You know why this is important to me?  Because marriage matters.  Because God’s Word matters.  Because Faith matters.  Because children need an example to emulate, a pattern to follow and path to walk.  Because family matters.  Because history matters.  Because children need a godly heritage to pass on to their own children’s children.  Because God’s design matters.

Marriage matters to me.  Because I have seen the enemy attempt to thwart God’s design and godly seed.  Because first it was an attack on the children — destroy the faithful line – then an attack on the marriages — destroy the fruitful vine; now it’s all-out war on the family — destroy God’s design.

Another couple is facing divorce… another man has left his wife… another woman has left her husband… another family has been torn apart… another marriage has become a shipwreck.

Marriage matters. Because God designed marriage to be (among other things) a picture of Christ and the church – His bride.

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So, yeah…I ♥ marriage.  I’ve seen a lot of great marriages.  I’ve seen more not-so-great marriages and still more really bad marriages — that is if I use the term “marriage” synonymously with the term “relationship.”  In reality – marriage and relationship are not the synonymous.  But for the sake of this conversation and for the sake of understanding, I’ll use it that way when talking about a covenent relationship between a man and a woman — bcz that’s what marriage really is.  It’s not just a paper declaring an event has occured and it’s not just a ceremony witnessed by at least two others.  It’s a covenent established by God signifying the joining of two lives – the blending of two halves the making of twain, one flesh.  That’s a beautiful picture – but so lost on so many who are married but don’t live it, don’t understand it, don’t treasure it and don’t worry about the dire consequences for being careless about marriage and the message that gives the watching Word and, especially what it says about the Lord, the bishop and overseer of our souls.

I loved the movie: Fireproof.  O, I said that, didn’t I.  Well, may I say again: I loved the movie Fireproof.

There are so many marvelous helps, methods of encouragement — things to do to turn a relationship around that the Lord can take your mess and make into the marriage *He* designed and created it to be.  But you’ve got to be willing to do whatever it takes.Life Innovation’s Prepare-Enrich has and interesting marriage quiz you and your spouse can take: Here.   And… if at all possible, please go see the movie: Fireproof. You will be so blessed and your marriage will be helped – no matter where you’re at in marriage – good, bad, great, terrible, agonized or elated… you will take something away from this movie that will deepen your relationship with your spouse – but more importantly, with the Lord.

Fireproof your Marriage

Wes and I went to see Fireproof  last night.  I’m telling you it was a powerful, God honouring, insightful and inspiring movie.  The message was that powerful.  And it wasn’t bcz it was a message about something I’m passionate about - though it is – it’s bcz the underlying message of the Good News of Jesus Christ was the central theme woven in the message that marriage is a covenant and no one/no marriage is beyond hope.  I would go see it again today.  I will buy it and I would, if I could, buy a copy of the movie for every couple I know (couples from engagement beyond golden anniversary).  I would, if I could today, buy The Love Dare Journal for every couple I know (see a sample chapter here); No kidding.

The power of the Gospel – the power of God to save, restore, rekindle love, secure commitment to the covenant of marriage, to power of God to work in lives of husbands and wives… to honour, respect, forgive, love and cherish one another… this is the theme of the movie.  This is the powerful message Fireproof presents.

Now, I know there are critics mocking this movie and punching gaping hole in whatever flaws they perceive the movie to have.  And there are those who, for seared consciences, are mocking the “religious” answers, approach or reaction to life’s trials and temptations – as if to be disappointed that the movie didn’t go the direction most marriages on the brink of divorce go or the direction physical or emotional affairs go.  It’s pretty incredible that a movie of the caliber of Fireproof is even playing in mainstream theaters.

I suppose there’s probably some shock disappointment, by those same sarcastic, hollywood plastic faces and movie critics, and they’re probably incensed that the movie contained no nudity, no gratuitous sex, no philandering, no swearing, no omg’s, no crude language, no drinking, no drugs, no gambling, none of their favourite ‘stars’ and nothing to bolster Barak Obama’s standing in the polls.

My prayer is that this will not become just another hyped up, trinkets and trash, mega’church’ gizmo to attract masses – 40 days of whatever and the marvelous intrinsic value, message and intent is lost to much making of merchandise. (Ezekiel 26.12 &  2Peter 2.2-3)

♥ Go see it!!

What a phenomenal marvel that the protein molecule that holds all our cells together — the glue that holds us together — is in the shape of a cross. Big bang? Chance? Evolution? I don’t think so.

O, how GREAT our God. The Matchless, Marvelous, Ineffable God.