young people.  O, the importance of appropriate friends and the devastating results of wrong friends!

For the trip, my husband had made me a special sitting pad so that I could handle the ride without much pain.  I was uncomfortable but not nearly so much had I not had that pad… he made it out of dense foam with nothing at the back side so that my weight was just on my legs.  My coccyx pain seems (?) to be getting less—but I continue to take pain relievers.  I’ve continued to read about coccyx pain and solutions!

Our son & daughter-in-law celebrated their 5th anniversary!  They’ve surely been blessed in many ways—most especially with the two children the LORD‘s given them.


a fun stop on the way home… nine of our children!

  We had more good news when we returned home… our missionary friends in Papua New Guinea are infanticipating!  A new baby… number 10 in the spring!  Their family is such a blessing to many!  The LORD is gracious! 

August 2003

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To close out the month I wanted to just post some verses about God’s commands, the keeping of those commands and the consequences for not doing so.  One of the things for which I am most grateful is God’s righteousness.  He cannot lie, He cannot sin, He cannot fail.  He is utterly trustworthy, for He is trust.  He is utterly faithful, for He is faith.  He is utterly gracious, for He is grace. He is all glory, all power, all dominion, all mercy, all justice.
He was, He is, He is to come.
May He be with you, upholding you with His righteous right hand.

Deuteronomy 8.11 Beware that thou forget not the LORD thy God, in not keeping his commandments, and his judgments, and his statutes, which I command thee this day:
Deuteronomy 8.19 And it shall be, if thou do at all forget the LORD thy God, and walk after other gods, and serve them, and worship them, I testify against you this day that ye shall surely perish.
Job 8.13 So are the paths of all that forget God; and the hypocrite’s hope shall perish:
Psalms 9.17 The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God.
Psalms 10.12  Arise, O LORD; O God, lift up thine hand: forget not the humble.
Psalms 50.22  Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
Psalms 78.7  That they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments:
Hosea 4.6  My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.
Hebrews 6.10 For God is not unrighteous to forget your work and labour of love, which ye have shewed toward his name, in that ye have ministered to the saints, and do minister.
Hebrews 13.16 But to do good and to communicate forget not: for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.

more bloggin’ in September!

August 27, 2003 
I sure appreciate what’s developed from this blog———you know, one of the main reasons for blogging (to me) is that others are helped or inspired by the things that have helped us or are encouraged by the blessings or things that have been an encouragement to us.  Some sisters have written to share that they look forward to reading because it puts them in touch with someone who’s going through similar things or who’s encouraging them to strive for obedience and godliness as wives, sisters, mothers… and to press on in motherhood, with the diet, or with taking care of the home or walking with the LORD, learning more of Him and His Word—some who don’t have likeminded fellowship and are seeking to find it.  So… there you go… that’s why I blog and that’s why I pray it’s a blessing to you each day.

IN THE NEWS:  The Ten Commandments Monument has been removed.  While I’m sure there are many who are mocking this… many who refuse to acknowledge God see this as a victory, many are grieving the ‘in-your-face’ assault on the real issue regarding the foundation of our country, our dependence on God our Father and Creator, and on the moral estate of our nation.  Alan Keyes shares an angle. I’m saddened that yet another blow has been dealt to the foundation of this country.  It’ll be very interesting to hear what the mockers say and do and what’s next on the docket. 

I received the most encouraging email from a woman who’s written before on another topic, but this time it was regarding yesterday’s blog about coccyx or ‘tailbone’ pain.  It was such a blessing to read her story and to follow some links.  She confirmed that I’d been viewing the best site for help with coccyx pain:  Coccyx.org—it’s what I suggested yesterday.  She gave helpful ideas for dealing with the pain—things I am trying to implement now.

  Its interesting if not sickening sometimes to watch what’s going on in the rest of the US and world.  I read or listen with concern because of the consequences or the importance of legal decisions being made.  And so it is with the state of California—read Col-eee-fornia.   Boy, it’s no wonder many are up in arms over Mr. Davis.  Each time I read of decisions he’s made or bills he’s signed, I’m amazed at the gross ignorance,  immorality and deliberate degradation of moral values.  The agenda of sodomites—yes this is critical—is repulsive.  The laws being passed have far-reaching effects.  Pray for those in authority. Pray for those standing to protect the family as God ordained it to be.  Pray for His will to be done—and His people to be wise, gracious and bold.  Some say as California goes, so goes the nation.

Neat new website set up for info and updates on President George W Bush’s re-election campaign.  It’s filled with photos and transcripts of speeches.

My daughters found such a beautiful site for Wedding dresses.  I’ve told you of the one who loves to draw gowns and dreams of lovely weddings… well, she sure loved seeing all the “Beautifully Modest”  bridal gowns yesterday.  So many times we see bridal and attendant’s gowns that are so immodest that we feel embarrassed for the bride, for the wedding party(!) and for the assembly of guests.  It’s sad that such a sacred event is cheapened by immodest apparel—seems like so many weddings are such a show—ignorant of the rich meaning, the reverence, the solemnity of the vows exchanged.  I recall several weddings where the bride’s gown (or the bridesmaid’s attire) was such a focal point or topic of conversation—and the chatter was whether the dress was going to slip down or not… or how was it held up or such statements became all that was remembered of the event.  I share this here as I shared with my daughters teaching them that their clothing must be carefully chosen and the importance of propriety or modesty.  We all need to exercise a bit of discipline to make certain that our clothing portrays an accurate representation of our LORD, of the great gift of salvation, to not mislead or defraud others by our appearance or behaviour, and to not draw undue or inappropriate attention to our appearance.  The wedding ceremony is surely no exception—in fact, perhaps even more attention should be given to the ceremony of presenting a pure bride to be joined to her husband in holy matrimony. No strong feelings or opinions here, eh?

August 26, 2003 

I fell last week and so am still dealing with coccyx or ‘tailbone’ pain.  I was hoping to find some suggestions for dealing with coccyx pain and ohmy, I sure did find lots of folks suffering with severe pain and lots of suggestions or solutions for the pain.  The site has too many links to look through right now, but I bookmarked it so that I can take a look later.  If you’ve ever dealt with bottom pain, OR are dealing with it now, then you know it’s really quite something!  These last few days I sure don’t want to tell everyone what I’m experiencing or how it happened!  I can’t imagine the sight it must’ve been: I was holding a branch back and somehow another one swung back and hit me in the nose and yes, okay, so it was bloody but I didn’t know it yet as I was falling backwards in the dirt and branches—on my bottom, feet in the air.  I was struck instantly that my backside was sure sore—but then noticed the workers were nearby on the backhoe and all I could think was how to get out of there!  It was then that I realized I had a bloody nose and had to run to get some tissue… but first: I had to get UP!  Ahhhh.  It is funny to me now… but laughing doesn’t make the pain go away! 

Focus on the Family broadcast
The battle for the Ten Commandments Panel

August 25, 2003 

 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart:
and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Matthew 11.28-30

One of the things about weight loss or losing weight over time is that people want to see results or to know how to get results.  Great results.  It’s interesting… we’re all pretty much alike in that when we look at a weight loss program, book or website, we immediately want to see the results!  It’s a “show me da money!” sort of deal.   We want to SEE results, and for most of us, we won’t believe it till we see it and even then, we still might not believe it.  Take “low-carb”  eating or “dieting” for example, you may not think it’s a wise way to go—you may think it’ll never be something you’d agree with—I know this, because this is the way I’ve thought, too!  I’ve thought that low-carbing is NOT natural OR healthy.  Even seeing great results may not persuade us.  Now, I STILL don’t totally follow the Atkins diet or the Zone diet but what I DO is similar or parallel to those diets.  It’s very easy:  BSF foods are very easy to spot and easy to avoid.  I haven’t avoided them *altogether* BUT, for the most part, I don’t eat Butter-Sugar-Flour foods.  If you’re interested, there are so many helps available!  Low-carb Websites are set up for the purpose of helping others lose weight the ‘low-carb’ way!  You don’t know how to go about this?  Don’t want to get involved with a d-i-e-t regimen?  Very simple: just start out avoiding BSF foods.  The results will amaze you!  If you’re used to easting ‘fast foods’ then go to McDonald’s and get their dietary facts… what you see about the nutrition/calorie content will shock you!   If you’re tired of being tired of being over weight, try ONE WEEK of eliminating BSF foods!  Then, if at the end of ONE WEEK, you’re STILL tired of being tired of being over weight then stay away from BSF foods the next week!  Do this till you’re NO LONGER over weight.  This may take you 2 weeks, it may take you 2  months, it may take you 2 years—but if you’re tired of being tired of being over weight then start today.  Don’t wait till tomorrow.  That tomorrow may never come.

Overweight no more, that’s my goal.  No more out of control eating, no more out of control living.  I pray, if this is you, too, then give the LORD your health, give Him your hopes, give Him your weight, give Him your poor habits, give Him your cravings, give Him your hurts, give Him your disappointments, give Him your gluttony, give Him your guilt, give Him your past, give Him your future, and put them all in His hands.

Go to the LORD—all you that labour and are heavy laden, and He will give you rest.

 August 23, 2003  These have been challenging days as we’ve been doing the last of the cleaning out of the shop and the property that belonged to my husband’s parents.  When Dad died a few years ago, I remember thinking it was so strange that he was gone and for quite some time I had the feeling or the hope that he’d come back—something I knew would never be but still couldn’t fully reconcile—and don’t, yet today. The land has been sold.  What was a home on a hill surrounded by an orchard, pasture and farmland will soon be a housing development.  Yesterday while we worked, in the background we heard the relentless din of the heavy equipment… dozers and dumptrucks and the constant moving and spreading of freshly churned earth.  Years of memories were flooding our minds as we sifted through what was left behind in the shop.  Yesterday I enjoyed the most delicious apples from Dad’s trees… today the trees are gone.  We dug up an old rose bush by the old barn… and none too soon: the barn is gone today.  The huge willow tree that provided yesterdays shade is gone today…

  

August 22, 2003 

If you haven’t yet signed the petition that will be submitted to Congress and the President in support of the Federal Marriage Amendment—you can do so today!!  . An amendment to the U.S. Constitution requires a two-thirds vote of both houses of Congress and a majority vote of three-fourths of the state legislatures (38 states) with no governors’ signatures required.  The proposed Amendment states: Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union between a man and a woman. Neither this constitution or the constitution of any state, nor state or federal law, shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.  You can sign the petition here! 

I regularly receive a product recall & safety alert by email. (You can receive it, too!)  Most days I don’t even recognize the products referenced, but sometimes I do and have made a note of the serial or stock number of the recall to check against the item/product we have to see if there’s a match.  Fortunately, only one time have we had a recalled item—Firestone tires!  Ah, yes, we should have gone to Les Schwab! 😉

The latest Dover sampler  has lots of books including wedding books.  We all love to read about weddings and one of my daughters enjoys collecting wedding ideas and drawing wedding and bridal gowns so bride books all look great to her!

My mom sent me another Martha link and it’s just in time, for our focus has been on *organizing* our home.  Now… the thing with Martha is that everything works out perfectly, fits precisely and is never cluttered.  That’s the ideal she presents—for me it’s the ideas—not the ideals.  Some would say Ideal would be no mess, no clutter, no loud noises and no superfluous stuff.  But you know what that ideal is *missing*?  Children—busy, happy, creative children.  So, for me to incorporate children into the ideals is to hook up with the ideas and concentrate on making ideas work with children in mind!  Children like order, they like stability, they like peacefulness—that’s what organization provides!  That’s what soothes Mama.

Oh… the Justice Moore case gets more interesting.  Here’s the latest on Foxnews I also read an interview on Foxnews done with Hannity and Colmes. 

O, ignorance and revisionist history.  All the demands by those who would forget God demonstrate such ignorance of what risks were taken and what faith the founders and defenders of this country possessed.  Isn’t it totally ironic that the US Supreme Court  refused to block the removal of the Ten Commandments—and yet the very same and more is present there in and on their building!?!??!  Incredible.   Just incredible.  The money in their pockets acknowledges God, the Flag [pledge] inherently acknowledges God.  The Declaration of Independence acknowledges God.  Our Constitution acknowledges God.   No matter what others say, think or do… the heavens declare the glory of God!  (read Psalms 19!)


Proverbs 14.34

August 21, 2003   In pondering the grievous direction of our society, it’s incredibly evident that God is longsuffering, patient, and gracious.   I often wonder: how long?   How long will the LORD tarry—for we know that He will not always tarry.  There will come a day of judgement.  That great and terrible day.  I’m reminded of a verse in Habakkuk… though it tarry, wait for it, for it will surely come and will not delay.  We may  grow complacent as we wait for that great and terrible day—but we mustn’t!  We must obey while we still have today—the LORD requires of us obedience—He showed by example this obedience, this doing not our own will, but the will of the Father.  “Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.” 1John 3.1     The world is at enmity with God—and therefore with us because we follow Christ.  One sure thing… if you’re not experiencing opposition in your life… ask, who’s on the throne of your heart? You or the LORD?  Who’s in the driver’s seat?  Who’s working the controls?  No heat means nothing’s cooking!

Marriage… what a blessing marriage is and what a veritable foundation of society it is.  Not to mention what God says of marriage in the Word.   The Word says marriage is a mystery—this mystery is how it is a living picture of Christ and the Church–His bride.  You may shrug and wonder if your marriage is such a picture or if you know of ANY marriage that is.  That’s one of the beauties and blessings of the Word and more, one of the hopes of any believer is that God lays out all that is needed for our good, for godliness, for peace and for joy—in our lives, in our homes, in our marriages.   No, this isn’t a come to Jesus, He’ll save your marriage, you’ll be happy and have lots of money type deals.  This is real—He is fully the answer to everything we need—“According as His divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him that hath called us to glory and virtue:” -2Peter 1.3  It’s His doing… He’s done all the giving, all the providing through faith in Him.  What more glorious and virtuous than a man & woman married with Christ as the center of their marriage giving honour to Him as a picture of Christ and the church.  Sometime ago I wrote Someday and Heirloom Marriage and other messages in an attempt to plant seeds of encouragement to sisters.

More on marriage in the news

I’ve no idea the spiritual position of our neighbor… but one thing I’m thankful for last evening was his passing by and then stopping by the sunroom window to listen to one of our children play the piano… I’m grateful to God for the gift of music and that this one was playing “The Old Rugged Cross” to the delight of our neighbor.  Piano music is a marvel to me and the fact that our friend has given of herself to teach our children all of these years is a blessing and a gift  I’ll never be able to adequately thank her or the LORD for giving us all.  To worship the LORD in song is probably my favourite way to spend any moment. 

August 20, 2003 Interesting things going on in the news again this week!  There should actually be some more ‘monumental’ decisions in the days ahead.  The first being the case in the courts regarding Alabama Chief Justice Roy Moore and the 5,300 pound granite monument depicting the Ten Commandments which opponents say violates the Constitution’s ban on government promotion of religion.  There was a prayer vigil taking place in front of the Courthouse and apparently arrests have been made of those supporters who had knelt or stood at the monument inside the building rotunda and refused to leave.  Want another reason to NOT send your children to government schools?  Revisionist History.  This’ll end up there just like all the other references to God, to His providential care, provision, direction and foundation of this country.

O, should God lift one finger from this nation…

August 19, 2003
We received a call last night from our friends (our son is traveling with) that they’ve made it to Missoula, Montana.   That was after two lengthy visits with friends… missionary friends in Eastern Washington and an old friend who now lives in Idaho.  They’re having the best time!  I’m thinking that guys would think riding along in a camper would be about the greatest thing—and they do!  It’s prolonging the good-bye at the end of the trip, however, and that’s gotta be on their minds.


part of the gang… after one last volley ball game…

Waffles, Waffles, Waffles!  Our family really likes waffles but it’s a challenge to put out the number we need in a timely manner!  I found a neat waffle site and the waffle maker I’ve been looking for is sold there.  I did recently buy a couple (Belgian waffle makers) at a thrift store and was thrilled that they’re in great shape and make nice Belgian waffles.  But… perhaps in the future I’ll buy a couple of waffle makers from that site or at a kitchen outlet-store.  There are some great ideas and I’m glad they have recipes for Belgian as well as other waffles!

someday a groom. 
amy & timothy’s wedding

at the meadow wedding in spokane,
ooops, dad’s behind the camera… missing from the pics again!

August 18, 2003   So.. busy these last couple of days. A beautiful wedding in Spokane (across the state from us here), a special day celebrating our grandson’s 2nd birthday, a tearful farewell for a friend leaving for Bible school, a send off for a long road trip for one of our son’s and serving in the Soup Kitchen this afternoon.  These are the kind of days where timing is everything… and we do praise the LORD for His timing, His provision and His protection.  He is ever merciful.

I was giving some more thought to what I’d written on Friday regarding the verses in Romans and our reasonable service… according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.   Consider the word reasonable; it is reasonable that we be not conformed to this world.  It is sensible, it is realistic, it is practical, it is logical that we NOT be conformed to this world.  We are saved—we’re bought with a price—why would we NOT desire the renewal of our minds that we would be faithful representatives—proving Him to the watching world?!?!?  Interestingly, our pastor was talking about this passage yesterday—he was talking of our worship, saying that God is magnified when we cherish Him—thirsty and hungering after God above all things having our hearts fixed on Christ.

I’ve been mulling over this passage for a number of days because of some decisions I’ve been needing wisdom to make.  What is my reasonable service?  Seeing  that I am compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses… I must lay aside every weight and besetting sin and run with patience the race that is set before me. I’ve been attempting to write some Welcome Home messages and I’ve got a decision to make regarding our Titus2 meetings.  I’ve allowed past difficulties to govern my thoughts—something I always encourage other sisters to lay aside (that past baggage, those dead weights) —I’ve been gripped with negative thoughts and inadequacies.  But God.  But God who is rich in mercy, for the great love wherewith He loves us… me… you…   The chastening of the LORD is bittersweet.  Bitter for a time and sweet for the fellowship and the fruit.   So our reasonable service -it’s sensible, practical, logical, solid, genuine and according to Titus2.5 it is so that the Word of God be not blasphemed.  As Christians, our walk, our talk, the thoughts and intents of our hearts must be such that the Word of God be not blasphemed.  God can surely take care of His Word, His reputation, etc., we must not be deceived, God is not mocked.  Our profession of faith is cheapened when we attempt harmony with the world and display affinity for the ways, the things, the appearance and methods under which it operates.   With our attention, attitude, attire, achievements, amusements, all of these and more, we either exalt or deny our Saviour—we either magnify His name or blaspheme His Word.

August 17, 2003 

21 I will praise thee: for thou hast heard me, and art become my salvation.
22 The stone which the builders refused is become the head stone of the corner.
23 This is the LORD’S doing; it is marvelous in our eyes.
24 This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.

                                                                                                Psalms 118.21-24

August 16, 2003  

I was thinking that to close the week with more links to more articles on behaviour, modesty, marriage, family, etc., wouldn’t be necessarily wise; the better part of wisdom would be to go to the Word as it is our alpha and omega of every matter.  All the things going on in the world, in the church, in homes, in education and in relationships all boil down to this:

1  I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
2  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
3   For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.  Romans 12.1-3

Our reasonable service… according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.   We are commanded to NOT be conformed to this world—that through the grace of God we are to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.  O, the work and ruin that is wrought in the mind, yes?  But we are to be transformed—with a renewed mind that we may prove—give evidence of—verify—validate—show authenticity of:  that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.  How do we do this?  Faith.  Every thing we do is measured by faith.  Our works prove this and all of our works are by grace through faith—they are not of ourselves—just as our salvation is not of ourselves, it is the gift of God, lest any man should boast.  How can we possibly thank God for so great a salvation—we cannot—but through faith we can present our bodies, ourselves, as living sacrifices… this is our r-e-a-s-o-n-a-b-l-e   service!  O, how I needed this fresh bread today after spending time with friends last evening… talking over difficulties and ministry opportunities.  I know the answer for which I have been praying… I know it now and I knew it then… but the mind… O, the mind—it must be tamed as the tongue must be tamed and God is ever merciful to effectively transform both. 


I received this funny email from my mom…

the caption to this pic… Finally a mouse suitable for women!


August 15, 2003   Finally the day is near for us to attend the wedding of the daughter of precious friends.  O, the ways the LORD has worked through the years, blessing and directing this girl–this woman.  Our friends have been such an encouragement to us over the years and now to join them in this celebration is something we’re so looking forward to doing!  What a blessing when young people are walking after the LORD, all through their life… obeying and following in His ways.

  I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.
3John 1.4

Here in America, Colorado Rep. Marilyn Musgrave’s Federal Marriage Amendment is rapidly gaining support. At this point the amendment has gained 76 co-sponsors—and that’s including six Democrats [maybe those guys aren’t all bad].  And tens of thousands of people have already signed the Petition of Support for the Federal Marriage Amendment.  You can make your vote count!   I know, I know, seems we’re all over da map this week… riding around on a lotta bandwagons, making a lot of noise:  Education!  Government schools!  Homosexuality!  Modesty! Marriage!  Interesting isn’t it… they’re all linked—they all matter and they’re ALL out of balance and there’s only One answer.

Our family had a wonderful time of getting reacquainting with different families we’ve met over the years out at Camp Gilead for family camp.  Amazingly, time seems irrelevant and in many ways it seemed like yesterday we talked over coffee with different ones there.  I had a time with a couple of dear friends—you know, friends you can count on, friends who matter, friends who have no agenda and the common denominator is Jesus — even though the phase of life for each isn’t necessarily equal.  God is good—merciful.  We didn’t/couldn’t do family camp this year, but felt like we really did want to at least visit the family friends one evening.  What a blessing to be there in time to hear the evening message, to be challenged with the Word and then enjoy the sweet fellowship.

August 14, 2003   My mom sent me a link this morning from Coldwater Creek and the specials their having.  Now, I must confess, that my purchases of Coldwater Creek dresses have been made at the thrift store and *not* at CC outlet or retail stores.  But, what I like to do is get ideas from their catalog which helps me decide what to sew sometimes or then sometimes I recognize the skirts/dresses at the thrift store.  One of my favourite retailers is Christopher & Banks where I have purchased a few dresses.  I sure didn’t like the selections at their website, but at their store (here—in the Northwest) there are beautiful dresses at great prices.

Looking through my mom’s Ikea catalog here at home… then went to
Ikea online.  One of my daughters has been having quite a time with the kitchen planning tool (a simple download enables one to select components for a ‘dream kitchen’ or a total kitchen make-over using scaled measurements and their cabinets, etc.   I’d sure like to re-do some things in here… but where to start?  Worse, where would I be comfortable with it ending?  Better to just be content with such things as we have, changing the things we truly can and overlooking those things we cannot change, yes?

Walmart seems to have the best price on the Atkins Advantage bars.  I am finding that one in the morning with coffee or tea really sets the tone of the day for me… I can seemingly be totally content with that for a number of hours.  I am nearer to the goal now… with 10 or 15 left to lose.  I imagine when I hit the right weight I’ll know and then determine a ‘maintenance’ plan.  Weight loss used to be so easy for me bcz I didn’t used to gain much with babies and lost it easily.  But in the last ten years this has *not* been the case!!  Over 35 seems to bring on a new set of deals… new things to deal with.  One of them is a change in metabolism, which I am finally now deciding to learn to adjust to!!  [yep, better late than never]  Everyday I continue to teach myself… saying… what will you decide to eat?  I tell myself: Do not eat what you haven’t decided on purpose—in advance to eat.  I don’t follow the Atkins or the Zone regimen very well as I cannot [yet] seem to work it out and prepare foods for our whole family.  So… that’s why I share I am doing a modified Atkins— maybe closer to Zone program.  I have set things I have each day… I do still have that can of diet DP (Dr. Pepper) each noon!  I probably will have to leave off with the DP when the winter months come… they’re not a necessity ( well, not r-e-a-l-l-y ) and during the cold season… there are few pools to do so grocery shopping is done much more carefully then than now… my husband doesn’t mind this a bit… and so there you go—that’s the “diet update.”  If you’re dieting: Press on.  You will lose weight—walk, eat less, drink more water, STAY BUSY, you WILL lose it!!

 Interesting bits in the news… There seems to be more than just a little bit of support swelling up for Chief Justice of the Alabama Supreme Court, Judge Roy Moore not to mention, the Foundation for Moral Law‘s gotten involved!  It’ll be interesting to see what happens with this case.  O, the moral decline… the decay of our society—so grievous.  The world is never going to be at peace with God.  This nation seems to be on the fast track spiraling into the black abyss.

I’m really into cutting up watermelon lately!  There’s
nothing to it and it’s so pretty when you serve the fruits!
(no, that big strawberry didn’t grow in our garden!!
Only the small ones and the raspberries!!  The rest of the fruits: melons,
grapes, cherries, pineapple, nectarines grew at the grocery store in town!)

August 13, 2003  Wonder if you have the worm?  MSBlast, also known as Lovsan, an Internet worm that exploits a known vulnerability in Windows 2000, NT, and XP.  Are you infected? Right click on the ‘task bar’ and select ‘Task Manager’. Click on the ‘Processes’ tab. If you can find a process called msblast.exe, then your system is infected.  You need the patch. First patch and then can get it removed.  If you have an online anti-virus, virus-scan system (Norton, McAfee, etc.) go there and follow their recommended steps, or, here’s one of the places you can go…  http://insight.zdnet.co.uk/software/0,39020463,39115651,00.htm  for a solution.

Now, you might think by the two topics on which I continue to focus that this is “Anti-Public Schools” and “Anti-immodest Dress” week! Uhh… I wouldn’t say …week.

The other evening in church one of our missionaries was talking of the mission field, their customs and behaviours and the need for missionaries to be sensitive to their culture and not be offensive (sounds like our… (It’s a very hot/humid climate) it cut me right to the heart when he said that his wife would have to be very careful what she wore… that she’d not be able to wear shorts or revealing clothing, that they were much more conservative and modest there than “we are here.”  Gulp.  Isn’t that sad!!  Sad that we (read: american Christian women are not considered/expected to be conservative or modest.)  Sad that this missionary would change personal behaviour because of THEIR customs not because of personal conviction of propriety and modesty.  So… here are yet more reasons why we ought to be very thoughtful when it comes to our behaviour/dress.  Does our faith give us freedom? Yes.  Freedom to be holy.  Freedom to be obedient.  Freedom to be filled with joy. Freedom to be careful.  Freedom to be representatives of Christ.  Not freedom to be lewd.  Not freedom to defraud.  Not freedom to entice. Not freedom to entice… to lure brothers into lust.  I ran across a couple more articles that really ‘speak well!’ to this matter of dress and behaviour of Christian women.  The first, Bare … Legs In Church  by Michael Fortner, and another on modesty by Dannah Gresh (yes, ironically the same author as was mentioned a couple of days ago).
On to school…  This is an older
article relating the agenda of government or public schools.  Okay… so, you need more reasons why you should *not* send your child(ren) to public or government schools? Here’s a site  with a plethora of articles that’ll expose the epidemic of mind and behaviour control of the public school system.  And here’s another Apologetics site listing lots of things going on in the ‘world.’   There were several articles I read yesterday concerning the astounding homosexual teachings I cannot/will not link you here.

The practices being shared/taught IN SCHOOLS is so vulgar I could not read past the descriptions—and these descriptions were written up in public newspapers in Massachusetts and other states in the country.  Unbelievable!  You don’t think that it all could be going on in your neck of the woods? Ha… call up your school and ask their position on teaching—their stand on homosexual, heterosexual relations, behaviours, etc. And watch for buzz phrases and words like: totally inclusive, or inclusive, tolerant, kind and safe.  Inclusive? Safe?  O, not in my house and I pray not in yours.   O… that’s just *that* agenda… add that to considering the others… New Age meditations, Harry Potter (Scholastic’s bonus ‘rights acquisition’ —touting themselves as “the number 1 source” for classroom tools and resources) add those to Humanism and Evolution, anti-life… just to name some of the biggies.

hannah and ami


August 12, 2003  Happy day to you!  I trust that the LORD is continuing to bless, instruct and encourage you in the Word and in prayer.  Hope you day’s going well.  If it’s not, take some time alone in the Word and in prayer… then sing.  Sing praises.  There truly is joy in the valleys.

Circulating in email is a recent exposé on the great rip-off of generic drugs and the pharmacies’ huge mark-up on generics.  Astoundingly, as much as 3,000 percent—yes, that’s no typo—3,000 % mark-up on generics!  Wow.  Now, we don’t go to the doc much and consequently, it’s extremely rare for us to take anything other than over-the-counter meds so for now, these high prices haven’t been a specific dilemma for us.  But, it’ll sure make me think twice in the future when looking for the best price should we find ourselves in that position.  Interestingly, Costco reportedly sells the generics at just above their cost.  That’s some good news. This is just an FYI… beware… high prices.

It doesn’t take much reading of the paper or listening to the news to confirm our reasons for *not* sending our children to government schools.  The agenda of NEA is getting more blatant than ever in regards to homosexuality, anti-Christian bias and religious tolerance.  There’s great power in the subtle and not-so-subtle messages that are being projected to and/or indoctrinated in the minds of all young people in the government schools.  I would go so far as to take the stand that Christian parents should not be sending their children off to school—O, enemy is ruthless; “Your adversary, the devil,  as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.” 1Peter 5.8   Don’t think it’s so serious what’s going on in the schools today?   Doug Wilson wrote a powerful letter to Dr. Dobson (clearly one of the most influential men in Christian media) and just a slice of what’s going on in schools.  Can’t imagine it?  Make an education search… talk about shock and awe… you’ll be amazed! 

By the way, Credenda has a lot more interesting articles and regular columns that’ll really be a blessing.
August 11, 2003  —Fall is right around the corner and that means planting for Spring!  My mom sent me the Dutch Garden link for some beautiful daffodils.  They’re some of my most favourite flowers that hold many significant memories for me!  I want to order some to plant in clusters in our flower beds.  We have lots that ring our old weeping willow tree and some clusters near other trees, but I’d like to plant some in other places as well.  It sure seems early to be thinking about the winter garden when we’re still picking flowers, peas and beans and raspberries!

I read an interesting article on modesty this morning after browsing through our CBD [Christian Book Distributors] catalog, noticing a new book they’re offering: Secret Keeper – the Delicate Power of Modesty by Dannah Gresh (She also wrote: And the Bride Wore White).  I’ve not ordered/read her book but I’d like to do so.  O, what a challenge it is to get the message to sisters in the Faith that dress (or lack thereof) sends a bold message: temptation or edification—a message we MUST instill in our daughters!  So, in light of that, I’m thankful that more books are being written, sharing the real truth about modesty.   When I’ve shared on this in the past, I’ve occasionally been told that man looks on the outward, but God looks on the heart—as if the outward is exempt.  Yes, it IS true—God DOES look on the heart—but the outward is [only] what man sees!  Is what men are seeing in/on/about Christian women appropriate for them to be seeing?  Shouldn’t what man sees be a reflection of what God is doing/has done in the heart of each woman??   It’s grievous that the world so deeply influences women of faith that there’s often no distinction in appearance.  More grievous is the manner of dress of some *in* church—dress you’d expect to see anywhere *but* the church.  More on that another day.

I received a letter this morning with an updated link to the Vessels of Mercy site (we recommend on our modesty page).  They offer modest clothing for women and girls, plus you can read articles of interest to women in the church.  You can also read about the Pilgrims Pathway Newsletter—very helpful for Christians on the path of life.

We’ve continued studying in Acts (we’re in 16 now!) and we were impressed this morning by the attitude of Paul and Silas—praising God in the midst of persecution.  Beaten and then bound in chains, they sang praises to God.  I was immediately convicted of the many times I’ve thought this or that situation was too difficult to bear or too tedious or hurtful or whatever… then to think: beaten for proclaiming the Gospel.  Would I take stripes for the sake of Christ?  Would I sing praises to Him afterward?  I pray, O God, please help even my feeble attempts to serve You.

August 9, 2003   It’s another special day here in our family—another birthday.  O, the birthdays we’ve celebrated.  It’s such a blessing to review the years, to rehearse the events of each little life… to praise the LORD for His works and ways in each life.   A couple of days ago when asked how old he’d be on his birthday, Andrew replied,  “Five or six…  ask mama, she knows!!”  Ahhh.

 

Website Note: Over the years I’ve received lots of requests by others to include a link to their site or to share their home biz or information on assorted topics of interest to women—families.  Much of the time, though, the links on our site are placed because of the great value we’ve seen in them for not only our family but for our readers’ families as well.  I’m sometimes reluctant to endorse a site and sometimes cannot endorse one because of what the *rest of the site* offers/displays or because of the “religious” affiliations of the site-owners.  While there is no way for us to know all the in’s and out’s of each site owner’s spiritual/doctrinal  position  (especially when these groups morph into something other than their original position), links on our site are placed with sincere care and with earnest desire to endorse sites that are like-minded (I note secular sites and advise caution regarding them and national news links) additionally, it’s intentional when specific and/or prominent groups/organizations are *not*  posted on our site.  There are national pastors, churches, organizations we do not endorse/support and the omission of comments, links, praise or support is intended.  Whatever the case, always be careful browsing the net and clicking on links.  Sometimes the initial site/article link is just fine but some of *their links* are not.

All that said, the links I share are meant for edification and blessing—when/if we find they’re otherwise, I remove them.  I’m a great fan of home ventures and free enterprise and when families work to provide instructional/godly family devotional or home-schooling materials we are pleased to share the links with you.  Similarly, when we hear of businesses offering modest clothing, we definitely want to pass those sites along to our readers!  Given the limited selection of modest and age-appropriate clothing, it’s a blessing to see the market expanding by way of family enterprise.  A family wrote the other day sharing their home-based business which I’d like to share with you.  She has a nice selection of modest dresses she sews for young girls.  The site is filled with nice dresses for little girls.

Too busy for bloggin’ these days…


August 7, 2003  My mom suggested this site to us this morning.  Rebecca Cole shows lots of interesting things, neat ways to be hospitable and create special ways & places around your home.  For me, the ideas spark creativity to use what we have in new ways—for that’s the sum of creativity… being content with such things as ye have!

I remember at each closing of the Bible Answerman’s program he’d say something like:  Are you willing to do for the Truth what the enemy is doing for a lie?  O, on every front Christianity, families, the church, marriage and the Bible are under attack.  One of the greatest hurdles we face is the hurdle if “fear of man.”  If I take this stand or that stand, what will my neighbors think?  If I reject the lies of society and refuse to conform to societal norms, I’ll not be too popular with them.  If I stand on the side of Truth, they might think I am rejecting *them* instead of rejecting the lies.  No man can serve two masters.    Galatians 6.7 says “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.”  Are we willing to do for the Truth what the enemy is doing for a lie?

Job 28.28 “…Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding.”

Proverbs 29.25  “The fear of man bringeth a snare: but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe.”

Ecclesiastes 12.13  “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.”

It you’re into the news you just might be thinking these days: how much worse is it going to get?  How much worse can it get?!?  Ugly.  Sin is ugly and the devil is sly—sly and slimy—apart from Jesus—obedience to and faith in Jesus and the finished work of the cross—apart from that there is no hope.  But God.  But God who is rich in mercy…

Congresswoman Marilyn Musgrave, R-Colo., has introduced the Federal Marriage Amendment (H.J. Res. 56) as a proposed constitutional amendment, which will remove the definition of marriage from the reach of all legislatures and courts permanently.
This amendment simply states:

“Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union between a man a woman. Neither this constitution or the constitution of any state, nor state or federal law, shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups”

Please join Dr. Jerry Falwell, me and one million Americans in the
Petition of Support for the Federal Marriage Amendment
.
Click on this link to join in this national effort:
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So, the news… it’s seemingly unreal—but it’s real.  The depravity deepens and the chasm is widening between the world and the Word.  I’m not thinking that the chasm is widening between some/much of the church and the world, though, because the church has this preoccupation with building itself and making itself palatable to the world.  It will never be.  Jesus said He will build His church and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. (Matthew 18.16) 

But the enemy is fierce. “Your adversary, the devil,  as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.” 1Peter 5.8  Just take a look at what’s going on in the world… amazing. These things are anything but gay—these abominations… they’re grievous at least.  And then judges display such lack of wisdom ignorance of the constitution, of law.

So, now… we have a monumental case in our nation’s history.  A pivotal case in regard to freedom, religious freedom and the intent of the Founding Fathers and the basis of the foundation of this country.
August 6, 2003  I’ve been drinking more flavoured teas lately… the one I tend to like the most lately is Celestial Seasonings’ Apple Cinnamon—and my friend Kelli brought me teas when she visited and among them was a box of “Perfectly Pear” White Tea! Yum!  Now, I saw on their site a flavour I’ll try soon: peach apricot honeybush.  I think peaches and apricots are my favourite fruits—along with raspberries and blueberries.  I’m thinking of trying this blueberry recipe from the Washington Times for my husband whose favourite is blueberry-anything!  BTW, my favourite was this line in the recipe: You should have 4 biscuits left over. Wrap and freeze for another brunch.”   😐  We *n-e-v-e-r* have to wrap and freeze anything for another brunch—and I’m thinking I’m pretty sure we’ve never had left over biscuits.

O, in the news… pray the LORD‘s will be done—– grievous decisions being made in the “church” which just further demonstrate the depravity of man and careless and carnally blind handling of the Word.  2Timothy 3.17 “That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.” As we seek to know, follow and obey the Word of God, we can clearly see the violations and ignorance of the Word—it’s directives, commands and teaching.  I grieve today over the misguided leadership in that church and in churches around the world.  God help them—God help us all.   Ephesians 4.30 “And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.”  Some will say we are critical—even judgmental—nay, not judgmental: zealous of the Word, faith, of the Gospel and of good works.
Hebrews 13.6 “So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.”  I will continue to use the platforms the LORD gives me to declare and as a defender the faith.


August 5, 2003 

I needed a ‘pick-me-up’ for gardening because this time of year there are more weeds than flowers and more weed seeds taking root than vegetables coming up.  This gardener’s site gives some ideas—actually lots of ideas and lots more ways to spend money which I’m trying to avoid doing more of right now!

Many of our friends are preparing to send sons or daughters out from their homes… some newlyweds and some to school this month… my heart and prayers go out to/for them because of the bittersweet of change… life… maturity.  And that’s the way it should be—that’s what we’re working for.  We don’t raise ’em up to *keep* them; we raise ’em up to *send* them out.  O, the years and years spent running and running… pouring life and energy into everyday with those children… then: it’s over.  What a challenge it was to me five years ago when our two oldest left our home to begin their own homes/lives. What a blast to my consciousness and what an assault to my heart—my boys… I so loved my boys—it’s a different kind of loving now.  O, the prayers… our second boy sure taught us to pray… We then began a “new normal” with our family here in our home. Ohmy, it’s so over when it’s over—not to be morbid, but it’s sort of like death: it’s so over when it’s over.  No more chances to do things this or that way… no more late-night talks beside the bed; no more opportunities to sit at the breakfast or dinner table and plan the day or have devotions or order school materials or fold laundry for that one because it’s a neeeeew day… a neeeeew way.  it’s so over when it’s over. 

We really enjoy doing crafts or projects around the kitchen table… the dilemma is coming up with neat ideas we can afford or that will not be just another item for the wastebasket in a few days.  So, I’ve been looking around at craft ideas and have found some neat ones!  You’ll probably like some of them too… maybe there are some others you’ll enjoy.
Something caught my eye while browsing… my step-dad sure likes butterscotch cookies and so I’m thinking of making this
gift-in-a-jar for him sometime.  We have other gifts in a jar recipes  and speaking of gifts… I’ve got pages of gifts that’ll give a bunch of ideas and some more ideas for gifts to give (updated!)

August 4, 2003 
Special guests at our church yesterday were the “Voices of Victory” from Pillsbury Baptist Bible College.   What a blessing they were both in the service and during our pot-bless lunch afterward.  We’re continuing to meet for lunch each Sunday while the ASL class is in session.  We’re using the Bravo ASL curriculum from Sign Enhancers.  Our teacher is such a dear, she’s deaf and attends the Emmanuel Deaf Fellowship that’s a part of our church.  She is married to a hearing man and so he helps encourage us as we learn as he, himself, is still learning the deaf culture.  We’re learning so much about communication, about foolish misconceptions and other things about the deaf culture.  Something that’s helping is that we’re seeing Naomi (our daughter who is deaf in her left ear) really take to this and it’s opening up a whole new world of communication.  One of the biggest advantages I’m seeing is the replacement of our poor home-signing with proper ASL signing.  It’s sort of like slang… when proper English (or whatever language) is introduced and understood and vocabulary is broadened, then slang is seen for how limiting it really is when compared to intelligent or proper speech/language.


So far, this is how much swimming I’m doing!


My mom receives catalogs for gardeners and woodworkers that are just packed with useful items for both!  I like looking through them and checked out their site —
Lee Valley— and what great ideas they have!  Now, I found their site to be sort of difficult to navigate—might’ve been clicking too quickly—but I’ll try again later—anyway, there sure are some great tools for gardening that I’m thinking of ordering.  We need help clearing weeds as they seem to grow so much better and faster than the flowers and vegetables!!

August 3, 2003   We returned from a wedding Saturday evening.  We were reminded of the wedding at Cana… the place of the beginning of the miracles of Christ our LORD.  I thought on the sovereignty of God, the bringing together of souls that would become one flesh that together they would be better—more effective than were they to remain single.  I thought of ways my husband’s life is more effective because of me and mine because of him… and then I ask the LORD… LORD, are there ways in which I am hindering the effectiveness of my husband or oneness with him?  The stark reality is that I am created as a help meet for my husband—a help fitted to him—a help, not a hindrance.  As I think on these things, I mull over in my mind ways in which I might improve in order that I’m living in obedience to Christ—to the Word… because anything less brings dishonour to both.

August 2, 2003 

Home from the doctor… pleased with the results of the surgery and so grateful to God for the things He has done.   Kathryn now has the task of slowly trying to bear full weight on her feet—learning to walk with straight feet.   What a blessing it was to see the x-rays this morning.  X-rays tell the story.  The smile and the beautiful music tells the story of a heart yielded to the LORD.  There’s really nothing more to add today… my heart is overflowing with gratitude to our gracious LORD.

     
              
“…How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace,
and bring glad tidings of good things.”  Romans 10.15

August 1, 2003

—–Late 8-01-03 —–  As I type this, a pair of crutches leans against the wall at the foot of the stairs—a very familiar sight this year as Kathryn has spent two eight-week time periods using crutches to get around.  In the morning we’ll go to her doctor who’ll remove her cast… x-rays will reveal the results of the surgery and eight weeks of no weight bearing on that foot.  The familiar clicking of the crutches, the crawling up the stairs and all the other inconveniences will be things of the past.  These surgeries have been incredible answers to prayer… surgeries that have corrected her feet and will hopefully enable her to walk long distances or stand lengths of time without pain; to buy shoes in various styles—not limited to few and certain types.  Tomorrow she’ll wear ‘flip-flop’ sandals… something she’s doing for the first time in her life.  While not ashamed of the appearance of her feet previously, she has had numerous ‘most embarrassing moments’ when questioned about their appearance.  Even now, some will ask if her feet will ever be any better.  O, the poise she’s developed, the gracious attitude she has in answering the questions—I marvel at her maturity, it’s far beyond her years. 

A bright August day…   Joey – 8 years old

The first of August already!!  Considering this is the last full month of summer, and “vacation” time, we’re going to be spending the month reviewing and preparing for the upcoming “school-year” here at home.  I have been receiving catalogs from different Homeschool organizations and companies.  We’ve begun mapping our plan for the months ahead… seeing where each child needs to grow based on where they are now, etc.

One neat thing I received from my sister-on-law this morning: Growth of a Nation a ten minute presentation illustrating the growth of the United States from the original 13 colonies to the present—or rather, to 1950.  Thankfully, the decline of morality is not documented here.  We’ll be able to use this as a refresher and as a springboard to our studies in History for the year.  Two years ago we began a study of the United States… but didn’t do too many last year, so we’ll resume the study this year.  We made mini-books (a “book-package” for each state with interesting flaps and slots and pull-down features to highlight different aspects of each state’s history, geography and resources) based on The Book of Books by Dinah Zike.  I even joined the e-group list for a while that first year which was somewhat helpful for that time.

July 2003

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Thursday, July 31, 2003  I receive reminders of birthdays from Birthday Alarm—you just sign up and receive two reminders: a week and three days prior to the birthday dates you’ve selected.  It’s a neat way to be reminded to e-mail or send a card to someone. 

The children have been swimming all afternoon!  What a day this has been; nice and hot outside—perfect for cold water.  I used to love to swim in cold water—I thought I still would… today I changed my mind and decided that cold water is good for sailing, washing dark clothes, rinsing sand off walkways and *drinking!*  Every once in a while the children would lie down on the pavement to warm up before returning to the cold pool… it was worth it to them!!  That makes it all the better to me!

I was
doing a
little searching for a recipe and came across this neat site… yes, the ‘chocolate‘ did catch my eye.  Then I found the recipe for the cake I was looking for:  Triple Chocolate Celebration Cake… and I did find a source for the ‘transfer sheets‘ called for in the cake recipe!  (Hope you like it, Amy!)

Wednesday, July 30, 2003  It’s a warm one today!  But I’m having a delicious cup of Millstone coffee (Hazelnut de-caf, my husband’s favourite!!) with Land O’Lakes non-fat half ‘n half… and my Atkin’s Advantage Bar.  Somehow… this bar is okay to me during this diet.  Most other times, I’d tell you: no chocolate vitamins, please!  By the way, that Land O’Lakes site wasn’t meant to be a stumbling block…  mmmmm, great looking recipes, eh?  Oh, one thing that helps with butter calories is to mix well: 1 cup of butter with 1 cup of canola oil and put into a plastic box with lid… keep in the fridge and it’ll still spread on your toast.

We had a wonderful visit with friends over lunch today!  We’re still working on our projects outside but the very warm weather is slowing us down a bit!!  We’re setting up an above ground pool and it’s taking a bit longer than we’d hoped… but one thing I know for sure is that my husband is thorough and being a pool guy, he has lots of experience and so we’re with him—whatever he thinks we ought to do—even if what he does seems like many extra steps!  Pool pics another day. 

I was sharing with our friend that this will give us opportunity to try out different types of modest swimming clothes and see which one(s) we think work best for us.  It’s a real challenge—modesty and swimming!!  When once you begin seeing most styles of bathing suits as colourful underwear—and are they not!?!?—then you see the dilemma and seriously understand the need for alternatives to what is commonly sold as public swimming attire.   O, how I regret not knowing this as a younger person—O, the regrets over foolish behavior!   “What fruit had ye then in those things whereof ye are not ashamed?” —Romans 6.21

The challenge is to find something that’s comfortable and modest and appropriate for swimming.   Some swimming outfits draw such attention that the purpose is defeated.  Other times, we’ve thought something would be workable and have later found that the outcome was not good!
There’s a site that offers modest swimming clothes for you and your daughters. I did a search and found a few ideas… I’ll likely change them a bit, but the ideas are inspiring me to sew new swimming clothes.  I also came across an article that had some nuggets of truth about modesty… this is not for those who get hung up on the legalism tag—for if you do, you’ll miss the truth.

We’re looking forward to Saturday when Kathryn will have her cast removed.  I think the pool will enable her to exercise without pain… as she’ll need to ease into exercising and walking.  This is the last of the casts, though!  What remains is a minor surgery to remove the screws in her feet and the surgeon will also remover her scar at that time.  We’ve seen the amazing results a friend has had with this!  Kathryn’s scars are the length of her feet and will be greatly diminished after that surgery—which will be done in October and January.  How we continually praise the LORD for His provision here.  Also… we applaud Kathryn’s bravery and tenacity in undergoing this surgery and enduring the many months of healing.  She’s been such a blessing to us all.

Soon I post two muffin recipes you’ll really like for your family.  I did taste them both—oh, the temptation to eat a whole one of each! BUT I DIDN’T—yay-yay!!  Anyway—one is Amy’s and one is Lisa’s — first, though, I’ll have to ask them to send the recipe to me for our family —and you— to enjoy!

Tuesday, July 29, 2003  As I mentioned the other day, I’d have some pictures from last week… below are a few from the KlaHaYa Days backyard party.  We gather for food & fellowship and yard games… and more food and fellowship and volleyball late into the night!  Fireworks light up the sky after dark!  This is one of the features of KlaHaYa Days and maybe one of the neatest benefits living near the little airport where a lot of the activities take place—sky-divers, hot-air balloons, and more.
         

O, the blessing of friendship… we had a good time that evening.  Our friends from Colorado were able to be with us… to bring a good report and others shared of God’s blessing, work and provision over the last year.  One of my favourite sights and sweetest memories every year is the gathering of nursing mothers sitting in a group out on the porch or in our living-room in the house—and I’m always grateful that all the children play so well together as there were 30 or so little ones running around!  Everyone who played volleyball sure had a good time… after dark they hooked up the halogen lights and kept playing.  The pic of the one man is our friend who spent several months in Iraq.  We praise the LORD for His protection and our friend’s safe return.

Good news in an email regarding our friends in Papua New Guinea.  They’re improving tremendously from the terribly high fevers–malaria.  They’ve also gotten a washing machine which is a blessing as they’re now trying to rid the home of scabies. O, the enemy is working overtime attempting to thwart the spreading of the Gospel of Jesus Christ!  He’s a defeated foe relentlessly fighting a lost battle.  In Jesus is the victory.

Pretty incredible the extent of the fighting in Iraq.  O, how grateful we are that our friends have returned, but, O,  how mindful we are that so many thousands remain and the fighting continues.  We continually pray God’s will be done.

Had a great time working outdoors yesterday.  Ran a couple of errands—had to go to Lowe’s (I went directly to the bricks and schedule 40 pvc sticks my husband asked me to get) and it would have been wonderful to take a look through their home decor section or paints and papers—more ideas don’tcha know, but I stuck to the plan.  Anyway… driving back… the heat felt wonderful!  I miss that marvelous feeling of hot sun on my face… I don’t mean sunning by a pool baking in the rays—just that feeling when standing outside and feeling the warmth of the sunshine… mmmmm.  The Northwest is my home and I don’t really desire to live elsewhere, but I do love heat and really dislike cold and gray… and for now, I do not miss the dripping, dripping, dripping rain… nor the cold.  The only thing I’m beginning to miss about wintertime is hot thick vegetable-beef or beef-barley soup and fresh-baked crusty bread—yummmm.  Oh… the gray days will soon be upon us.  I have a friend who absolutely loves the gray… says there are the most interesting shades of gray and white in the sky… hmmm, I hope to one day have that perspective for I do not have it at present.

For now, we’ve continued working in the yard… digging, digging, digging.  Wonderful to bathe and then rest after that sort of day… it was a wonderful ache, but it’s aching work, nonetheless.   Now… today… I’m not so sure about the wonderful part.  More about that later.

Interesting article regarding court protection from overzealous social workers or CPS.  We’ve often viewed CPS as some sort of American gestapo causing parents to live in fear of some CPS worker coming in and removing children from a home/family with seemingly no recourse on the part of the family.   Guilty—that’s it.  Children gone.  The accounts of such actions are often unpublicized but truly, the nightmares people have lived through at the hands of CPS are astounding.  One article is so bizarre, it seems unbelievable.  It’s incredible to me that in this country we must be on guard for such actions and false accusations!   I’ve been told many times by people on email lists to be careful what is written regarding child-training and correction.  It’s as if one’s being watched and tailed all the time.  Strange, isn’t it!?!

Monday, July 28, 2003   Yesterday was another blessed day of fellowshipping with friends at at church.  On Sundays (lately) we have stayed at the church all day… following morning worship and our “pot-bless” lunch, (I ended up making a big spinach salad, nachos & salsa, watermelon, and brownies—which everyone likes!)  we sat together talking while the children played outdoors and a bit later we had our sign-language class followed by our evening service which has lately been a time of viewing Kent Hovind‘s Creation Science videos with ice cream cones afterward!  By the way, they’re fascinating videos clearly showing the origins and creation of the world and the causes of the spectacular phenomena of such places as the grand canyon, fossils, huge bone & plant ‘graveyards’ at the poles, etc.  Incredibly simple and yet astonishingly complex are the presentations.  For every age there are solid explanations of God’s handiwork.  We’d like to purchase copies of these videos for our home. 

For those following the diet… if you’re in a situation like the one I described above… all you need to do is choose the foods that are non-BSF foods and you’ll do fine even  at pot-bless luncheons or out to dinner!  Remember, BSF foods are buttersugarflour foods… and WHITE foods!  Yeah,  I know… all the best tasting foods are a combination of these—white foods are sooooo tasty.  So, my resolve is strong… and if you’re trying to lose weight or ‘get healthy’ then I pray yours remains strong, too!

Our two older daughters spent a few days with my mom and had a wonderful time with her… crafting and visiting!  My mom really pampers them and they love it—and her!!  They made me a beautiful bouquet of flowers in my favourite colours—these flowers, maybe 2 dozen, are in a terracotta pot filled with rice… and they are each a pen!  The pot sits on my desk and looks so pretty!  My step-dad was away ‘star-gazing’ with fellow-astronomers at Table Mountain.  I wish that Kent Hovind’s videos were an integral part of the program so that every one of the astronomers (who don’t know the LORD) would have the clear opportunity to hear the gospel, understand the Creator of the vast universe, then see the great universe from His perspective!  The Word tells us in Psalms 19.1-7

1 The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handiwork.
2 Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night sheweth knowledge.
3 There is no speech nor language, where their voice is not heard.
4 Their line is gone out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world. In them hath he set a tabernacle for the sun,
5 Which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber, and rejoiceth as a strong man to run a race.
6 His going forth is from the end of the heaven, and his circuit unto the ends of it: and there is nothing hid from the heat thereof.
7 The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.

See that? The Heavens DECLARE the GLORY of GOD!  Marvelous!  The Firmament shows His handiwork! Amazing!  Glory to God in the Highest!

Sunday, July 27, 2003  “This is the LORD’s doing; it is marvelous in our eyes.” psalms 118.23

Friends Bringing a good report… This picture was taken in our  kitchen when friends were getting ready to leave… we’re all smiles… but soon after this there were tears.   That’s the bitter-sweet of friendship; the visiting is sweet and the parting brings sorrow.

July 26, 2003 Rapidly coming to the close of another month—it doesn’t seem possible that July is almost over!  I have some new newspapers listed in the News Pages — I like to read local papers when a national story is broadcast.  It seems that there’s a different angle presented in the local paper that’s missing or overlooked in the national news.  I add links when I’ve looked up a particular article.  Nah, you don’t need to become a news-junkie.   Glen Stewart often presents articles of interest on the site that hosts the Welcome Home/Good Things messages.  There are actually lots of interesting things on the site… articles, images, and lots of groups listed offering studies as well as discussion groups and newsletters.  Click the link—trust me—don’t type in the name yourself.

I’m trying to think of something creative to make for the pot-bless at church tomorrow afternoon.  You see, it’s pretty hard for me to be thinking along the lines of food when I need to be *out* of that kitchen.  So, I’m trying to think of a tasty uninvolved meal.  I know I need to make salad… there are some friends who just love salad and I love to please them… some of our friends don’t like everything I like to put in salads… I always smile when I think of them… as they call (berries-seeds-walnuts-craisins-parmesan, etc) the  added extras: ‘artifacts.’   (added note: these friends don’t like their foods touching each other, either.)

I thought this was a funny pic that Wes took on the drive to Indiana… no, it wasn’t named after me.  And yes, the pic below (under July 21) is at Krispy Kreme… a good place to start a road trip… at least that’s what my husband and step-father-in-law thought!

July 25, 2003  I’m back on track in the mind today… fully persuaded to press on with this diet.  It just dawned on me—the monthly cycle played an enormous part that I’d overlooked!  Irritability wasn’t food related it was cycle related and *food* wasn’t the answer!   So, I implore the LORD for His strengthening and His help!  If you’re having a tough go of it, just hang tight and pray the LORD will continually help you on the difficult trek of losing weight.  You may also come to realize you don’t have a weight problem after all… the problem’s not the weight, the problem’s the eating—the weight is a product or symptom of the problem.  That’s a hard image to face in the mirror—but then *truth* often is.  My friend wrote something yesterday that surely rang true with me.  She mentioned the attention losing weight brings.  O, that’s a struggle for me, too.  As much as I enjoy leading a group, as much as I enjoy orchestrating events or whatever, I can’t stand the attention—what a paradox this is!  I hate drawing attention even though I really want to be a blessing or to encourage or whatever!  So, when others ask if I’m losing weight, like my friend, I just want to hide.  This isn’t the reason for the dieting and I sure agree with her(!): it’d be wonderful to just go away and come back at a healthy weight.  Then… there’s also that terrible low self opinion… what? did I look so awful the other way?  O… it’s all tough.  Anyway… like I was telling my daughter in law… I desire to be fit for the grandchildren—she thought I meant her two (and I do!! really!) but I meant the ones who might come along in ten years or in 20-30 years and beyond.  I often think: I never see overweight old folks who are healthy—never.  So, should the LORD tarry, and should He choose that I have a long life—and so far as it depends on me, I’d like it to be a healthy one.  Fear of failure *AGAIN* is  the biggest battle of all as far as this particular fight goes.  Still pressing on…

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Kathryn has only ONE more week in a cast!  Next Saturday she’ll have her cast removed and be able
to begin walking after 8 weeks off her foot.  What a blessing the surgeries to correct her feet have been—
but talk about a long haul… she’s done remarkably well, and has been as cheerful as possible as
she’s daily worked through this. Sometime I’ll put up some “before and after” pictures.
She’s even asked me to print out some pictures of her feet before surgery so that she can share with people what God’s allowed through the hands of skilled physicians and the gift He’s give her.
It’s sure been an alone time for her as there’ve been so many things in which she couldn’t
take part and so many things she’s been longing to do—
walks to take and volleyball games to play, swimming at the lake or in the pool, etc.
This is how her spring and summer has gone…  with a smile…  in a chair.

We’ve been enjoying the BBQ so much this summer!  Seems like everyone in our family looks forward to enjoying the dinner meal outside.  Perhaps this is because so much of the year is spent indoors and it’s so often too chilly to eat outside in the evening!  I love it because in California (where I was raised) we had most of our meals outside year round.  Our patio was like a large dining room—my favourite part of that was the outdoor chandelier that held lots of candles—thus my love of candlelight today!

Flies!  O, these pesky flies!  We’ve tried lots of things… but we’ve always gone back to the tacky, pun intended, fly trap paper.  Now, in looking up their company, I discovered that flies are bugging lots of people bcz there are so many products on the market.  My personal favourite is still the trusty damp wash cloth which I use to whack them when they’re walking on my counters or desk here in the kitchen—very effective.

Here are some HOMESCHOOLING helps.   Are you thinking of Home-Schooling or need some fresh ideas for your home-school?  This list of books will help you in your decision making and the site will give you ideas.  For some other angles and more information, you really ought to also look at Vision Forum or their ministries site and Homeschool Today (they have a magazine ‘Homeschooling Today’ to which you may want to subscribe) also the old favourites Timberdoodle and Keepers of the Faith.
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One of the blessings of schooling at home is the flexibility my husband has in taking our older boys to work with him.  This pool was quite a difficult one to redo, but after the re-line, the filling and the new concrete, it looks beautiful.  And these guys don’t look so bad, either.
They love the opportunity to earn money during the summers!
We’re very blessed that the LORD has sent our boys in pairs with a dolly
in the middle of each pair every five years and one of each at the end…
No matter how He’d have done it, though, we know that All God’s ways are good.

My husband’s business is refurbishing swimming pools… relines, tile, coping concrete, equipment, etc.  His best, funniest, and most endearing co-workers are his sons…

July 24, 2003  O for email!  We had a letter this morning from missionary friends in Papua New Guinea.  The report and prayer request was troubling as four of their family members have malaria and are very sick.  I’d ask for prayer for our friends, the Sconce’s, and for their health and healing and that other family members will be spared.

So another day… you know this has been the hardest day for *the D-I-E-T* so far.  I have been sooooooo tempted all day to snack.  I *knew* this day was coming… I’m thinking that since I shared the progress report yesterday I am headed for a trial.  Well this isn’t the first trial of the trail, but it’s surely the strongest.  Even visiting or going out to dinner has not been this difficult.  I have some snacks on the counter for the family and I have dinner partially prepared—but I must be tired and so feel the *great need* 😉  to eat something—anything—now.  So I blog.  Then I walk.  Then I fold.  Then I go out to water the roses.

And so it goes…  More later…

July 23, 2003  I finally went with Kathryn to the Snohomish Library today!  What a wonderful new library it is!  We saw a friend there and I met one of the librarians who helps my children so much.  They all have a great sense of humor — even after Samuel placed holds for something like a hundred and twenty seven books one time.  They still tease him about checking out the [whole] library and having to call us because there was no room on the “holds shelf” for them to hold the books so they ended up personally calling us to come pick them up.  They’ve got a neat system whereby books can be reserved online and then an automated call is made to our home when the books are in.  This way we can easily scan the books before they’re checked out—also not as much time is needed at the actual library.  However, it is wonderful to spend time just browsing the books, so I make sure there’re lots of opportunities for that, too.

Kathryn is making garlic-chicken pizza and pepperoni pizza for our family tonight.  They’re going to love it that she’s doing this for them.  She and Hannah will be going to visit my mom for a couple of days so she wanted to do something special.  My husband and our older boys will be especially thankful as it’s been a long hot day for them out working on a pool.

One of my favourite catalogs to receive is from Country Curtains!  I love looking through the pages getting ideas for curtains for our home.  I can’t afford to buy them from them, but I sure think they appear to be high quality.  I always like to save these catalogs for future reference—same with Rue de France.  I have a lace curtain for our front door & side lights from that company; it’s so beautiful—I just need to shorten them by adjusting the tops—a project I’ve been meaning to do for a long time.

I had a very nice email from a woman in Canada today… and am (at her prompting) giving a diet update… so here, weighing in on weight loss, I am happy say I continue losing weight with a very modified Atkins plan.  I’m not following the plan to the letter—I find it’s difficult to so dramatically change the menu for the family and so I’ve just continued eating my plan and serving them a ‘normal’ diet.  Well, normal American, sometimes healthy—sometimes not-so-healthy, sometimes calorie laden—sometimes not, sometimes fat laden and sometimes trim: diet—normal American fare.   Okay, so I’ve lost 20 lbs. so far.   Thinking I had only 20 to lose (based on the weight registered on the other scale), my goal is more like 30 lbs. total to lose—maybe even 35.  So, over half way there, I continue the tough grind to eliminate weight from many years of many pregnancies.  Any of you who are trying to lose weight and can’t seem to get through it… can’t seem to break through that invisible barrier or (no pun intended) scale the 80 foot brick wall… here’s my tip:  Just totally eliminate WHITE FOOD.  Really.  White or light food is a problem (for me anyway).  Remember, like I hear they say at al-anon meetings… (though I’ve never been to one!!) I have to overcome this addiction… I’m a carbohydrate addict and I love all butter-sugar-flour foods.  Soooo eliminating all BSF foods and the things that go with BSF foods has been the goal.  Sugar is white.  Bread is white. Waffles are white.  Crisco is white.  Potatoes are white.  French fries are white.  Salt is white.  Cookies are white.  Ice cream is white (and that includes chocolate or any other ice cream).  Wedding cake is white.  Coolwhip is white…  and so on.

So… that’s kind of been my criteria (not completely (!!!) but for the most part) I’m not eating butter-sugar-Crisco-flour-chocolate foods.   Now… the biggest challenge initially was the elimination of the morning lattés and mochas.  Just eliminating those two shots of chocolate a day probably helped tremendously—now it’s been a month since I’ve had a mocha and I don’t miss them too much.  I did taste one this morning that I was making for our guest because I wasn’t sure my new espresso machine was brewing the coffee right and she likes her coffees pretty sweet.  But that taste was small and did not lead to another taste or a cupful.  That’s the other thing I tried NOT to do.   I do have one meal a day that’s an Atkins bar which is very satisfying to me with a cup of coffee or Apple-Cinnamon Tea.   So then,  I have consciously made decisions NOT to try to get around foods by pretending I’d just have a little taste or just this one bite… da da da da da.  I generally don’t eat substitutes for those foods either.  I’ve just had to continually stay on my plan and not try to “cheat” the plan.  There is no personal gain for me in that… and there’s no weight loss in that either.  And yes, that means no pizza tonight—but I’ve had pizza lots of times in the past—that’s why I must not have it tonight.  So, thanks, Sabine, for asking and prodding me along.  Blessings to you as you seek to eliminate the extra!!

July 22, 2003  Standing in the garden with my friend eating fresh vegetables and raspberries… it’s a summer picture I’ll savour a long while—that, and the picture of our children playing ‘duck duck: goose’ on the driveway before they drove off.

It’s a tearful moment when friends drive off after a sweet time of fellowship and children playing together.  What a blessing it was to have our friends with us over the last several days.  You’d never have known that there were 17 of us here in our old farmhouse!  It was a wonderful thing to have them come, to see the healing and blessing of the LORD in their lives.  When their daughter was in a tragic accident two year ago, there was a tremendous concern that she would lose not only her leg, but perhaps even her life.  The LORD did indeed answer prayer in sparing her life and her little leg—now very changed—still allows her to walk and play with the children.  Nothing dampens her spirit—she has a charming way about her and what joy she brings!  Though many surgeries have been performed, and though perhaps many more will be needed, the family is strongly determined to go on with God, to trust also in Him and never ever turn from that faithful walk with Him.  It was and will continually be a blessing to have been a part of their lives through that tough trial and now to have been here to receive the good report…  for that’s what I saw in their traveling all these miles… a trip to bring a good report—and they surely did bring us great joy.

I just received a Tea newsletter  from Sandy’s tea society.  I’ve enjoyed receiving this monthly letter… it’s given me some good ideas and encouragement to do more special things.  My deep regret in these last couple of years has been the inability to do all the things in the way I’d hoped to because of too many things on the plate, so to speak.  I’m seeing this as a recurring theme—one I’m not too happy about—and so I’m rethinking the order of the days ahead.  Maybe you have overloaded your schedule in some areas and you know what I mean.  Of course, this may all be a reaction to burning the candle at both ends lately. 

July 21, 2003  Hello again!  Too much gabbing for blogging!   We’ve been having some sweet fellowship with friends staying with us over the last few days.  We’ve enjoyed laughs and good talks, praises for what the LORD has been doing and prayers for His plans for the future.  It’s a blessing to have friends near and far!

Another wonderful evening celebrating friendship in the LORD with friends here for our annual KlaHaYa Days backyard party!  We sure have a good time each year… I’ll put up some pictures soon!  We do praise the LORD for all His ways, His blessings and provision in the past year.  We were privileged to have our friends here from Colorado, to see the evidence of answered prayer in the life of their little daughter who was severely injured in an accident two years ago.  What a marvel it is to see her… to experience her sweet spirit and the joy of her life.

I was so grateful for my husband’s safe return from driving his mom’s moving truck to Indiana last week.  I’ll add some to this later!  He had a wonderful trip—uneventful, praise the LORD!  He got off to a good start:

Oh, the woes of computers… for some very odd reason, we’ve had some major trouble with our computer here in the kitchen.  ‘Seems I must’ve downloaded a font that was a bad or “corrupted ” file.  Just the sound of it was bothersome to me—anyway, we solved the problem and are up and running!  My mom sent me a link to a flower company for bulbs that ‘rodents’ don’t go for!  That caught my attention since we have moles in our yard from time to time and they love to eat up the plants. I hate to have them eat up the tulips and daffodils!!  I’m thinking of ordering from them for fall planting.  Can you believe it’s time to order fall bulbs?!?!?

I just received an issue of Creativity E-letter by Vicki Blizzard… I think maybe some of you might go for this crafting & stitching hints and ideas subscription newsletter.

July 16-18, 2003  Hello sweet friends!!  Too busy for bloggin’ this week.  But I wanted to put up a couple of addresses that really have some neat ideas for cooking treats and decorating the home.  there are some neat ideas from Nestlēs.   I have many things to make and bake for this weekend!  In addition to our plans for friday, our friends will be arriving tomorrow for a several day visit!  This old farmhouse will be bursting at the seams… all filled up with lots of talking and laughing—-everything except a lot of sleep! 

I am still searching for carafes for my latté makers.  Can you believe that two have broken?!?  We’ll be making hot and iced mochas and probably lots of sweet tea, too!

Another site that’s a favourite of my oldest daughter is The Company Store.  She looks at different sites and through books and some magazines for ideas for serving, setting up the home and decorating… I’m often in awe of her tenacity and zest for learning and applying new things.

We’re getting ready for our annual KlaHaYa days yard party… what a blessing we have received from the sweet fellowship of friends over the years—we pray this year will be an especially sweet time as we gather for fellowship, food and volleyball…

July 15, 2003  Our friends are coming for a visit and in trying to give concise directions over the phone, I wished I could just pull up a map for her to look at.  Well, the next time you are looking for an address or need to map out your driving route, you’ll have a good place to look up the address.  

There is a carnival being set up near out home and ohmygoodness what an attraction it is.  We’ve been thankful over the years for this carnival… it’s been a tremendous teaching tool here.  Over the years the children have watched the bright lights, faintly smelled the ‘fair-food’ and vaguely heard the music.  The lights from the Ferris wheel, the cotton candy, thrill of the games… all the things in the world that seem so fun and attractive… but then reality—reality hits and a carnival is seen for what it is: temporary entertainment of the flesh… carn-i-val—carnal.  We used the opportunity to teach the children about amusement… about the great expense of going round and round on a carnival ride and then getting off having gone nowhere.  Is that what this life’s about?  The interesting thing is that on Sunday night when the sun goes down and the lights are dimmed, the oh-so-fun rides and other attractions will literally fold up and drive away funded by the hundreds who tossed money into the ring… and left behind will be half eaten corn dogs, empty cotton candy cones, plastic cups and other garbage… and the carnival will be only a memory.  We ask the children and we ask ourselves:  what will remain of our life?  Will we leave behind a life of amusement and wasted money—having feasted on ‘spiritual’ junk food, and a bunch of garbage strewn about through the years of our lives? 

July 14, 2003 

This has been a very busy day at our house!  My mother graciously took our four older children to the grand opening of the Snohomish library this morning.  They were absolutely thrilled to go this morning—they’re always happy to go to the library, but this day was unlike any other!  The space!  The tables & chairs!  The size! the thousands of new volumes!  They were all so pleased with all that had been done! It’s the big news in our home today!

We had the most enjoyable time walking through Flower World today with my mom. It’s truly astonishing—the plants!  Flowers… trees… hanging baskets… garden supplies of every kind… it’s just flower world!  We did buy some flowers and my son bought some cacti.  He bought a cactus yesterday and now he’s totally hooked (not literally) on cactus (or cacti) as the case may be.

July 13, 2003  This is the day the LORD has made… we are rejoicing and are glad in it.  God is good all the time.  Even when it *seems* that things are not going well—all God’s ways are good and He is only good.  We praise Him!

July 12, 2003 Our daughter got a call from the local newspaper reporter regarding the grand opening of the new Snohomish Library and what it’s been like to not have access to the library for the last month.  Kathryn was surprised what was put in the article and what was left out based on the interview with the reporter.  We go to the library at a minimum of 3 times per week… and sometimes go daily to pick up and drop off books because of the ability to use the internet to reserve books, check on status of books in transit, and probably, more accurately, because we have lots of readers with lots of different interests.  It’s been the most invaluable tool for homeschooling!   Many times when books were unavailable, our older ones would make a request for the book(s) and the library ordered them!   We are anxious for Monday and the grand opening of the wonderful new library!  My mom’s going to take the four older children for the big event!!  I think Kathryn as well as T, S, & Hme would like to live as close to the new Library as our friends live: one block… a short walk to all those books… heaven on earth!

You know that “Do Not Call” registry I was talking about last week?  Well, read on…

I was looking on the net for instructions on replacing exterior doors and doors frames… and I came across this neat page about remodeling old homes— I know *nothing* about the site owner… I just like the before & after pictures.

July 11, 2003  Our daughter just signed up to receive a Sonnet a Day… she’s determined to read Shakespeare’s sonnets which she’ll receive in her inbox each morning.  She is such an inspiration to me—I’m telling you, I never cease to be amazed at her!  She’s reading War and Peace and while she reads, she keeps an online dictionary  as well as a French/English dictionary open.  She’s an avid reader—always eager to learn new things!!   If you’re looking for a particular book, why not try online—she has a new interest in ‘classics’… you just might find a book you’ve been wanting to read!

We’re continuing our painting… and painting… and painting .
This morning my mother in law arrived—what a blessing to see her again.  She and her husband have just retired.  He has been a missionary in Taiwan for over 40 years and since their marriage two years ago (both their spouses died in the last four years) they have been there together for these last two years (Mom and Dad–before he died—were missionaries to the Philippines for two terms and he was a pastor in the States for over 40 years).  They’ll very much miss the ministry there and the dear friends they’ve left behind, but they have great plans for the future… as he is a writer and has two book projects.  I’m just sorry they’re not going to be retiring here and will be cross country from us.

One of my most helpful books is the Naturally Healthy Pregnancy by Shonda Parker.  It is packed with information and answers to most every question I had in pregnancies. I just received her e-newsletter this afternoon.  What a blessing her life is as she is such an incredible resource not only for pregnancy but general health as well.

July 10, 2003  Our dear friends gave my husband a copy of the book Wild at Heart on CD.  I think this is the first time I’ve listened to a whole audio book.  It was pretty interesting and intense listening and canning… canning and listening.  You see, just like there’s a wild at heart man in every man, there’s a bit of trying to understand that wild heart of men by every woman.  Now, some don’t like to get too caught up in psychology or psychobabble as some call it… but there’re some very interesting presuppositions presented by John Eldredge regarding the heart of a man.  I’m trying to understand… boys—men.  See, I *know* what they do… I just don’t always understand *why* they do it…  O, I’m not talking about the ‘never stopping to ask for directions’ or being able to go to the mall, hunt down the shirt (or whatever) shoot it, bag it, and get back in the truck in less than a half hour.  Or, chew a sandwich or a cookie into the shape of a pistol,  or always, beginning at age 8, attempt to jump and touch things higher than themselves—I know that’s what they do… but why do they do it?  So, that’s why I read books about men… I love the men in my life… the LORD’s given my husband and me seven sons to train up into men.  It’s sobering.

July 9, 2003 We’ve had a pretty busy day today… this painting continues… and continues… I imagine everything that can be painted *will* be painted in the days to come… perhaps even getting the whole job completed in a month or so!  ‘Problem with painting one’s home is that so many other things go by the wayside and don’t get done.  Then, the home’s a mess–regular chores not being done—and even the outside’s a mess… and so it goes.  We’ve done some more cleaning inside the underside, too… but not so’s ya’d knowit from looking on the outside.  The great treat will be the visit from my mother in law and her husband.  My husband’s father died 3.5 years ago and my dad died three months before that… so it’s sort of hard for me to yet think of calling her new husband ‘dad’.  O, how grateful I am, though, for her visit—it’s been a long time since the last and it’ll be a long time till the next!

My friend wrote to say blogs are all the rage… and listed another who has a blog… (doug phillips – vision forum) but I thought this was pretty funny on employee blogging—Microsoft, no less!

Since my husband’s been working such long hours, he treated us to dinner tonight and what a fun blessing it was.  Dinner was followed by a trip to Lowe’s.  We *love* to go to the hardware store!  I miss Eagle… but I’m beginning to like Lowe’s better.  At first, the little local hardware store called it Less Of What Eagle Sold… nyet, nyet, nyet. L-O-W-E-S.  Guess they were a tad intimidated by the new big boy in town.  Our little hardware store is still one of my favourite places to go, though!  They have lots of hard to find things for old houses.

July 8, 2003  As if this day of visiting wasn’t enough… I was just catching up on some news… Crown Financial Ministries’ Larry Burkett  has passed into glory.

Friends sent a card with the sweetest return address label—a family lined up and their address underneath.  So, I did a little looking and discovered the site and enjoyed looking at all the labels this company offers.  They don’t have ‘large’ family labels… ‘guess you could order a few sets of them or make a special request…or just make up some of your own on the computer!!

Our friends stopped by this evening to bring us some: CHERRIES!  We suggested that they take them to some other friend’s and surprise THEM!  So, they will… but they first stayed for tea and a visit.  She’s the one I keep Stash Licorice Tea on hand for… (No one here likes it ;-( but she sure does and likes it that we have it here for her!!)

Well… many of the cherries are canned now, and with much thanks to our Norpro cherry stoner!!  I’m wondering what in the world was I doing with the hand-killer-metal-looped-“punch”-pitter I’ve been using for over 20 years! Pitting and filling the jars was a breeze with the stoner.  One thing, though, it sort of leaves specks of cherry juice in its vicinity! But I don’t care! It’s speedy and so neat to use!  I was glad I had on an apron!!  Then I was glad for that Ready Mop!! (Uh, no, I’m not a rep!)

Make a cherry pie to freeze  or try this recipe:
My Cheery Cherry Pie
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recipe(9 inch) double crust pie
5 cups fresh cherries; pitted
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 1/3 cups sugar
1/8  teaspoon *each*  cloves, nutmeg, cinnamon
1/3 cup all purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon almond extract
2 tablespoons butter
Line a 9-inch pie pan with pastry. Combine cherries, lemon juice, sugar, flour, salt, spices and almond extract. Pour into unbaked pie shell, and dot with the butter. Cover with top crust, and seal edges. I like to poke an outline of a heart in the center to allow the steam to escape during baking.  Sprinkle with milk and sprinkle with sugar (about a tablespoon or two). ***Bake at 400º about an hour or until done. Serve with whipped cream or ice cream. ***To freeze, omit the baking step, wrap well and freeze.  When you’re ready to serve it, bake frozen pie at 400ºF  1 hour and 10 minutes or until done.

July 7, 2003
A friend stopped by to bring Kathryn a gift this morning.  What a blessing the visit was.  Her gift is so pretty.  You might make one and give to someone… and it is this: take a pretty teacup & saucer and make a bouquet of flowers in the cup.  The cup & flowers match K’s room and will look so pretty there.
Another friend stopped in to visit and we sure had a good time catching up on old times, and most importantly, we got to meet and hold her new baby.  O, what a blessing this baby is to her and her husband.  After many years, many tears, three losses, the LORD blessed them with this little one.

Now I’m on my way to pick up cases of cherries to can! Our daughters will help with the canning and we hope to get them all done tonight and tomorrow… but we’ll be sure and save out a box for snacking, though!!

I got an interesting email this morning telling of a man who is walking from Prudhoe Bay, Alaska to Washington, D.C. to: Raise awareness of alcohol-related illnesses and tragedies and to raise money for MADD and the Betty Ford Center and to create a scrapbook of persons adversely affected by alcohol. You can read a web log of the journey.  It’s interesting and there are beautiful. 

Again, as with other sites to which I refer you, many times the sites are not “Christian” but I’d *never* intentionally send you to a site that would be offensive—but I could never be sure of all *their* recommended or linked sites—so don’t wander around!!  Just beware when traveling the net—beware and be in prayer.  I always think it’s the greatest tool for good while streaming alongside the most damaging pipeline of sewage and carnage being pumped into homes all over the world.  Think I’m adamantly opposed to pornography?  Absolutely.

Our daughter in law built a workbench for his garage for his Father’s Day present—yes, she’s amazing!  She bought the plans for the bench—did all the work, which included dove tailed drawers and several other intricate features, and surprised him.  So when I talked with her about dad needing to make a cabinet for our kitchen (as opposed to buying a manufactured one) she suggested I just look for plans and so I’ve been looking around and came across a great site for woodworking projects for the kitchen.

July 6, 2003 This is the day which the LORD hath made;
we will rejoice and be glad in it. Psalms 118.24

July 5, 2003
Every wise woman buildeth her house; but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 14.1

We celebrated Independence Day two different places yesterday… Our friends always have a huge 4th of July party—BBQing, presentations, Root beer floats, fireworks and S’mores by the fire in the later evening  (We sadly 🙁 had to  miss a few of these things this year because of having to leave early).  We then spent the rest of the evening at our son & daughter-in-law’s home.  The had friends in from their church, BBQ, S’mores and volleyball.  Our daughter-in-law carved a watermelon whale…and filled the hollowed out melon with different types of fruit & melon balls.  [by the way… we were looking at that site and thought it would be neat to do a baby carriage for a shower sometime]

I just completed the registration form for the National Do Not Call Registry.  It took about ten minutes to complete the process of registering by entering the phone numbers on which we do not wish to receive solicitors’ calls.  It’ll take about three months before we’ll see a notable reduction in calls… the downside is that placing your number on the National Do Not Call Registry will stop most, but not all, telemarketing calls. You may still receive calls from political organizations, charities, telephone surveyors or companies with which you have an existing business relationship.

We have so many projects to work on around our home.  For years we’ve needed  to work on cabinets, walls, flooring, etc.  I noticed a neat site that shows step by step instructions and demos on how to do just about anything.  What I was looking at was flooring.

July 4, 2003 
May Americans turn to the LORD God as we celebrate Independence Day.  We thank the LORD for the privilege of living in America, and are grateful to the men and women who’ve laid down their lives in defense of freedom and offer thanks to their loved ones.
Independence Day… whatever happened to the signers of this document?
America the Beautiful  May God shed His grace on thee.
Another beautiful card to see… from sea to shining sea.


July 3, 2003
I was sent an email with a link to Lady Liberty (which didn’t work) and so I typed it into Google… saw a bunch of links and came across this one dedicated to America.  It really is amazingly filled with articles and links… and a situation where someone is ‘threatening’ them (because of ‘copyright’ infringement) and so apparently the Lady Liberty story there has been removed.  It just shows what a terribly brash and arrogant world we live in today.  These people (site-owners) seem gracious and not wanting to cause any trouble.  Anyway… I continued searching and I think this is the Lady Liberty the email referenced—though it’s not the same link.

Oh, mothers… it’s a pretty tough go sometimes.  Some days are twice as long as we can bear the work and others are twice as short as we need to complete the work.  There really is no ‘getting back to normal’ and there’s no day coming soon when it’ll all be easy.  Every day’s a new normal and everyday is the last day it’ll ever be like that again and every tomorrow will be different than today and will be harder in some ways and easier in others.  One thing I know for sure… it’s all over real fast… and when little boys grow up, it’s so over.  One time I wrote Why am I a Mommy? to encourage mama’s of boys.  Oh it’s a pretty incredible experience to be given the gift of motherhood; and some days we just feel like nothing goes right and we “can’t do it” —however—like my friend just said, we can’t do it—but He can—and *will* as we trust and obey.

July 2, 2003 I was looking on the net today for ideas for Friday (4th of July) so I saw some “Patriotic” Desserts, and some more 4th of July ideas and so I just might make and take this Dilled-Artichoke potato salad to one picnic and then I’m sort of thinking of this Red, White and Blue Pie or Fruit Pizza (I sort of make a loose version of my sister-in-law Katherine’s Fruit Pizazz recipe) to take to our son & daughter in law’s in the evening.  To add to the celebratory mood of Independence Day,  I bought some little flags at the grocery store and some 4″ pots of petunias in red, white and blue (well, deep violet—it’s close!) and I planted them in some planters that already have ivy growing in them—looks nice.  Oh working in the garden… Weeds.  Sin.  Weeds. So I began writing a Welcome Home message…  Hopefully it’s completed this evening.  Our daughter is BBQ-ing tonight—something we’re doing a lot lately… thought this Honey-barbecued Chicken looked good and so will try it next time.  All this food is tempting… but I’m attempting to hold fast to my “no white food” deal till I lose this weight!

July 1, 2003  Twenty four years ago today our first child was born.  I had no idea that day what the doctor meant when he handed me my son and said… it’s time to start letting go of him right now.  Silly, I thought that was… he was just born!  I understand those words of wisdom today.

These are the longest [daylight] days of the year and here in the Northwest it means that even at 10pm the sky is light.  These are also the longest work days of the year for my husband (and sons).  There are some days that it seems he’s gone sun-up to sun-down.  We’re grateful to the LORD for lots of work this time of year; because of the seasonal nature of his business, winters are slow!  I need to work on his webpage… it sort of looks outdated and there are still too many “under construction!” pages.

We got a call from the library today and they said there had been a  reporter there asking about the ill-effects [on patrons] due to the closing of the old and the opening of the new library.  She then went on to share that she told the reporter that she *did* know a family in particular who’d probably been discouraged to not be able to use the library… yes… it was ours.  Our daughter talked at length with the reporter, and she thought she was quite nice.