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Comment on Wear a dress and go as a girl… by pamela ♥

pamela ♥ — Fri, 18 May 2012 15:24:05 +0000

Thank you for writing, Elena — I really appreciate how you’ve succinctly articulated the matter in this way: “I think it’s the overall effect the individual creates.” This is the crux of what I’m wishing to communicate! Thank you and may God bless you and your home. <3

Comment on Wear a dress and go as a girl… by Elena

Elena — Fri, 18 May 2012 14:02:36 +0000

I firmly believe that men should look like men and women should look like women. In my own personal life, I wear dresses and skirts the vast majority of the time because my husband prefers it and it’s one small thing I can do for him. If it’s really cold outside, I may wear jeans from time to time as I don’t see that as being wrong or less feminine. When the Bible was written, there were no pants at that time so I don’t view them as intrinsically male or female. I don’t believe a woman wearing pants looks masculine as long as her hair, blouse/sweater/top and accessories are clearly feminine (what I’m not crazy about is a woman with truly short hair and tailored pants and blouse). Also, I don’t view a Scotsman wearing a kilt or a Middle Eastern man wearing a flowing robe as being feminine either. I think it’s the overall effect the individual creates. JMO.

Comment on Captivated by Sarah

Sarah — Fri, 04 May 2012 15:04:53 +0000

Hi Miss Pamela,
I REALLY appreciate your blog!!! This particular post made me think of a conversation yesterday with a co-worker. I attend a university here in Alabama, and next year, as part of the tuition package, every student will be receiving an iPad. The reason is because we “are moving into the time where technology will be the primary means of communication”, and we “need to be technologically smart”.

This saddens me. I have a simple cell phone, and a laptop (bought for school projects since I don’t live on campus). Unless you count my hairdryer, toaster, and clock/alarm/radio, these are the only two pieces of technology I have. And some days I wish I didn’t have them. We have become WAY to dependent (IMHO) upon technology, and it is like a drug! My brother, who is in high school, was bemoaning the fact that people will freak out over losing their phone, but think nothing of losing their virginity.

I want to recommend a book, called “Intimacy with the Almighty” by Charles Swindoll. It’s a small book, easily read in a day, but it packs a powerful punch. He discusses how overloaded with communication our society has become, and consequently how shallow we are. Technology may have increased communication, but it hasn’t increased intimacy. And that really is what we need- intimacy with others, but more importantly, intimacy with God. Ps. 46:10.

I really do believe Satan is using the “increasing need” for technology to destroy us and this country. He is doing it in a cunning manner, slowly, quietly, unobtrusively- because he is the Great Deceiver. We are becoming isolated- from each other, and more importantly, from God.

Thank you for your courage and wisdom to speak out about your addiction. The past few days I have been wondering if I myself haven’t fallen into the same trap! I have been enjoying the blogs of like-minded people, and have found it very encouraging. However, I have noticed that I am spending more time than usual on the computer, and that concerns me. I wonder, if at some point, science will “prove” that all this technology is bad for us. I already know that turning off visual technology helps us sleep better because flickering images trigger our brains to stay alert. But that’s not counting to environmental toxins in these devices, the wireless waves being transmitted, etc. I think next week I may try to take a technology sabbatical- and I think that will be so nice!

I’m sorry this seems random, and I don’t usually respond, but this is a subject I feel strongly about. Thanks for letting me comment!

Comment on Captivated by pamela ♥

pamela ♥ — Tue, 01 May 2012 00:38:58 +0000

Thank you for writing, Keri! I’ll think on this. )
It was great to have the opportunity to see him – talk with his family – and to be renewed in my desire and determination to communicate with mothers the exceeding damage internet addiction can and does do in homes and families. As if motherhood doesn’t go by fast enough, the motherhood of a distracted mother? twice as fast. You hear from mothers, over and over, O my, where’d the time go? A distracted mother says, O my, what happened in that time and where did the time go? Thank you for your zeal, for your dedication and attention to what’s happening – what’s important. God bless you!

And, yes, I have been in prayer for you. Talked to WendyB and already have been praying along with her/you for good health, strength, lower blood pressure and perfect birth. ) with love for you, too. ♥

Comment on Captivated by KeriMae

KeriMae — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 19:58:40 +0000

I share your heart on this so much. Husband and I will be interviewing Philip Tefler of Captivated real soon for our podcast, so if there’s anything on your own heart to ask him, feel free to let me know.

With love,
Keri Mae (8 days overdue with baby #7….)

Comment on It’s easy to forget some things. by pamela ♥

pamela ♥ — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 18:26:13 +0000

Thank you, Lanita! I miss you, too! Thank you for your encouragement.

Comment on It’s easy to forget some things. by Lanita

Lanita — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 12:18:10 +0000

I read Tim’s article yesterday. I never knew some of those things about Mr. Colson. But I too am glad that he addressed these issues so I could better understand him as a whole person. We all have our faults and short comings and shouldn’t be afraid for others to see our human side and acknowledge where we fall short. I think it helps us to die to self more when we are transparent. Thank you for sharing this, Pamela<3 (miss you!!!)

Comment on The day after… by Tammy

Tammy — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 11:27:28 +0000

Amen and amen!! Excellent post.

Comment on for the woman in the mirror by Marcela

Marcela — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 14:50:35 +0000

Thank you for these words! The timing in coming across this post can only be through God’s hand!

Comment on another birthday… by pamela ♥

pamela ♥ — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 04:55:41 +0000

Thank you so much, Linny for taking the time to write. O, how the time passes and God continues to be so merciful and loving. I continue to pray that God will redeem my squandered days and help me to be an encouragement bu using the things He’s taught me. Your note is sweet to receive, not simply bcz I appreciate the blessing you are, but also that I admire and respect you and want to thank you for your influence and encouragement through the years.

God bless you more and more. ♥